The tea ceremony to my hubby's family will be at my new house on my AD, meaning that Hubby's family will be there before us. What if some of them dunno and enter to see our room? cos they never been to my new house b4....Dun thk my MIL, his aunts or SILs understand an chuang and nobody shd enter our bedroom after an chuang. How ar...?
"An Chuang (安床)"
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Hi all,
I'm confuse of this an chuan. As i'll be staying with my PIL after wedding and the room he is now using will be our room,can we still use the bed frame and just buy a new matress?any advise?
Hi Cheryl Poh,u mention that no one is allow to enter including the couple after an chuan, so even want to get something in the room like clothes,doc, etc... also cannot enter?
I'm confuse of this an chuan. As i'll be staying with my PIL after wedding and the room he is now using will be our room,can we still use the bed frame and just buy a new matress?any advise?
Hi Cheryl Poh,u mention that no one is allow to enter including the couple after an chuan, so even want to get something in the room like clothes,doc, etc... also cannot enter?
wah.... 3rd day then can enter? i think we will still go into the room cos quite troublesome esp if staying with ILs for the time being.... but as long as it's just the couple, i think should be okay. But hor, my aunt told me it's just rituals only and most of my cousins didn't an the bed and she say, as long as it's a new bed can already lor..... simplicity is the best.
adelinekhoo
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Hi Bugbear,
If i'm nt wrong, the reason for getting a boy to jump on ur bed is to bless u with a baby boy. U know la, in chinese beliefs boy is to carry the family line. So i guess no pt to get a girl girl to jump unless u want ur first baby to be a girl.
If i'm nt wrong, the reason for getting a boy to jump on ur bed is to bless u with a baby boy. U know la, in chinese beliefs boy is to carry the family line. So i guess no pt to get a girl girl to jump unless u want ur first baby to be a girl.
el,
AC have to be a wk or 2 wks before your AD lor...But can be same day as your GDL lor...I will be doing it together on the same day =)
aurorin,
An chunag is to be done at your new hse or on your new bed lor...
Bugbear,
you need a new mattress, a new set of bedsheet, dried longans,red dates, angpow and oranges lor..
AC have to be a wk or 2 wks before your AD lor...But can be same day as your GDL lor...I will be doing it together on the same day =)
aurorin,
An chunag is to be done at your new hse or on your new bed lor...
Bugbear,
you need a new mattress, a new set of bedsheet, dried longans,red dates, angpow and oranges lor..
newbbi: HmMm okie.. but my new bed is in my ILs place and we are not going to sleep there very much.. since we are staying at my parents house on my old bed for the time being.. ahh.. guess we will just do the ceremony with the new bed for symbolic gesture at ILs house. Thanks!
paulinelau
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adelinekhoo
New Member
hey all,
i did nt AC fo my AD then i'm doing my reno now and be shifting over to my new hse soon. is it too late to do AC now..??
i did nt AC fo my AD then i'm doing my reno now and be shifting over to my new hse soon. is it too late to do AC now..??
paulinelau
New Member
Hm.... Sorry, I started the request before I read the previous Archive. I think Caroline has stopped surfing this forum, so please dun send in the request anymore. However, I think you can retrieve a list on An Chuang in the previous Archive. Please refer to that. Thks.
Pls advise if it is really neccessary to An Chuang? Me and Hubby staying in our new house for about a year liao and thus the bed is only a year old and we seldom go back and sleep. We are aware that we can change the mattress only but that cost easily a few hundred bucks!! Even if we are to keep the mattress, we dun have extra space for that cos all rooms already have bed and mattress... any of you never An Chuang?? Is it ok? Pls advise
Hi Gals,
My scenario is like this:
BF & I lived together, we haven't hv ROM as yet. We intend to get married on 1 Jan. An Chuang should falls on 22Dec.We already purchased a Queen bed and already slept on it. We do not intend to buy a new one. Will there be bad things will happen to us? Pls advise.
Thanks
My scenario is like this:
BF & I lived together, we haven't hv ROM as yet. We intend to get married on 1 Jan. An Chuang should falls on 22Dec.We already purchased a Queen bed and already slept on it. We do not intend to buy a new one. Will there be bad things will happen to us? Pls advise.
Thanks
mushloom
yap, heard about boy jumping on the bed from mil when we did our an-chuan. she even suggest the boy to pee on the bed!!! but, anyway, what happened in the end is that the boy invited 'fly kite', didn't turn up (phew, fortunately!), and so, we don't have to sleep on the urine soaked matress
Chanel
well, all these are just rituals & procedures passed down thru generations and mostly guidelines.
