italianosportivo
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Blur, take some time off to cool the both of yourself. It is very very difficult but you guys need to really reflect. Trust me, being together and try to resolve some times may affect how you perceive what should or should not do, believe or don't believe, right or wrong. Think seperately, calmly and more importantly, find yourself first and this applies to both of you.
Never leave the marriage because of hate. It's more painful. Why and what will also hurt you more. Find yourself, open the heart and be the one forgiving the person. 2 wrong doesn't make one right and remember in my first few post, "to err is human, to forgive is devine". You are irrationale now and he made a mistake, if both don't take a step back and think, both are trying to force each other out of the same door... will this give happiness? No. You too ain't perfect, you make mistakes too and when the situation is turned, you would also want the other party to forgive you and move on and not dwell on it like what happened to me for past few years of my marriage. It becomes a ticking time bomb.
Love yourself, your kid and your husband but I guess you both really need time to think properly. Don't make the same mistake as I did.
Never leave the marriage because of hate. It's more painful. Why and what will also hurt you more. Find yourself, open the heart and be the one forgiving the person. 2 wrong doesn't make one right and remember in my first few post, "to err is human, to forgive is devine". You are irrationale now and he made a mistake, if both don't take a step back and think, both are trying to force each other out of the same door... will this give happiness? No. You too ain't perfect, you make mistakes too and when the situation is turned, you would also want the other party to forgive you and move on and not dwell on it like what happened to me for past few years of my marriage. It becomes a ticking time bomb.
Love yourself, your kid and your husband but I guess you both really need time to think properly. Don't make the same mistake as I did.