Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Katherin Yeo,

An Chuang is purely a Chinese Customary practice for blessing the couple with lots of kids in the future. You can still do An Chuang even if you want more kids after your second marraige, so not an issue at all

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Valerene,

Why do you need to change the light bulbs in your room? This is not an An Chuang requirement

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Cerine,

You are welcome

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Bernard,

29th Oct 2011 does not clash anyone (clash Pig). This date can be used if the date and both your bazi are compatible.

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Kenny Soh,

17 Sept 2011 is not a good date for wedding.

3rd Dec will be the best date amg all (general good date only) and does not clash anyone (clash Dog).

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Paulina,

Here are some general dates for Oct -Dec 2011, weekends:

- 12/11, 3/12

Only 2 dates available. Rest of the general good dates clashes to either both of you or your parents, hence cannot be used.

Note that for this date, both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet and a good date in the tong shu can still turn out to be a bad date if the date and bazi are not compatible.

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi buyochiyo,

Here are some general rom dates for Jan & Feb 2011:

- 15/01, 30/01 26/02,

These are some general customary wedding dates for end 2011:

- 15/10, 30/10, 19/11, 20/11, 03/12, 07/01/2012,

For 2012 dates, the tong shu is not out yet (out only in 7th lunar mth next yr). Hence the only way to select now is using Bazi to select, which i've already done so for more than 200++ couples. If you are looking at only using tong shu to select a general, you will have to wait till next yr 7th mth.

Note that for these dates above, both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet and a good date in the tong shu can still turn out to be a bad date if the date and bazi are not compatible.

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi jasyap89,

Yes you can ROM and AD in 2012.

As much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates for year 2012, the Tong Shu for 2012 is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2012 yet. Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.

As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.

If you have any particular date in mind, just post it here. I can advise you if it is a bad day as there are some days that are definitely bad and cannot be used for marriage; and some days that will clash to either of you or your parents, so cannot be used as well.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Felicia,

We need the parents animal zodiac signs to make sure that the date selected dont clashes with them. If clashes, it means that after marriage, the relationship between you and them will turn sour. Hence if your are not in contact anymore, then there is no need to consider them. If still in contact, you will need to take that into consideration. Once you understand the logic/reasoning behind this, you will understand who you should take into consideration

 

[sherrily]

Hi Master Tong,

Would like to seek your advice if any of the following dates: 6 Nov, 7 Nov, 4 Dec, 25 Dec or 26 Dec 2011 is an auspicious date for our customary.

Groom : 02/12/1983 (Pig)
Bride : 06/12/1985 (Ox)

Groom's Dad : Horse
Groom's Mum : Pig

Bride's Dad : Rabbit
Bride's Mum : Horse

Many thanks!

 

[feliciatan]

Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for your reply.. If thats the case then I think I shall use the animal zodiac of my aunt & uncle right? just in case, i also provide my mum(still in contact) and dad(no longer in contact) animal zodiac.

Was planning to hold the customary wedding from May 2011 onwards. Would like to seek your advice for wedding dates.

Groom:23/10/1984(Rat)
Bride:28/04/1984(Rat)

Groom's Dad:Horse
Groom's Mum:Rooster

Bride's Uncle: Snake
Bride's Aunt: Rooster

Bride's Mum: Rat
Bride's Dad: Horse

Million Thanks!!!

 

[muji]

Hi Master Tong, with the following details, can you advise if 20/11 next year is a good day to get married? If not, could you please advise on other suitable dates for us? ROM and wedding on the same day. Many thanks.

Groom: Snake 1977
Groom's mum: Monkey
Groom's dad: Snake

Bride: Monkey 1981
Bride's mum: Rooster
Bride's dad: Tiger

Thanks!

 

[pudding_ino]

Hi Master Tong,

Would like to seek your advice on the ROM date and customary wedding date. We wish to hold both on the same day in Nov or Dec 2011. Can you advise any suitable dates for this two months.

Groom : 12/11/1981 (Rooster)
Bride : 31/12/1984 (Rat)

Groom's Dad : Pig
Groom's Mum : Tiger

Bride's Dad : Rat
Bride's Mum : Rat

Many thanks!

 

[luvyvel]

Hi Master TOng,

I am your client. Have questions to seek your advice abt my wedding customs. Tried email you at [email protected] but the mail bounced back. How can i contact u?

Thanks!

 

[julia85]

Hi Master Tong,

My sis AD is on 22 May 2011...
I'm considering to have my ROM on 16 April 2011...
will this be ok since mine is only ROM not AD?
or a 3mths gap is required?

Thanks!

