Ok guys, now things get complicated and I need some proper advise. My lawyer is kindda incapable of giving right advise and ask me file and file but not giving me a clearer picture. They just want to make money to some extend.
I was about to file 2 days ago until my lawyer postponed till early next week. This is what the situation in a nutshell is:
I am going to file, and she was notified by me. I told her that I am filing based on "Unreasonable Behaviour" and "3rd Party" involved which I will be puting that guy's name and details on paper. However, she sort of panick and her first message to me was, can I not file on the grounds of the 3rd Party? I begin to see some motive when she asked this and then following which, she said: "If I don't agree how?". To put it simply, she may fight this case if I file based on 3rd Party.
Essentially filing is inevitable at this stage, am I going to be fair and file based on grounds that both can't get along and cook up some stories or based on actual fact that I did caught her in the hotel? I do not have a PI nor a receipt proving that he and she is in the hotel nor pictures. Only SMS/Whatsapp conversation but that may relate to a intrusion of privacy and this app that I installed may have reasonable doubt if used in Court and the fact that I saw her coming down from the hotel. the hotel requires key card to gain excess up or down the premises... Quite obvious that she checked in.
Essentially, I am not prepared to fight this and just want to get it over and done with but when I hear that the way she discuss about the filing, she wants to fight the case and I cannot simply just be off-guard. I have began to be wary of things and I think it is ridiculous.
In additional, she cited 2 years unofficial seperation or just file a 3-4 years official seperation. In my mind, I rather just call it quits. I had enough and my work is slightly affected.
Or should I just leave it status quo and then file in the near future based on both can't get along?
Any kind advise here?
P/s: Recommendation on proper lawyers? Those I find really CMI... Charging me 3k to 4k for consented case still cannot give me good advise.