Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)


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bebeann

New Member
Master Tong,

Thank you so much for your reply.
If we base on Bazi will be more accurate?
If the date selected base on Bazi will it be a bad date for tong shu and we got to change the date again?

Pls advice.
 
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zenn99

New Member
Master Tong,

I understand that if our wedding day is clash with sibling or friends animal sign then we will not have good relationship.

But if the animal sign clashes is the bride animal sign, what kind of bad things will happen?

Will it be possible that the bazi can overwrite this day if this day happens to fit bride and groom bazi?

Thanks!
 
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lovers0206

New Member
hi master tong,

Pls advise if the following dates are good for customary wedding.

1. 12, 13 March 2011
2. 19, 20 March 2011
3. 26, 27 March 2011

Details of our zodiac:

Groom (Horse-1978)
Groom's Father (Rat)
Groom's Mum (Rabbit)

Bride (Monkey-1980)
Bride's Father (deceased)
Bride's Mum (Tiger- 1950)
 
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shirleenow

New Member
Hi Master Tong.

can I know if 27 Feb 2011 is a good date for

Details of our zodiac:

Groom (Horse-1978)
Groom's Father (Rat)
Groom's Mum (Rabbit)

Bride (goat-1979)
Bride's Father (rooster)
Bride's Mum (rat)
 
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xiaolun

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

We are looking at 3rd Oct 2010 and 16 Oct 2010 for our ROM..

Details of our zodiac:

Groom (Horse-1978)
Groom's Father (Ox)
Groom's Mum (Ox)

Bride (Snake-1977)
Bride's Father (rabbit)
Bride's Mum (Ox)
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi isabelle82,

It clashes to grooms's parents, which is Snake. If it clashes, it will affect the relationship between your and the groom's parents. Hence after marriage, the relationship may turn sour or not good.

17th Dec is not an ideal date for wedding.

Hope this helps.
 
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Janice Chan,

This date clashes to Ox. If none of your are born in yr of the Ox, then this date don't clash to anyone. However, if you are looking at only general tong shu good dates, will have to wait for the tong shu to be out in July/Aug before i can let you know if it is a good tong shu date

Hope this helps
 
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Alice Choo,

Here are some good weekends date according to tong shu (note that these dates are general dates only. Both your Bazi are not taken into cosnideration yet and these dates can still turn out to be a bad day if the bazi and date is not compatible):

03/07, 12/09, 18/09, 14/11, 18/12, 01/01

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi confusedbride2b,

ROM - June 10, 2011 (don't clash anyone)
- June 11, 2011 (bad day for wedding)
Dinner - June 19, 2011 (not a good day for wedding)
- June 25, 2011 (Clash Snake)
- June 26, 2011 (Bad day for wedding)

Hence only June 10, 2011 does not clash to anyone. But it is not a general tong shu good date yet as the tong shu won't be out till probably July/Aug period.

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi yeo-to-be,

For October, only 23/10 is a general tong shu good date. (note that both your bazi is not taken into consideration yet)
 
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Crystal Tan,

The new bed must be left untouched since the first day it is delivered to your new home, not after An Chuang. The An Chuang is just to align the bed. After An Chuang, it must also be left untouched till the wedding day.

So basically, for the new bed, you cannot sleep on it at all until the wedding day.

Can you post your details again?
 
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Summer,

15th may is not a good date for wedding
12th june don't clash to anyone (clash Dragon).

However, I cannot advise if this will turn out to be a general good tong shu date or not till it is out. Right now, the only way and correct method to do it will be using Bazi to calculate. This ensures the date is specifically good for both of you only. Tong Shu good date is for mass consumption, and a good date can still turn out to be bad if the date and bazi is not compatible.
 
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi joanne neo,

Yes Bazi is not just more accurate, it is the correct method. Tong Shu is for mass consumption only. Bazi will override the Tong Shu good dates,so there is no need to check the tong shu when it is out. All dates in the tong shu (eg start of reno, move in, start business etc) are very general only and most of the time if you use those dates for those activities, it will be wrong.
 
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Zenn,

If the date clashes with the bride or groom, then it will bring about marriage problems to the couple after marriage. Hence it is impt to ensure the date and the couple don't clash. The severity of the clash will depends on both your Bazi. If the couple's bazi don't have a good marriage, this will aggravate it.

Bazi cannot override this. We just have to avoid. And at most choose a good timing for ROM that day, which help little bit (better than nothing!)

Hope this helps.
 
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi lovers0206,

Only 27 March 2011 don't clash to anyone and is not a bad day for wedding. However, will have to wait for tong shu to be out to see if it is a general good date for wedding.

This date is near to Qing Ming on 5th April, hence you may wan to consult your parents first if they are ok with this date.
 
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Xiao Lun,

Both dates are not general tong shu good date for wedding. For Oct wkends, only 23rd Oct is a general good date for wedding (clash Rat)
 
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fulltime

New Member
Hi Master, Can I check if the following 3 dates are good for wedding?

11 Dec 2010, 12 Dec 2010, 15 Jan 2011

Groom - Dragon 20/12/1976
Groom Dad - Rat 11/12/1948
Groom Mum - Tiger 14/3/1950

Bride - Horse 2/5/1978
Bride Dad and Mum - Born in 1940 (Dragon)

Master, I also heard that in the entire Lunar Month of October 2010, it is not suitable for marriage due to some "CHONG" in the tiger year? Is this true?

Thanks so much for the info.
 
