Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Annie

8th Oct 2011 is not a general good date for wedding. However, if that date is compatible with both your bazi, you still can use that day.

For your ROM, that day is not a general good date for ROM as well.


Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi caressa,

The below are general tong shu good dates and dont clash to anyone. Rest cannot be used.

15/10/11
30/10/11
12/11/11
03/12/11
**Note that these are general dates only. Both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet as the general date can still be considered inauspicious if the date and both your bazi are not compatible

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi weif,

That day is a super bad date for wedding. Avoid at all costs.

Hope this helps

 

[bearbear85]

Hi Master Tong,

We're planning our AD in yr 2011 around Nov or Dec (Wkn). Can you recommend any good dates to me?

Groom: Dog
Groom's dad: Dog
Groom's Mum: Dog

Bride: Ox
Bride's Dad: Dragon
Bride's Mum: Rat

Thanks!

 

[kacie]

Hi Master Tong ,
Sorry for the inconvenience. I will give another full details with my parent birth year as well. Please advice any good dates between may to july. Thanks!

Bride b'day: 24th july 1986 ( Tiger )
Bride's mum: 24th October 1957 (Rooster)
Bride's dad: 13th March 1955 (Goat )

Groom b'day: 10th Feb 1983 ( Pig )
Groom's Mum : 19th August 1950 ( Tiger )
Groom"s Dad : 16th October 1947 (Pig)

 

[caressa]

Thanks very much, Master Tong. Really appreciate it!

 

[sunyue]

Hi Master Tong,

I am currently looking into holding my wedding in Jan 2012 to Feb 2012 (Friday to Sunday). Can you advice on the auspicious dates?
Bride: 5th Jul 1980(Monkey)
Groom: 8th Feb 1979 (Goat)

Thank you!

 

[simplerhappierlife]

Hi Master Tong,

The hotel gave me 2 dates, 23th dec 2011 and 30th dec 2011. Can I ask whether the following dates are auspicious to hold the chinese wedding? thanks a lot.

bride: 1986 (tiger)
groom: 1984 (mouse)

 

[simplerhappierlife]

Hi Master Tong,
sorry i forget to include parents; birth yr.

The hotel gave me 2 dates, 23th dec 2011 and 30th dec 2011. Can I ask whether the following dates are auspicious to hold the chinese wedding? thanks a lot.

bride: 1986 (tiger)
bride dad: rabbit
bride mom: goat

groom: 1984 (rat)
groom dad: dragon
groom mom: chicken

thanks a lot

 

[peaceboi]

Dear Master Tong,

Need your advice on the following:

We are getting married on 6th Nov 2011. But I have a close friend who will be getting married on 16th Oct 2011 while my fiancee has another close friend who is getting married in Dec 2011.

Can we attend their weddings and vice versa?

Thank you.

 

[chenashin]

Dear Master Tong,

Can I check with you is 16 Oct 2011 a good date for me and my HTB to hold our ROM?

Bride: 1982 (Dog)
Bride Dad: 1946 (Dog)
Bride Mum: 1650 (Tiger)

Groom: 1980 (Monkey)
Groom Dad: 1947 (Pig)
Groom Mum: 1945 (Rooster)

Thanks!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Bearbear,

Here are some weekend dates you can use:

- 19/11, 20/11

Rest of weekends dates clashes to you/your parents, or not good dates.

**Note that these are general dates only. Both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet as the general date can still be considered inauspicious if the date and both your bazi are not compatible

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Kaixin,

Here are some general good dates from May-Jul 2011:

- 07/05, 11/05, 19/05, 31/05, 12/06, 18/06, 30/06, 06/07, 08/07, 15/07

**Note that these are general dates only. Both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet as the general date can still be considered inauspicious if the date and both your bazi are not compatible

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi caressa,

You are welcome

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi sunyue,

Need your parents animal signs as well.

I can't provide 2012 dates now as the tong shu is not out yet. Only Jan 2012.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi simplelife,

Both these 2 dates are not general tong shu good dates for wedding. Most of the weekends dates (fri-sun) for most hotels are already full. Not easy to find one now, except weekdays or weekends lunch

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Leo,

Within 3 months (or 4 months as some dialect/parents believe in 4 mths) before AND after your wedding, you cannot attend other's ROM or Wedding, funeral and child birth/baby shower. Hence both of you cannot attend each others' wedding.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi gina,

16th oct is a super bad date. Avoid using this date for wedding/ROM.