 

[leyash]

Master Tong,

When would be a good date (AD is mid-June 2011), preferably weekend to GDL?

Groom: Dog
Bride: Pig

Thanks!

 

[raymondgoh]

Hi Master Tong,

Would 2012 and 2013 be a good year for wedding for the below:

Groom: Pig (1983)
Bride: Dog (1983)

Groom's Dad: Tiger
Groom's Mum: Sheep

Bride's Dad: Sheep
Bride's Mum: Dog

What would your recommendations be. Thanks!

 

[crystals15]

Hi Master Tong,

I will like your advise on An Chuan. After the AN Chuan, is it true that noone can goes into the room until the AD?

THanks!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Sher,

All these dates are not general tong shu good dates for wedding.

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Felicia,

Let me know weekends or weekdays and May to which month? Coz there are tons of general dates so i need you to narrow down your range to the ones you wanted. Tks.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi mrsmaotan,

That date clashes Rooster, hence cannot use.

Btw, the bride is born Rooster yr, hence clashes Rabbit yr 2011. therefore, 2011 is not a good year for wedding.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Ruth

Groom is born Rooster yr, hence 2011 Rabbit yr is a bad year for marrige.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi luvyvel,

Unlikely to bounce back. Maybe the server was having some problems then. U can try again, else give me a call.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Julia,

ROM is still considered a wedding, hence the 3 months gap rule still applies.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi leyash,

I need to know your AD date, plus all your parents animal signs

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Raymond,

2013 will be Snake yr, hence clashes to those born in Pig yr. 2012 will clash with those born in Dog yr. Hence both yr are not suitable.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Crystal Tan,

Yes that is correct. Coz we don't want the new bed to be disturbed or touched by anyone, hence in the old days, the room will be locked up. In modern days, if your family is very traditional,they will still do that. else just make sure no one touch the bed.

 

[muji]

Hi Master Tong,

Hmm, I'm born in the Monkey year but my mum is born in the Rooster year. Does that mean we can't choose the date if it clashes with rooster?

Can you please advise on dates in June 2011 instead for us?

 

[pudding_ino]

Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for the advise.
If 2011 is not a good year for marriage for Rooster, could you advise us whether Jan-Mar 2012 would be suitable?

And if possible, I wish to find out what are the auspicious dates for Jan-Mar 2012.

Groom : 12/11/1981 (Rooster)
Bride : 31/12/1984 (Rat)

Groom's Dad : Pig
Groom's Mum : Tiger

Bride's Dad : Rat
Bride's Mum : Rat

Many Thanks!

 

[raymondgoh]

Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for your advise in regards to 2012 and 2013.

Which year would be better for the combination below?

Groom: Pig (1983)
Bride: Dog (1983)

Groom's Dad: Tiger
Groom's Mum: Sheep

Bride's Dad: Sheep
Bride's Mum: Dog

What would your recommendations be. Thanks!

 

[fraisefresa]

Hi Master Tong,

We've picked out 18th Sept 2011 for our Wedding and 21st Sept 2011 for ROM

Please advise if it's suitable

Bride: Tiger (2 Oct 1986)
Groom: Monkey (20 July 1980)

Bride's Mum: Tiger (12 Aug 1950)
Bride's Dad: Ox (16 Dec 1949)

Groom's Mum: Ox (9 Nov 1949)
Groom's Dad: Rooster (20 Apr 1948)

Thank you.

 

[zenn99]

Hi Master Tong,

Choosing the date for GDL as well as AN CHUAN by providing the bride, groom and parents animals sign is only by general tong shu date?

Meaning both our bazi are not taken into consideration and a good date in the tong shu can still turn out to be a bad date if the date and bazi are not compatible.

 

[phing]

Hi Master Tong,

I would like to seek your advice on the ROM date and customary wedding date. We wish to hold both on the same day in Feb or March 2011. or if there isn't any, can you give suitable wedding date for us???

Groom : goat
Bride : tiger

Groom's Dad : dragon
Groom's Mum : horse

Bride's Dad : rat
Bride's Mum : rabbit

we are waiting for your reply....
thank you very much...

 

[wendee]

pls advise if theres any good dates in sept 2011 and dec 2011

bride - pig 26/09/1983
groom - monkey 22/09/1980

bride mum & dad: dragon
groom mum: cow
groom dad: rooster

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi mrsmaotan,

Are you born in Monkey or Rooster yr? Coz you type (if you are born before 4th Feb, then you are born Monkey yr, else Rooster yr):

>>Bride: Monkey 1981

Pls repost your info again for selection of dates. Tks.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Ruth,

As much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates for year 2012, the Tong Shu for 2012 is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2012 yet. Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.

