Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

[bubblyreddy]

Hi Master Tong, how abt dec 1st this year? Does it has any clashes?

 

[lynn_chong]

Hi Master Tong,

Can i check which of the following dates are good for a wedding banquet and does not clash with our zodiac?

18 Sep 11, 25 Sep 11, 9 Oct 11, 30 Oct 11, 27 Nov 11

Groom: Goat
Groom's Mum: Rabbit

Bride: Rat
Bride's Mum: Snake
Bride's Dad: Dragon

Thanks!

 

[confusedbride2b]

Hi Master Tong,

Thank you for your advice. May I ask why June 19, 2011 and June 26, 2011 are bad days for a wedding?

Groom - Horse
Groom's Father - Dragon
Groom's Mother - Snake

Bride - Dragon
Bride's Father - Rat
Bride's Mother - Rat

Thank you!

 

[jasmine_isabelle]

Hi Master Tong,

I am looking at the date of 10 Oct 2010 (SUN) to hold my ROM.

Kindly advise whether is it good for the both of us.

Groom - Rat (1984)
Bride - Boar (1983)

Groom's dad - Tiger (1962)
Groom's mum - Ox (1961)

Bride's dad - Boar (1949)
Bride's mum - Horse (1954)

Thank you so much = )

 

[vainlo]

hi master tong,
Have heard so much abt u.. (",) I hope u can advise me on my wedding date.
i would like to ask whether 2nd jan 2011 gd date for me and my future husband to be to have our both banquet and customary on the day??

Groom - Rabbit (1975)
Bride - Rooster (1981)

Groom's father - Dog (1947)
Groom's Mother - Rat (1948)

Bride's father - Cow (1949)
Bride's mother - Snake (1953)

thank you. waiting for you reply soon...

 

[ward]

Groom : Tiger
Bride : Goat
Hi Master Tong,
You have given me my An Chung date (1st Dec 2010), but however can you advise me for the timing? One more question: after An Chung can my boyfriend still sleep on the bed? Or we cant sleep on the bed until the wedding day? Sorry for the trouble.

Bride:Goat
Groom: Tiger

Groom's dad: Jan 1939 Rabbit
Groom's mom: March 1943 Goat

Bride's dad : Rat
Bride's mom : Dragon

Many thanks

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi pinkscrump,

This date is not a very ideal date for wedding. Only use it if really no choice

It does not clash to anyone though.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Josephine,

Sept in 2011 is not a good month for wedding. Avoid this month if possible. This is call the "Sui Po" month, where the month clash with the year...in English, we call it the Year Breaker. A bad month for impt activities.

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi bubblyreddy,

Pls repost all your info together. Thanks.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi CWL,

All these dates are either no good or clashes to your. Choose other dates if possible

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi confusedbride2b,

June 19 is not a day meant for wedding purpose. Every day has a purpose, and this date is not good for wedding.

26th June is super bad day. This day clash with the month, hence very bad for all activities.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi jasmine_isabelle,

This day clash to Pig, hence cannot be used.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Emily,

This date is not a general tong shu good date for wedding. However, it does not clash to anyone too (clash Pig). Hence if your Bazi are compatible with this date, it can be used

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi jasmine,

Sure

Timing will be 1100hrs - 1259hrs.

After An Chuang, both of you still cannot sleep on the bed till your AD day. In fact, from the day the bed is delivered to your home till your AD day, you are not suppose to sleep on it. After An CHuang, by right not even suppose to touch the bed. Hence in the old days, parents will lock up the room after An Chuang so that no one can go in to disturb the bed

 

[jochng]

Hi Master Tong,
Sept 2011 is beginning of lunar 8th mth.. so do you mean that the whole of lunar 8th mth in 2011 is not good for marriage?

 

[pinkscrump]

Hi Master Tong,
thank you very much for the reply & advise = )

Since 17 December is not advisable, can you kindly another date for December 2010?

Groom - snake (1977)
Bride - snake (1978)

Groom's dad - snake (1941)
Groom's mum - horse (1954)

Bride's dad - tiger (1938)
Bride's mum - pig (1948)

Thank you very much = )

 

[derlina]

Hi Master Tong
I'm looking at the date 10 Sep 2010 for my ROM
Please advise if it is a good date for us.
Thanks

Groom : Rat (1984)
Bride : Rat (1984)

Groom's dad : Cow (1961)
Groom's mum : Boar (1959)

Bride's dad : Tiger (1950)
Bride's mum : Cow (1961)

And I would like to check if siblings can ROM on the same day or not?
Example my elder brother and me having the ROM on the same day. Is that advisable? If not what is the time interval between the two ROM session.

Thanks

 

[sparkless]

Hi Master Tong,

Heard that bad feng shui can be resulted from wrong arrangement of furnitures. If that is the case, does it matter if the clock hung on the wall faces the main door directly?