 

[chenashin]

Hi Master Tong,
May I know which date is good for us? Fri/Sat/Sun from Oct - Dec 2011

Thanks!

 

[alyssa_c]

Hi Master Tong,

I read that when one gets married, you cant attend ROM/Wedding/baby shower/funeral for 3 months before and after the wedding. I would like to know if you attend, is it bad for yourself or it will affect the other person getting married/the newborn child etc. Thanks!

 

[piggy_chong]

Hi Master Tong,

If we do both 壓床 & 过大礼 together on 30th Oct 2011, is there any recommended timing? (AD on 24th Nov 2011)

Groom : Dog
Groom's Dad : Monkey
Groom's Mum : Goat

Bride : Dog (Jan 1983)
Bride's Dad : Rat (Deceased)
Bride's Mum : Rabbit

 

[sunyue]

Hi master tong,

Bride : 5th July 1980
Groom : 8th Feb 1979

Groom mum : rat
Groom dad : dog

Bride parents : deceased

We are looking at 11th Nov 2011 for ROM and 20th Nov 2011 for customary wedding.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Gina,

Here are some general tong shu good dates:

- 30/10, 12/11, 09/12

Only 3 dates available as the rest clashes to your/your parents.

**Note that these are general dates only. Both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet as the general date can still be considered inauspicious if the date and both your bazi are not compatible

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi alyssa_c

It will be bad for the person that goes to the wedding/funeral/baby shower. That is, if you and your best friend are getting married, and if you go to her wedding, you will get the bad luck, not her. And vice versa. Hence so long as you don't go, you are fine. If others don't believe want to come to yours, let them be and it affects them, not you.

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Lala,

The Guo Da Li timing will be 9am-11am. An Chuang can be the same timing if you can make it, else the next good timing is pretty late at 5pm-7pm.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Sunyue,

11th Nov 2011 clash to Rat, hence cannot use.

20th Nov 2011 is a general good date and don't clash any of you (clash Rooster).

**Note that these are general dates only. Both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet as the general date can still be considered inauspicious if the date and both your bazi are not compatible

Hope this helps

 

[fun_yeong]

Dear Master Tong,

Your advice will be greatly appreciated.

Bride : 9th August 1973 (Ox)
Groom : 9th June 1963 (Rabbit)

Bride mum : Rabbit
Bride dad : Snake
Groom parents : deceased

We are looking at :
11th Nov 2011 for ROM & Customary Wedding and 12th Nov 2011 for Wedding dinner.

 

[piggy_chong]

Hi Master Tong,

Thanks so much for your advice!!!

 

[joedeene]

Hi Master Tong

What is the meaning of fetch the bride?
as in time to leave the bride's place or the moment groom enter the bride's place

 

[anniequeen]

Hi Master Tong

Since 20 Mar is not a good day for ROM, Can you kindly advise a date in Mar or Apr 2011?

As for the dinner, How abt 17 Nov 2011?

Groom: 02.03.1979 (Goat)
Bride: 04.12.1980 (Monkey)

Groom's Father: Dog (1946)
Groom's Mother: Rat (1948)

Bride's Father: Pig (1947)
Bride's Mother: Dog (1958)

Thanks a lot!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Rebecca,

11th Nov is not an ideal date for ROM and 12th clashes with Ox, hence cannot be used.

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Lala

You are welcome

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi joedeene,

If Fetch the bride is from 7am-9am, it means the groom will have to step into the bride's house at 7am (or after), fetch her back to his home and complete tea ceremony to his parents by 9am. After which, going back to new home or to bride's home for tea ceremony is "free and easy", no timing required.

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Annie,

April is Qing Ming, hence cannot be used

For March, you can use:

- 05/03, 13/03

Only these 2 dates. Rest clashes, hence cannot be used.

17th Nov is not an ideal date meant for wedding purpose. I don't recommend using this day. 24th Nov will be better if you looking at thur.

**Note that these are general dates only. Both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet as the general date can still be considered inauspicious if the date and both your bazi are not compatible

Hope this helps

 

[culturalharmony]

Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to have ROM and AD on the same day in either Sept 2011 or Nov 2011 (any Saturday). Please can you tell me when would be a good general date?

Groom: 9th April 80 (Monkey)
Bride: 1st Dec 74 (Tiger)

Bride's Father: Sheep
Bride's Mother: Monkey
Groom's Father: Horse
Groom's Mother: Dog

Thanks a lot!

 

[fun_yeong]

Dear Master Tong,

Thank you for your advice.

