(2005) Brides of year 2005
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hahaha.. i think all hb will think e wife ki siao for wanting to do such things lor..
linda - keke.. i guess it's both ur characters also.. me n hb not e confrontational kind.. so tt is why.. but some ppl more confrontational.. will have big fight but over liao no hard feelings.. also okies i feel.. =)
linda - keke.. i guess it's both ur characters also.. me n hb not e confrontational kind.. so tt is why.. but some ppl more confrontational.. will have big fight but over liao no hard feelings.. also okies i feel.. =)
but hor, i think my hb will know when not to mess with me. when i'm totally quiet and he don't hear from me ... then he know i'm at the limits liao and can burst anytime. or if he receives a mega long email from me, then it's don't mess with me kind. for him, i can tell from his face so i just shut up too....
jenn - maybe.. very hard to 100% say wont.. but i guess just need to keep reminding each other n let e other person noe if u feel taken for granted? me n hb make effort to thank one another when the other does sth.. slowly will become more appreciative for e little things.. =)
ha, i'm the sort that don't like to bring over the matters to next day so usually by the end of the day, if hb don't ask me, i'll tell him upfront in his face what i'm not happy about and at most argue argue a while then resolved liao....
sdl, last time i don't keep quiet one... cos i impatient kind so want to resolve immediately kind but i guess slowly over the years, i realized that the more impatient i become, the more hurtful words will come out and it's not healthy to a r/s so i just keep quiet when i don't wanna argue anymore... so to my hb, when i keep quiet, it's a big warning bell ringing that i'm going to the stage of can't be bothered and do what u want and u better don't regret it mode.
sdl, last time i don't keep quiet one... cos i impatient kind so want to resolve immediately kind but i guess slowly over the years, i realized that the more impatient i become, the more hurtful words will come out and it's not healthy to a r/s so i just keep quiet when i don't wanna argue anymore... so to my hb, when i keep quiet, it's a big warning bell ringing that i'm going to the stage of can't be bothered and do what u want and u better don't regret it mode.
daphne,
we are like you and your hb. if his face "turn colour", i will try to avoid talking to him loh. otherwise he will be very irritated.
if he notice that i dun talk to him or keep very quiet, he will know that i am angry.
but hor, sometime, really angry, bcos he never realise his mistake and never ask why i angry until i tell him. Grrr...
jenn,
i think my hb take me for granted. assume that i will do everything.
we are like you and your hb. if his face "turn colour", i will try to avoid talking to him loh. otherwise he will be very irritated.
if he notice that i dun talk to him or keep very quiet, he will know that i am angry.
but hor, sometime, really angry, bcos he never realise his mistake and never ask why i angry until i tell him. Grrr...
jenn,
i think my hb take me for granted. assume that i will do everything.
linda - cannot allow ur hb to take u for granted! i very particular abt tt.. coz there was a pt of time when he did when we were dating.. i was so sad.. then i told him n he also realised.. so now he's more attentive.. n i realised when i do athg small for him, he'll just give me a hug n say he appreciates it which makes me feel v loved.. haha.. i make sure i do that too.. some ppl say couple liao why must say 'thank u' to once another.. but i dun agree.. coz it shows appreciation.. =)
i agree.. dun fuel e fires.. if noe one party angry liao.. e less angry party sld just walk away first.. or at least do sthg that wun irritate e other further.. hee
i agree.. dun fuel e fires.. if noe one party angry liao.. e less angry party sld just walk away first.. or at least do sthg that wun irritate e other further.. hee
caitlyn/jenn
i did voice out. he is more appreciative since the day i voice out. that's y now he appreciate the things i do loh. b4 & after marriage, we will always thank each other for work done and will say words like "xin ku ni le", just to tell each other that your work is appreciated.
but a leopard never changes its spot loh. he will still take me for granted for certain things and i will have to voice out again.
gg off leow.
chat again tml..
i did voice out. he is more appreciative since the day i voice out. that's y now he appreciate the things i do loh. b4 & after marriage, we will always thank each other for work done and will say words like "xin ku ni le", just to tell each other that your work is appreciated.
but a leopard never changes its spot loh. he will still take me for granted for certain things and i will have to voice out again.
gg off leow.
chat again tml..