Thank you.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Josephine,

Sept is NOT the lunar 8th month. It is the Year Breaker month. A bad month for marriage.

7th lunar month is from 31/7 - 28/8.
The Year Breaker month is from 8/9 - 7/10.

These period are to be avoided for wedding purpose.

Hope this helps.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi pinkscrump,

The following Dec dates are tong shu good dates (note that both your Bazi are not taken into consideration yet and hence, these dates can still turn out to be a bad date if the date and bazi are not compatible. What i've given here are general dates only.)

- 01/12, 08/12, 18/12, 26/12

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Lina,

This date is a general tong shu good date for wedding and don't clash with anyone (note that Bazi is not taken into consideration yet, hence this day can still be considered inauspicious if the date and Bazi is not compatible).

Siblings CANNOT get married on the same day. By right, siblings must get married 1 year apart. However, some cannot wait and we 'cheat' by doing it in either different calendar years or at least 3 mths apart. This is the minimum you must do. Within 3 mths before and after your wedding, you cannot attend other's wedding. Hence by right in your case, your cannot even attend each otehr's wedding!

In any case, for siblings to get married on the same day is the worst scenario. It is believed that the relationship between both of you will turn sour after the marriage...though just a belief, I've seen many real life cases where it happen ... so better to be safe than sorry

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Tulips,

Yes, bad furniture arrangement be result in bad feng shui and cause money, health or relationship problems. However, not everything is important in the house. Most of what you've probably heard are "pan-tang" or "new age" feng shui, which has no logic..

In authentic feng shui, the main door, the stove positioning, the bedroom, the bed position as well as the water feature placement (eg fish tanks or water fountains) are the most important. If you can get all these correct, normally your house feng shui cannot be that bad (without considering the external environment in this case).

The clock facing will not affect the feng shui of the house in any way , so not to worry. The only type of clocks that might affect are those cuckoo clock, grandfather clock with large swinging pendulums, or clocks that has a loud alarm/bell that rings every hour. If they are placed in an area with negative Qi, it will trigger those Qi, and what problems you will get will depend on the Qi in that sector.

If your clock is a normal clock without any alarms etc, you can hang anywhere you think it looks nice and asthetic. Not to worry

 

[derlina]

Hi Master Tong

I'm checking for a date for my brother.
What are the good dates to get ROM in November/ December 2010 or January 2011..

His fiancee and his data as follows.

Groom : Dog (1982)
Groom Dad : Tiger (1950)
Groom Mum : Ox (1961)

Bride : Ox (1985)
Bride Dad and mum : Unknown.

Please advise thanks.

 

[derlina]

Hi Master Tong

I'm checking for a date for my brother.
What are the good dates to get ROM in December 2010 or January 2011..

His fiancee and his data as follows.

Groom : Dog (1982)
Groom Dad : Tiger (1950)
Groom Mum : Ox (1961)

Bride : Ox (1985)
Bride Dad : Horse (1954)
Bride Mum : Dog (1958)

Please advise. Thanks

 

[btb2010]

Hi Master Tong,

I heard that wedding couples are not allowed to attend other weddings 3 months before and after their own wedding. Is it true?

1 have 2 ROMs and 1 wedding dinner (this friend already married in Jan but her dinner will be held in the same month as we AD). Can I attend any of these ROMs and dinner?

Thanks!

 

[lovers0206]

Hi master Tong,

we've decided to postpone our customary wedding to the following dates:

1. 07 May 2011
2. 15 May 2011
3. 11 June 2011
4. 12 June 2011
5. 18 June 2011
6. 19 June 2011

Details of our zodiac:

Groom (Horse-1978)
Groom's Father (Rat)
Groom's Mum (Rabbit)

Bride (Monkey-1980)
Bride's Father (deceased)
Bride's Mum (Tiger- 1950)

Would like to ask which date is good?

Thanks.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Lina,

Here are some general dates he can use (note that Bazi is not taken into consideration yet):

- 04/11, 13/11, 25/11, 01/12, 07/12, 18/12, 26/12, 06/01, 14/01, 15/01, 18/01, 26/01, 30/01

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi btb2010,

Yes this is true. 3 months before and after your own wedding, you cannot attend other's weddings, funeral/wakes & childbirth.

So long as your friend's ROM or dinner is within the 3 months before and after period, it is better that you don't attend.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi lovers0206,

The below 3 dates do not clash to anyone. These are not general tong shu good dates yet as the tong shu is not out yet till around July/Aug period. However, if the below dates are compatible with your Bazi,they can be used and considered good dates.

1. 07 May 2011
2. 12 June 2011
3. 18 June 2011

Hope this helps

 

[eeyorex]

Hi Master Tong

What is the usual practice? Is it An Chuan first or Guo Da Li first.