Please advice what suitable dates can be used in November 2011?

 

[whale8]

Hi Master Tong,

My fiance and I are planning to hold our chinese customary wedding in Dec 2011 or 16 Mar 2012(our preferred date), please advice us on the dates.

Bride: 1982 Dog
Groom: 1982 Dog

Bride's mum: 1958 Dog
Bride's dad: 1951 Rabbit

Groom's mum: 1955 Sheep

Thank you for your kind advice.

 

[pingsparkle]

Dear Master Tong,

My boyfriend and I are planning to have our customary wedding in Oct/Nov/Dec 2011.

Can you advise the good wedding dates (saturdays or sundays) for us?

Groom: Horse (1978)
Groom's Mother: Ox (1949)

Bride: Rooster (1981)
Bride's Father: Rat (1948)

Hope to hear from you. Thanks very much again!

 

[girl05]

Hi master tong,

I would like to know if 11.06.11 is a good day to get married..

Groom: horse
Groom mum: dog
Groom dad: horse

Bride: dog
Bride mum: rat
Bride dad: dog

Thanks

 

[stardustzzz]

Hi Master Tong,

You mentioned that Sept 2011 is a bad month for wedding. That month clash with the yr, in Chinese, we call the Sui Po.
What does Sui Po means?

Do you have any good dates for Aug?
Thanks x

 

[littlechicknpiglet]

Hi Master Tong,

It's me again. We cant make it for the dates you have given me earlier on due to his grandma's funeral..

We are planning for a simple ROM reception next year as HDB needs our ROM cert for our new house.

Is it ok for us to have tea ceremony if we have to follow the rules of 3 yrs not having customary wedding? Then after 3 yrs then we have a simple praying session to the ancestors.

Could you advise the dates for 2011. We would prefer weekend if there's any.

Groom - Rooster (1969)
Groom's dad - rooster (1933)
Groom's mum - rabbit (1939)

Bride - Pig (1983)
Bride's dad - Rat (1948)
Bride's mum - Dragon (1952)

Many thanks

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi culturalharmony,

Sept 2011 is not a good mth for wedding. For Nov, here are the general tong shu dates for weekends:

- 12/11, 20/11

**Note that these are general dates only. Both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet as the general date can still be considered inauspicious if the date and both your bazi are not compatible

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Rebecca Yin Fun Yeong ,

Here are the general tong shu dates for Nov:

- 03/11, 08/11, 19/11, 20/11, 21/11, 25/11,

**Note that these are general dates only. Both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet as the general date can still be considered inauspicious if the date and both your bazi are not compatible

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Joey,

As both of you are born in Dog yr, 2012 is a bad yr for wedding as Dragon yr clashes to Dog.

For Dec 2011, here are the general dates:

- 01/12, 02/12, 13/12, 19/12

**Note that these are general dates only. Both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet as the general date can still be considered inauspicious if the date and both your bazi are not compatible

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi pingsparkle,

As bride is born Rooster yr, 2011 is not a good yr for wedding as Rooster and Rabbit yr clashes.

Best to do it in 2012 if possible.

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi girl05,

That is a super bad date for wedding. Avoid.

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi stardustzzz,

Sui Po is just a Chinese terminology to mean that the month clashes with the year. Year 2011 is Rabbit yr, and Sept is Rooster month, hence these 2 months clashes, which is why it is not a good month.

Aug 2011 is 7th lunar mth, hence out as well

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Alice Choo,

As the groom is born Rooster yr, 2011 is not a good year for ROM/Wedding as Rabbit yr clashes to Rooster, hence not sure if you still want to proceed.

If you want to follow the 3 yrs rule, then there should not be any customary wedding or ROM (either within 100 days or 3 yrs later) as these are all "red" events. However, 3 yrs is bit long, normally most people just avoid 1 year, as a mark of respect for the deceased.

 

[conniestar]

Hi master tong,

I would like to know if the dates below are a good day to get married..

10 Sept 2011
8 Oct 2011
9 Oct 2011
5 Nov 2011
20 Nov 2011


Groom: Rooster
Groom mum: Monkey
Groom dad: Cow

Bride: Rooster
Bride mum: Snake
Bride dad: Snake

Thanks

 

[anniequeen]

Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for your advice previously.

ROM: 05 Mar 2011
AD: 27 Oct 2011


Is this date okay?
Groom: Goat
Groom mum: Rat
Groom dad: Dog

Bride: Monkey
Bride mum: Dog
Bride dad: Pig

Thanks!