It's time to fetch one of my girlfriends, so... let's do a quickie.
Personal real example.
I love this woman. She is married, I'd love her forever, but I don't have a choice, she'd choose.
IF I love you, Soisuka, with all my heart, with all my soul, I am good and honest and got some integrity...
And May's jerk comes for you too...
Who will you choose?
I will not get to fock you, honest. Because in your opinion, I'm not good, I have no integrity, my honesty is blunt to the point of being rude.
So, you WILL choose the jerk.
There is nothing about balls, you know... You CHOOSE. May CHOSE. The girl I love now married CHOSE. In fact, Down CHOSE, Piggyan CHOSE... even Chocolatte CHOSE.
I don't choose, men don't choose.
If you choose the jerk and dump someone who'd love you forever, if you choose to believe what you chose is the One and discard the actual One, whose problem is that? My problem? The jerk's problem?
That's basically whose problem?
http://www.singaporebrides.com/forumboard/messages/5/1202558.html?1332897170
Nicole Ng chose... Ting Yi told me, it was 2009, and she should be now close to 40yo...
I CANNOT tell her she chose the wrong guy. I can't! Because I am NOT the One for her. So I said... she has to decide. Love is fate, I can't say he's definitely lying.
Even I... am a 'victim' of this game. Because IF the girl chose a jerk who doesn't really love her, I WILL BE banished. And what wrong did I do? My error is because I fell in love with her, and it wasn't my choice to love her. I just love her, till now and forever.
See?
When it comes to love, it's very simple... The women, including Ting Yi, will choose.
And when you choose, you also choose to banish. It's not just you choose and that's it. If he is not the One, you banish the One when you chose a jerk. So in this game...
You find it very funny May was lambasted... She chose a jerk, she WILL choose a jerk again if she never learns. And at the same time, she'd not seek the One, and the One will be banished.
Can comprehend eh?
Rush off, baby...