Hmmm I got my wedding report from my geomancer who tabulated everything for me.
I only rem some points as he mentioned ALOT and I'll just get my aunt to check with him when the date is nearer.
1) Someone was asking about what is a yan ji earlier. As told by my geomancer, it is small round pieces of lead pieces that resembles half the size of a 1 cent coin. That is needed during an chuang as Yan, means yuan in hokkien so that the daughter in law will have good relationship with your family. In tradition, the daughter in law also do place some yan ji in her shoes during the wedding day and some beneath the bra, as told by my aunt, for better relationships. But nowdays it's harder to get Yan Ji as alot of shops are selling aluminium to replace as lead is much more expensive and rarer now. He advised me to go to malaysia to look for it.
2) My geomancer told me that after an chuang, my wife cnt touch or sit on the bed. But for me is no problem. *Shrugz* guess I'll just sleep on the floor with her.
3) To get a blissful couple with kids to an chuang for u. I got 4 or 8 qian long coins from him also. All the qian long coins had been "kai guang" to be used during the an chuang and place at the 4 corners under the bed. On the day of Marriage, I have to paste a Qilin talisman behind the bed as my customary day clash with I dunno some white tiger thingy.
4) After an chuang, get a boy and jump on the bed. then next time will have alot of offspring.
5) Zodiac will clash also. I know that my an chuang have to follow certain timing and certain zodiac cannot be around.
Well when the date is nearer I'll just get my aunt to verify and teach me how to settle all these. I wanted her and my uncle to an chuang for me anyway. Too much details...