hi hi helen..
i really hope that u both dun postpone the wedding..watever it shall be, try to plan ahead now, unless u both really cant cope then postpone it..i believe things can be worked out, like maybe certain things is currently not require then dun get it now or can see if there's anyway u can pay via instalments or something like that...try to work things out...a wedding is once in a lifetime only...i guess u shd be able to "break-even" at the end of it...ok? : )