Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

Hi Genevieve Tan Gaik May,

26.1.2012 is the 4th day of CNY and is not a general tong shu good date as well.

Hope this helps
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Hi Master Tong,

Can you advice my friend any suitable auspicious date for Oct & NOv 2011? Teirs signs as follow:

Groom : 19/08/1976 (Dragon)
Bride : 18/07/1978 (Horse)

His dad : 8/2/1944(Monkey)
His mum : Deceased (Horse)

Her dad : 30/03/1951 (Rabbit)
Her mum : 09/11/1956 (Monkey)
 
Dear Master Tong,
Would appreciate your advice if 30th OCT 2011 is a good date for ROM? And if we want to have our Customary in 2012 what would be the auspicious date? Thanks!!!

Groom : 27/10/1982 (Dog)
Bride : 30/09/1984 (Rat)

Groom's Dad : Rabbit
Groom's Mum : Pig

Bride's Dad : Dragon
Bride's Mum : Rooster
 
Hi Master Tong,

Would like to seek your advice if 9 Oct 2011 is an auspicious date for our customary.

Groom : 02/12/1983 (Pig)
Bride : 06/12/1985 (Ox)

Groom's Dad : Horse
Groom's Mum : Pig

Bride's Dad : Rabbit
Bride's Mum : Horse

Many thanks!
 
Hi Master Tong,

Good day to you !
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I would like to seek your advice whether the following dates are suitable:

ROM: 20/11/2011
Customary: 28/07/2012

Groom: 1985 Ox
Bride: 1987 Rabbit

Groom's Dad : Rabbit
Groom's Mum : Goat

Bride's Dad : Pig
Bride's Mum : Tiger

Thank you very much Master Tong !
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Hi Master Tong,

I would like to seek advice on our wedding date in 2011.

Groom: Dog (1982)
Groom's Parents: Monkey (1956) and Pig (1959)

Bride: Dog (1982)
Bride's Parents: Snake (1953) and Goat (1955)

We would like to hold our customary and ROM on 19/11/2011. If it is a bad date according to Tong Shu, would there be any chance that it is suitable for us using bazi calculations?

Also, can I ask what are the good dates to get married (preferbly weekends) between Nov 2011 to Jan 2012 for our zodiacs?

Thanks!
 
Hi Master Tong, Can we postpone our an chuang until we get our flat?
Our flat is not ready and we will be staying separately after marriage for afew months.
 
Hi MAster Tong
Will 3rd Oct be a good day for Guo Da Li, and 4th Oct for An Chuan? We are getting married on 23 Oct

Bride: Pig
Groom: Rooster

Parents:
Bride: Snake, Dog
Groom: Snake, cow

We are getting married on 23 Oct, 2010
 
Hi Hopeful,

3rd Oct will be good for An Chuang (not Guo Da Li).

For Guo Da Li, 6th Oct will be better. No good weekends date in Oct before your wedding.

Hope this helps.
 
Hi Bernard,

30h Oct 2011 clash Rat, hence cannot use.

As much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates for year 2012, the Tong Shu for 2012 is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2012 yet. Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.

As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.

If you have any particular date in mind, just post it here. I can advise you if it is a bad day as there are some days that are definitely bad and cannot be used for marriage; and some days that will clash to either of you or your parents, so cannot be used as well.

Btw, you are born Dog yr, hence 2012 Dragon yr will be a bad yr for you to hold wedding.
 
Hi Niuniu,

20/11/2011 is a general good date and don't clash anyone (clash Rooster).

28/07/2012 is not a ideal date to use for wedding. Choose other dates if possible.

Note that both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet and a good date in the tong shu can still turn out to be a bad date if the date and bazi are not compatible.
 
Hi Queen Queen,

That date clash to Monkey, hence cannot use.

For weekends , here are some general dates:

- 12/11/2011, 20/11/2011, 07/01/2012

Hope this helps
 
Hi yunzie,

The An Chuang that you are doing is part of chinese wedding customs. There is no point doing it anymore after wedding. In your scenario, most people still do it using the groom's bed.
 
