Hey joline..
Okay will try to answer as many queries as i can..
1) How many helpers -
Reception Table - 4 helpers with 1 other person in charge of ang pao box.
Ushers - on my side it was my relatives who help on my hubby side it was his friends. All in all i had 10 helpers for ushers.
My wedding a little bit different. I had a chruch solemnization 45 min before the cocktail reception.
so the schedule went something like that
5.45 - 7pm - Chruch solemnisation
7pm - 7.45 - Cocktail reception
7.45 pm - Dinner start
The ballroom was closed during the cocktail reception as i ask pp to turn over theatre seating to dinner seating. so as soon as they finish their turn over they open the ballroom. They did it in 1/2 hour so the ballroom was open for dinner seating by 7.30pm.
i did not want to keep the doors close so long as there were some older folks and did not want them to stand too long. I did not need to open my two spare tables!(thankfully no gate crashes!!) but you should be able to know 45 mins after cocktail starts. as most people will gather around and "register" themselves.
As for the rehersal, i used the same walk in path as my chruch solemnization so i did not do another walkin with the hotel on the actual day. I was able to arrange with the hotel 5 days before to do a rehersal. That was sufficient enough. Rehersals are important for the following people. 1) The Emcee, 2) The person playing ur music. if it is not the hotel people.( i had my friend in charge of my music playing for chruch and dinner as i was using the ipod and the hotel staff was not confident ). the other helpers not really necessary. Oh the other thing ensure that the hotel staff who is opening the door for the walk in does it slowly... not fast okay
.. it helps to create the mood and anticipation.
As my solemnization was at 5.45 my parents were there at 5.15 to start waiting for guest. my recep counter started preparations at that time too. so i believe it should be the same for dinner. if dinner cocktail starts at 7pm. parents should be ready by 6.30pm same for recept counter.
I did not change out of my WG, something i wanted to do so people can see the gown!!.. after so many months of preparing and trying out the gown i wanted to show it off!!..hehe... anyway.. when u mingle around they would see and comments. It's nice to hear the comments
and all the ooh and ahhs.....
Did not ask my jie mie / relatives up to the bridal suite. quite particular did not want to deal with the aftermath of mess if they created any so all took photos at the ballroom instead.
For the use of the lift/door. yes hotel will call you to get ur authrization then they will be lead up to the room. it's for hotel security. The bridal suite.. is of good size. I like it as the room had a seperate living area and there was a door which seperates the living from the bedroom. so i could close off the door, and it would just be me and my makeup artist in the room. coz my MIL was in the living room making up with her artist so i sort of didn't want to be distrub in between. Yes the helper room is linked to the bridal suite but i opted for the linked door to be remained lock.. Quite fun.. got lots of doorbell rings throughout the day.
No problems for the questions, love to help...