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Hi, Rem
Already replied your mail but forgot to mention what you have said in your previous post:
“remember to keep all the receipts of everything u spent on this pregnancy and babyâ€
Its funny and really made my day although don’t know how he is going to pay since he is still studying.
To shanna, matka and others
Thanks for sharing your stories and sorry for the late reply due to my work schedule.
No, I am not trying to hide the news from him, just don’t feel like telling now. Of course, he will eventually know about it and how he will react to it, I am not sure but hope it will not go down to resolve through contract or legal agreement, that’s really ugly.
Yes, I went to see the gynea with my mom (dad still not talking to me) and wow….ok..I didn’t realise that foetus can have such strong and fast heartbeat..ya…it’s a life for sure.
Ok..beside waiting and preparing for the baby to deliver…what are the things to plan/prepare….my mom will help me to look after the baby.
My immediate urgent issue is my work.
For Shanna, how did you tell your boss when you are pregnant and what is he/her response knowing you are still single? How did you colleague took to the news? I am kind of in a dilemma now on how am I going to tell my boss (he) about this matter. My current job involve travelling as I was in a regional job. Quite frustrated now, I was recently given a bigger role and my career is just moving along smoothly and to think that I may have to resign from it as I will not able to travel when I am in the later stage of the pregnancy.
Rem,
Forgot to congrats you on your coming wedding and finding a bf that is able to accept your past and gal. Yes, some mentioned that single mom is no big deal in current time but honestly speaking, it is still a taboo subject as you can ask around any guy who can accept a single mom as their spouse, 9.5/10 will not, even if the 0.5% yes, he will be under pressure from their family and their family will look at you differently, who don’t wish to have a V or “clean†gal as their wife or DIL. I know my mom is worried…on the way to the clinic…she asked me whether I am very sure that I want to do this alone..whether I want her to help to talk to my bf’s family…I said no and told her not to worry…although I appeared nonchalant but do I really not think about it?..no..i thought about it …the worst case is to be a single mom for the rest of my life…can I do it?...i am not sure..the future is too far away for me to worry….but I know I am on a path of no return as I said before…people might said that I should not think so much and concentrate on my pregnancy….but can I not think about it sometime…I am just a normal gal….I still wish to have a family of my own in the future…this is a life changing decision for me….
Felt angry and frustrated sometime, nobody seem to understand me and nothing seem to go the way I wanted.
Already replied your mail but forgot to mention what you have said in your previous post:
“remember to keep all the receipts of everything u spent on this pregnancy and babyâ€
Its funny and really made my day although don’t know how he is going to pay since he is still studying.
To shanna, matka and others
Thanks for sharing your stories and sorry for the late reply due to my work schedule.
No, I am not trying to hide the news from him, just don’t feel like telling now. Of course, he will eventually know about it and how he will react to it, I am not sure but hope it will not go down to resolve through contract or legal agreement, that’s really ugly.
Yes, I went to see the gynea with my mom (dad still not talking to me) and wow….ok..I didn’t realise that foetus can have such strong and fast heartbeat..ya…it’s a life for sure.
Ok..beside waiting and preparing for the baby to deliver…what are the things to plan/prepare….my mom will help me to look after the baby.
My immediate urgent issue is my work.
For Shanna, how did you tell your boss when you are pregnant and what is he/her response knowing you are still single? How did you colleague took to the news? I am kind of in a dilemma now on how am I going to tell my boss (he) about this matter. My current job involve travelling as I was in a regional job. Quite frustrated now, I was recently given a bigger role and my career is just moving along smoothly and to think that I may have to resign from it as I will not able to travel when I am in the later stage of the pregnancy.
Rem,
Forgot to congrats you on your coming wedding and finding a bf that is able to accept your past and gal. Yes, some mentioned that single mom is no big deal in current time but honestly speaking, it is still a taboo subject as you can ask around any guy who can accept a single mom as their spouse, 9.5/10 will not, even if the 0.5% yes, he will be under pressure from their family and their family will look at you differently, who don’t wish to have a V or “clean†gal as their wife or DIL. I know my mom is worried…on the way to the clinic…she asked me whether I am very sure that I want to do this alone..whether I want her to help to talk to my bf’s family…I said no and told her not to worry…although I appeared nonchalant but do I really not think about it?..no..i thought about it …the worst case is to be a single mom for the rest of my life…can I do it?...i am not sure..the future is too far away for me to worry….but I know I am on a path of no return as I said before…people might said that I should not think so much and concentrate on my pregnancy….but can I not think about it sometime…I am just a normal gal….I still wish to have a family of my own in the future…this is a life changing decision for me….
Felt angry and frustrated sometime, nobody seem to understand me and nothing seem to go the way I wanted.