Feel that if you are not superstitious, then, don't worry about all these things.
My bed too had been slept on already too when they do the an-chuan for the wedding. we only merely change the sheets to those red wedding ones.
yap, heard about boy jumping on the bed from mil when we did our an-chuan. she even suggest the boy to pee on the bed!!! but, anyway, what happened in the end is that the boy invited 'fly kite', didn't turn up (phew, fortunately!), and so, we don't have to sleep on the urine soaked matress
Chanel
well, all these are just rituals & procedures passed down thru generations and mostly guidelines.
Feel that if you are not superstitious, then, don't worry about all these things.
My bed too had been slept on already too when they do the an-chuan for the wedding. we only merely change the sheets to those red wedding ones.
blissfulme
New Member
Hi Aurorin,
hope u are still looking at this thread. FInally I found someone in same situation as me.
For my case, both FH and myself have our own flats purchased with our parents' names (before we even met each other lah).. so now after marriage, I hope to stay in my own flat and my FH also agreed (becoz my future SILs are having the Master Bedroom in his house, and there is alot of culture shock.. I tried staying with them on & off for past 2 years, still cannot make it).
Wonder can anyone advise me? An Chuang at my place will do? or PIL's side must also have? Coz we will only buy our new bed at my place.
2ndly, anyone has problem with hubby staying at wife's house after marriage? Becoz they said this sounds like the man is marrying into the wife's household. BUt for my FH, he doesnt mind..coz we are in the new generation already. Just worried abt his family and relatives.. sighzzz
hope u are still looking at this thread. FInally I found someone in same situation as me.
For my case, both FH and myself have our own flats purchased with our parents' names (before we even met each other lah).. so now after marriage, I hope to stay in my own flat and my FH also agreed (becoz my future SILs are having the Master Bedroom in his house, and there is alot of culture shock.. I tried staying with them on & off for past 2 years, still cannot make it).
Wonder can anyone advise me? An Chuang at my place will do? or PIL's side must also have? Coz we will only buy our new bed at my place.
2ndly, anyone has problem with hubby staying at wife's house after marriage? Becoz they said this sounds like the man is marrying into the wife's household. BUt for my FH, he doesnt mind..coz we are in the new generation already. Just worried abt his family and relatives.. sighzzz
Hi,
Since I already slept on my bed, how the an chuang going to be? Will I need to do extra things? Someone told me I need to buy Pamelo leaves (I think is Pamelo leaves)to spread it over the bed (in a way to clean the bed) Is this true? If yes, what is the next steps? Or do you have any other way you can share with me?
Thanks
Chanel
Since I already slept on my bed, how the an chuang going to be? Will I need to do extra things? Someone told me I need to buy Pamelo leaves (I think is Pamelo leaves)to spread it over the bed (in a way to clean the bed) Is this true? If yes, what is the next steps? Or do you have any other way you can share with me?
Thanks
Chanel
desertrosie
New Member
Hi all, I just had my wedding in 30 sept.
An chuang is very easy
My fengsui guy Yulongzhi said don't have to change mattress at all. Just new bed sheet is good enough. you must have a good date to do it and someone with a good life to help u do it.
I had posted my things need at
http://www.singaporebrides.com/forumboard/messages/6/320434.html?1129165245
Go take a look.
An chuang is very easy
My fengsui guy Yulongzhi said don't have to change mattress at all. Just new bed sheet is good enough. you must have a good date to do it and someone with a good life to help u do it.
I had posted my things need at
http://www.singaporebrides.com/forumboard/messages/6/320434.html?1129165245
Go take a look.
desertrosie
New Member
After an chuang, the bedroom shld be block out from other pple except bride and groom. Nobody to sleep or touch the bed till the AD when the little boy start jumping on the bed. boy jumping on bed is to bring in boy into the family. After tea cerenomy at my huddy hse we proceed to new hse to do the new couple goes to their new room cerenomy. that's my huddy carries me to our new bed.
After wedding, the thing shld left it next to the bed till mould start develop on the Hwaguay den consider good luck. Then throw everything away. Till now the stuff is still on my bedside table.
After wedding, the thing shld left it next to the bed till mould start develop on the Hwaguay den consider good luck. Then throw everything away. Till now the stuff is still on my bedside table.
blissfulme
New Member
hi jane and cait,
thanks for the encouragement..
hmm i think an-chuang like wat desertrosie said, no nid chg brand new mattress.. juz brand new bed sheets will do
thanks for the encouragement..
hmm i think an-chuang like wat desertrosie said, no nid chg brand new mattress.. juz brand new bed sheets will do
