momoko,
yeah yeah.. me also feel that it's a bit too much.. i think $38 is more than enough liao leh.. unless you asking frens to help out as photo/videographer/MUA, then u should give more lor.. Like my case, my MUA is my neighbour, so definitely I'll give her more angpow $$.. but photo/video are engaged from outside, so i think just give $38 lor..
For brothers/Jie Meis, I'll make sure they will get the amount to cover their ang pow give back to us for dinner. In other words, we are not receiving $$ from them, but give them a dinner treat as our appreciation for their help.
Another thing is bridal/party car drivers, must give them more $$ to cover the petrol.