Dear all,
I was married only last Dec, and very unhappy with my marraige since.
My hubby is a very lazy person, he doesn't help me with any of the house chores, he don't even wash a spoon or a cup. He always compare me with his mum, and claimed that his mum can manage work and house chores very well. I tried to cook for him, but gave up since I can never cook as well as his mum. He always tell me that I have to respect him, therefore I'm not allowed to argue with him. I used to quarrel with him, but decided not to now, cos he will go crazy and shout at me, be it at home or outside. It's even worst, if he is driving. He would drive dangerously as though he want to crash the car together with me. There was even once where he got so angry that he stop the car in the middle of the road and walk off, leaving me inside the car. Everytime I have to give in, so that things won't turn ugly. After so many months, I learned to keep quiet, whether he is right or not, I remained silent as I'm too tired to go thru all the nonsense.
After all these months, it has affected me so bad that I'm having hormone unbalance, I keep having migrane and worst of all, I fall into depression very easily. I have lost interest in sex and everytime he wants to make love with me, I'll pretend to be sleeping or else I'll end up in pain.
Overall he is ok, just that he cannot control his temper. I don't know what I should do now. I'm newly wed and this shouldn't be happening to me. It's really scary.