I thought should be GDL first, so that the bedsheet, pillows etc can be given on the day of GDL.

Another master that MIL went to, advise us if Ana Chuan first.

Can you advise?

Thanks.

Thanks.

 

[yuki84]

Hi Master Tong,

Can you advise when will the tong shu for 2011 released? I am planning my 2011 wedding.

Thanks

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Huisi,

You are correct. It should be GDL first. The bedsheets to be used etc are in the dowry which is part of the GDL process.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Lee Family,

The Tong Shu is usually out around 7th lunar month period, which is about July/August period

 

[peak2012]

Dear Master Tong,

Im looking at AD for May 2011 (Sat/Sun). Please advise. Many Thanks.

Groom: Dragon
Groom's mom: Ox
Groom's dad: Tiger

Bride: Goat
Bride's mom: Rat
Bride's dad: Pig

Im looking at May 28th and 29th actually.

 

[eeyorex]

thank you Master Tong. It's strange that the other master told MIL to An Chuan first..

Will inform my MIL.

Thank you.

 

[piggy_chong]

Hi Master Tong,

Sorry to trouble you again.
Can I ask which date will be the best for customary?

- 1st Nov 2011
- 10th Nov 2011
- 17th Nov 2011
- 24th Nov 2011
- 21st Dec 2011

Groom : Dog
Groom's Dad : Monkey
Groom's Mum : Goat

Bride : Dog (Jan 1983)
Bride's Dad : Rat (Deceased)
Bride's Mum : Rabbit

 

[chocklate]

Hi Master Tong

Could you please advise me what colour for painting a new house is most suitable and good for both of us? Colour is it type of feng shui?

Thank you.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Huisi,

You are welcome

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi peak2012,

May 28th clashes to Ox and 29th clashes to Tiger, hence both dates cannot be used.

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Lala,

The following 3 dates don't clash to any of you and are "potentially" good dates only. The tong shu is not out yet and if you are looking at general tong shu good dates, will have to wait till July/Aug period when it out, then i can confirm for you. At this moment, the only way and correct way to do it will be using Bazi to select.

- 1st Nov 2011
- 24th Nov 2011
- 21st Dec 2011

Hope this helps

 

[scorpyin]

Hi Master Tong,

We have had our keys in May. This June will be a handover of my resale flat for checking which falls on next sunday 12.30pm, but the previous owner will not be moving out till the following day. We will not be moving in yet.

Please advise if there are any steps to take note of or prepare prior to this handover and if this is a good date for doing so?

 

[missy_bride_to_be]

Dear Master Tong,

Can we choose a date for ROM and wedding date based on our ba zi first before the tong shu is out? will it have much difference?

Please advise. Thank you!

 

[derlina]

Hi Master Tong

I would like to check for my customary wedding will it be a good date on 10 September 2011..

Groom : Rat (1984)
Bride : Rat (1984)

Groom's dad : Cow (1961)
Groom's mum : Boar (1959)

Bride's dad : Tiger (1950)
Bride's mum : Cow (1961)

Please revert. Thanks..

 

[mem0res]

Dear Master Tong,

Im looking at AD for May 2011 (Sat/Sun). Please advise. Many Thanks.

Groom: Dog
Groom's mom: Horse
Groom's dad: Rabbit

Bride: Pig
Bride's mom: Rooster
Bride's dad: Rooster

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Prue Liew,

There is no need to choose a good date for the handover of keys. In Feng Shui, the 2 most important date for a new house will be the start of renovation and moving in date. These 2 will impact the feng shui of the house, if selected wrongly. The handover of keys, whether on a good or bad date, will not affect anything.

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi missy_bride_to_be,

Of course you can do so. Dates selected by Bazi override the tong shu, hence there is no need to check the tong shu when it is out. Authentic date selelctions, whether be wedding, move in, start reno, start business etc, don't rely on the tong shu. Tong shu is for mass consumption only, not to individual. Bazi date selection for wedding, factors in both your bazi to personalised the good date to both of you only. Tong Shu doesn't factor in the Bazi, only the animal zodiac sign, which is too general.

Hope this helps.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Lina,

8th Sept to 7th Oct is a bad period for wedding. Hence avoid if you can. This is call the Year Breaker month..which is the month that clash with the year, hence a bad month for important activities.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi mem0res,

The tong shu is not out yet. It will only be out July/Aug period, hence if you looking at general tong shu dates, i can only help you after July. Right now, the only way to do it will be using Bazi to select.

 

[scorpyin]

Thanks Master Tong for the advice.

Can you advise what are the typical procedures a feng shui master will take when looking at a Feng Shui for my HDB 4 room flat. Can I know the charges for that?

Thanks

 

[missy_bride_to_be]

Thanks Master Tong.

May i know if the bazi here refers to the exact time of birth or can we give you a time range?

Thanks for your advise.