Well Scope, you definitely like putting yourself out there. Good for you, that you have such, albeit a little misplaced, self-confidence. I think the reason why people trash you, is because you like to trash people too. But why have so much angst? Life is too short to be spent like that. Live and let live.
Also, when you use "LOL", are you too, laughing like a retard? That would be kind of strange.
Oh, and good luck with your impending move from Singapore. I hope that you are employable enough to find work in other countries, either that or have a very large sum of inheritance that you can live off. Having been there, from what I know, Germany isn't exactly the easiest place to immigrate to. But if you succeed, enjoy the bier and bratwurst!
To the other forumers, have a nice day ahead!