RE:

" David Tong (cmg_consulting)
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Post Number: 2086
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Posted on Wednesday, September 22, 2010 - 1:20 am:
Hi Niuniu,

20/11/2011 is a general good date and don't clash anyone (clash Rooster).

28/07/2012 is not a ideal date to use for wedding. Choose other dates if possible.

Note that both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet and a good date in the tong shu can still turn out to be a bad date if the date and bazi are not compatible."

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Hi Master Tong !

Thank you so much for your reply !
 
Hi Master Tong,

Thanks so much for your reply!
does the groom bed need to be queen size? We intend to buy our new bed only after our new house is ready. Currently my hubby to be is using a single bed.

Thanks!
 
Hi Master Tong,

I am looking at Chinese customary wedding dates, particularly Sundays.

Could you list out the auspicious Sundays in month of May 2011 and June 2011?

Groom: 4 Apr 1977 (Snake)
Groom’s Mum: Tiger
Groom’s Dad: Rat (deceased)

Bride: 6 Apr 1978 (Horse)
Bride’s Mum: Goat
Bride’s Dad: Tiger

Thanks very much!
 
Hi Master Tong,

Would like to seek your advice if 9 Jul 2011 is an auspicious date for our customary.

Groom : 02/12/1983 (Pig)
Bride : 06/12/1985 (Ox)

Groom's Dad : Horse
Groom's Mum : Pig

Bride's Dad : Rabbit
Bride's Mum : Horse

Many thanks!
 
Dear Master Tong,

I'd like to seek your advise on our ROM date in 2011.

We're planning to have our solemnisation on 14 March 2011, would this be a suitable date for us?

Bride: 22 June 1983 Pig
Groom: 20 August 1983 Pig

Bride's Mum: 1958 Dog
Bride's Dad: 1955 Goat

Groom's Mum: 1955 Goat
Groom's Dad: 1952 Dragon

Thanks!
 
Hi Master Tong,
I would like to check if 23Sep2011 or 24Sep2011 will be better for us?

Groom:13Apr1985(OX)
Bride:27Sep1985(OX)

Bride's Mum:Rabbit
Bride's Dad: Monkey

Groom's Dad: Snake
Grooms's Mum: Monkey
Thanks!
 
Hi Master Tong,

We are thinking of getting chinese wedding on either 11 November 2011 or 20 November 2011. Please advise us on these 2 wedding dates or any other dates you can recommend. Here are our details:

Bridegroom: July 4, 1968 (Year of monkey)
Mother: Year of Rabbit

Bride: August 11, 1974 (Year of Tiger)
Father: Year of Tiger
Mother: Year of Goat

We highly appreciate your help on this. Thanks you so much! =)
 
Hi Master Tong,
I would like to seek your advice on our ROM date on 05 March 2011 and our details as follows:

Bride: July 1979 (goat)
Groom: June 1978 (horse)
Bride's mother: December 1951 (rabbit)
Groom's mother: 1949 (ox)

Greatly appreciate your advice on this.
Thank you..
 
Hi Vivian Goh,

Here are all the general tong shu dates for may/june 2011:

- 07/05, 05/06, 12/06, 18/06

These are the only dates available. Rest clashes to you/your parents.

*Note that both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet and a good date in the tong shu can still turn out to be a bad date if the date and bazi are not compatible.
 
Hi Zenn,

this is just our Chinese customary wedding process. Normally i would say 95% of all my clients will do these.

Guo Da Li is for the groom to show to the bride's parents after the marriage, he got money to take care of the bride (hence giving all the gifts).

For An Chuang, it is to bless the couple with lots of kids in the future.

Hope this helps
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Hi Tin,

20th Nov 2011 is a better date for wedding. this is a general tong shu good date and does not clash anyone in your family (clash Rooster).

*Note that both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet and a good date in the tong shu can still turn out to be a bad date if the date and bazi are not compatible.
 