As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.

If you have any particular date in mind, just post it here. I can advise you if it is a bad day as there are some days that are definitely bad and cannot be used for marriage; and some days that will clash to either of you or your parents, so cannot be used as well.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Raymond Goh,

As i had explained above, both yr are not good for both of you as they clashes to both of you, hence by right both years cannot be used for marriage.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi fraisefresa,

8th Sep - 7th oct is a bad period for wedding. This is call the "Sui Po" month,the month that clash with the yr. Hence a bad month for wedding activties.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Zenn,

Yes, whenever possible, we will use bazi to select.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi huang shu ping ,

Here are some general tong shu dates for feb-mar 2011:

- 02/03, 05/03, 13/03, 15/03

No dates for Feb due to CNY and those dates outside CNY will clash with your.

**Note that these are general dates only. Both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet as the general date can still be considered inauspicious if the date and both your bazi are not compatible.

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Wendy Fok,

Here are the general dates for Dec 2011 that don't clash with any of you (Sept is a bad mth for wedding..see above thread i just posted).

- 03/12, 15/12, 19/12

**Note that these are general dates only. Both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet as the general date can still be considered inauspicious if the date and both your bazi are not compatible.

Hope this helps

 

[phing]

Hi Master Tong,

Just curious, from which tong shu book do you obtain those dates?
Previously, we have asked to few people about our Wedding dates. We noticed that there are 2 authors of tong shu (Guang Ting Chang & Chi Pao Lo). For the same date, the interpretation can be lot different.
Few dates that we saw as follow:
14 Feb, 9 March, 30 March, 11 Sep, 23 Sep, 5 Oct.

Which book is preferable or more accurate to look at before checking with Bazi

 

[feliciatan]

Dear Master Tong,

Noted on your reply. Was planning to hold the customary wedding from May 2011 till Dec 2011. Prefer Weekends. Would like to seek your advice for wedding dates.

Groom:23/10/1984(Rat)
Bride:28/04/1984(Rat)

Groom's Dad:Horse
Groom's Mum:Rooster

Bride's Uncle: Snake
Bride's Aunt: Rooster

Bride's Mum: Rat
Bride's Dad: Horse

Million Thanks!!!

 

[muji]

Yes Master Tong, I am born in the Monkey year, my birthday is in Jan 1981.

 

[abcgirl]

Dear Master,

Is 27/11/2011 or 3 Dec 2011 good date for marriage?

We will be having ROM and dinner on the same day.

Groom: 06/01/1977,Dragon
Dad: Pig
Mum: Horse

Bride: 08/03/1982, Dog
Dad: Dog
Mum: Snake

Looking forward to your advice. Thanks a million!

 

[zhu85]

Hi Master,

Earlier, i saw that you mentioned 2012 clashes Dog, but if depending on our bazi and our parents chinese horoscope, will there be a day that will do us good? As, my parents horoscope are dog.

 

[qy85]

Dear Master Tong,

Would like know if the following dates are ok for us to ROM, or you can help to advise a good date for us:

1st Jan 2011
15th Sep 2011
8th May 2011
11th Nov 2011
20th Nov 2011
1st Jan 2012
8th May 2012
15th Sep 2012
12th Dec 2012
20th Dec 2012


Bride: 1985 Rat (11th lunar month)
Bride's Dad: 1949 Cow
Bride's Mum: 1953 Snake

Groom: 1982 Dog
Groom's Dad: 1954 Horse
Groom's Mum: 1958 Dog

Thank u in advance.

 

[momomummy]

Hi Master Tong,

Would like to know which dates are good for ROM on Dec 2010 - Feb 2011, preferably weekend, is 1st Jan 2011 suitable for us? Thanks!

Bride: 02/12/1985 Cow
Bride's Mum: 1957 Rooster

Groom: 19/10/1982 Dog
Groom's Dad: 1951 Rabbit
Groom's Mum: 1955 Goat

 

[nyimoh]

Hi Master Tong,

Can I check with you the auspicious timing for 20.11.2011

Bride: Rat (1984)
B. Mother: Horse 1954
B. Father: Dragon 1952

Groom: Pig (1983)
G. Mother: Monkey (1956)
G. Father: Snake (1953)

Thank you...

Thank you.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi huang shu ping,

Yes, that is why Tong Shu is inaccurate. Every different tong shu have different interpretations, depending on the publisher etc. The right way and authentic way is using bazi to select dates, not the tong shu.

Bazi date selections does not take into consideration the tong shu at all.

Btw, i uses Ju Bao Lou