Hi Master Tong,

May I trouble you again to advise what are the auspicious weekend dates for the 2nd half of 2011 (Jul onwards)

Groom : 02/12/1983 (Pig)
Bride : 06/12/1985 (Ox)

Groom's Dad : Horse
Groom's Mum : Pig

Bride's Dad : Rabbit
Bride's Mum : Horse

Many thanks for your kind advice.
 
Hi Master Tong,

Can I check the dates for wedding for Oct, Nov, Dec 2011 period. Would prefer a sunday

Groom : 26/12/1981 (Rooster)
Bride : 11/08/1983 (Pig)

Groom's Dad : Ox
Groom's Mum : Tiger

Bride's Dad : -
Bride's Mum : Dragon

Many thanks for your kind advice.
 
brian: i am a rooster as well.. Rabbit 2011 Lunar Year is a bad year for rooster to get married.. If you open up the Tong shu, everyday in lunar 2011 year will be a "xiong" bad day for rooster... it has been mentioned by David several times already. you can scroll up to see the posts..

You can either look at marriage in 2012 year. Or if you can in Tiger 2010 - 2011 Tiger Lunar Year... if you are looking at 2012 dates, the only way David can do is calculate using your bazi.. He charges for that (just $100 along with other freebies included), and hence it can't be done for free..

Anyway, that's how i managed to book my wedding dinner more than 1 year in advance.
 
Hi Master Tong,

Would appreciate your advise whether any auspicious date for ROM in the year of 2011.

Groom : 28/11/1982 (Dog)
Bride : 23/04/1986 (Tiger)

Groom's Dad : 1954 (Horse)
Groom's Mum : 1958 (Dog)

Bride's Dad : 1954 (Horse)
Bride's Mum : 1955 (Goat)

Thanks in advance for yr advise
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Hi Master Tong,

May I know as Zodiac Monkey clashes with my wedding on 7 Oct 10, what are the events between interaction with such people to be avoided?

Thanks in advance!

Regards,
Vivian
 
Hi Master Tong,

To add on, is this kind of clashing restriction up till Bride enter the Groom's front door or to the nuptial room?

Also if switch on the wedding lamp during the wedding morning before fetching the bride then can switch off after fetching the bride when both groom n bride enter the nuptial together?

Thanks in advance!

Regards,
Vivian
 
Hi Sher,

Here are the general tong shu good dates:

- 23/07, 15/10, 30/10, 19/11, 20/11, 03/12

Note that both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet and a good date in the tong shu can still turn out to be a bad date if the date and bazi are not compatible.

Btw, many hotels for 2011 weekend dates are already full and very hard to book now. Most people are already choosing for 2012 dates as this is the best time to do so since most hotel haven't open the dates yet and will do so soon in 1-2 months time (i believe).
 
Hi Brian,

Yes Weixiang is correct. 2011 will be a bad yr for you to hold your wedding. Ideally it should not be in 2011

If you really must, then here are the general sunday (and Sat as only 1 sunday dates available that don't clash to any of you) tong shu dates:

- 30/10, 19/11, 03/12

Note that both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet and a good date in the tong shu can still turn out to be a bad date if the date and bazi are not compatible.
 
Hi Cerine,

Roughly which months you looking at?

Btw, for your info, 2012 will be a bad yr for wedding for groom (as he is born Dog yr and Dragon clash Dog)...in case you are planning to customary in 2012
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Hi Vivian,

When the groom goes to fetch the bride, all the friends, relatives etc that are born in the year of the Monkey will have to "hide" in the room or kitchen. They cannot see the groom before he step into the house. Once he step in, they can come out. The belief is that if they see each other, the relationship between them won't be good next time. Same procedure when the bride goes back to groom's home. "Xiong Di" and "Jie Mei" should not be those animal signs as well, so is the little boy that open the car door for the groom when he reaches brides home as well as the little boy that “jump†bed during An Chuang.

Hope this helps
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Hi Vivian,

For the wedding lamp, it will be switched on after tea ceremony (either at groom's home or new home, depending on where the bed is) and left switched on whole night till next day when you go back from hotel stay,then you off it
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