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lovers0206

New Member
hi master tong,

do we really need to wait for the tong shu to be out for next yr? as we need to book the hotel abt 1 yr in advance, if my wedding is in March, I might not have time to book my preferred hotel.
 
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isabelle82

New Member
Thks master tong. Is 29 Jan ok then?
Just a recap groom n I r both born in yr of dogs
grooms parents are both snakes
brides mom dog
brides dad is horse
 
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crystals15

New Member
Dear Master Tong,
Thank godness. Coz i am thinking of sleeping first.Must depend on you to help me advise on the closer date to an chuang(my AD on 22/10/2010)


Details of zodiac:
Groom: 1982 (Dog)
Mother: 1953 (Snake)
Father: 1951 (Rabbit)

Bride: 1984 (Rat)
Mother: 1943 (Goat)
Father(Deceased): 1943 (Goat)

Thank you so much
 
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fulltime

New Member
***Repost from above due to the *** stated below. Thanks.

Hi Master, Can I check if the following 3 dates are good for wedding?

11 Dec 2010, 12 Dec 2010, 15 Jan 2011

Groom - Dragon 20/12/1976
Groom Dad - Rat 11/12/1948
Groom Mum - Tiger 14/3/1950

Bride - Horse 2/5/1978
Bride Dad and Mum - Born in 1940 (Dragon)

Master, I also heard that in the entire Lunar Month of October 2010, it is not suitable for marriage due to some "CHONG" in the tiger year? Is this true?

***15th Jan is considered to CHONG rat, so how will it affect my dad who is a rat zodiac sign?

Thanks so much for the info, Master.
 
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cl0vergirl

New Member
hi master tong,

thanks for your earlier advice.
what abt 30Apr2011, 14May2011, 21May2011 & 4th June2011 ?
are they good day for wedding?
and does it clash with anyone in the family?

Husband - Dragon
Husband's dad - ox
Husband's mum - horse

Wife - Dog
Wife's dad - Goat
Wife's mum - Dog

thanks again
 
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kssk

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Need your advice.

My mum and dad have divorce many years.

I would like to have my wedding next year,right now my dad have pass away. I did not attend the wake and would like to pray for him the 49 days.

If I pray the 49 days, can I have my wedding next year?

Pls advice.

Thanks.
 
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi fulltime,

11 Dec 2010 & 12 Dec 2010 are not good dates for wedding.
15 Jan 2011 will clash to Rat, hence cannot be used.

Master, I also heard that in the entire Lunar Month of October 2010, it is not suitable for marriage due to some "CHONG" in the tiger year? Is this true?

>>> No, whoever you heard from get the month wrong. For 2010, it is from 7th Aug - 7th Sep (which just nice overlaps with 7th lunar month). This is the Sui Po, which means the Month clash with the Year. This is not a good period for wedding purpose.

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi lovers0206,

To be frank, when the tong shu is out, it is too late, esp if you are going to book 2011 weekends banquet. From experience over the past years, most likely you will only be left with weekends lunch and weekdays. Weekends will be a real challenge to book once the tong shu is out. Not that it is impossible, but you have to be real lucky, esp if you are going for popular hotels
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi navyv,

Can you repost all your information again? It's has been archived up and takes a long time to find to find individual information. Thanks
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi covergirl,

Only 4th June2011 don't clash to anyone.

However, this is not a good date yet as the tong shu is not out yet. This date don't clash to anyone.

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi KS,

Normally when a family member pass away, you must get married within 100 days or after 1 year. Some practice 3 years, depending on your beliefs. Generally 1 year is sufficient as this is ia mark of respect for the deceased.

Hope this helps.
 
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lovers0206

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

We're planning to have weekend lunch, so I guess not much worry on this. Just that we have budget for it tats why I'm worried tat I couldn't get the dates we want at our prefered hotel. Anyway, thanks for the advice, will check wif my in-laws again.
 
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isabelle82

New Member
Master Tong I m getting v desperate. All the dates suggested r all bad dates. I need to get a gd date tt does nt affect or clash w anyone. 17 dec 2009, 8jan n 29 Jan r not gd for mr! Pls help!! I need a weekend dinner.
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isabelle82

New Member
Or can I hold my wedding ROM on a gd date? Then dinner still stays at 8 Jan 2011? Will that cause any clashes? What is a gd date for us then? Preferably in dec2010 or Jan 2011, before the dinner?
 
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pinkscrump

New Member
Posted on Wednesday, May 12, 2010 - 7:20 pm:   
Hi Master Tong,

I am looking at the date of 17 dec 2010 to hold my ROM.
please kindly advise whether is it good for e both of us.

Groom - snake (1977)
Bride - snake (1978)

thank you very much
 
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jochng

Member
Hi Master Tong,
Can you tell me if 17th Sept 2011 is a good date for customary wedding?

Groom (1983): Pig
Bride (1979): Sheep
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi isabelle82,

If you want to a good tong shu auspicious date weekend banquet in hotel, it is near impossible to get any now for 2010. You might have to consider weekend lunch or weekdays.

For Dec/Jan period, there are the only good weekends that don't clash:

- 18/12, 26/12, 15/01, 30/1

Normally we won't advise you to hold your dinner on a date that clashes as well. If really no choice, you can ROM and Customary on a good date and banquet on a normal day. This is worse come to worse scenario. Otherwise, if you want the dates to be good, you really might have to consider weekday or weekend lunch or consider restaurants (instead of hotels) or hotels that are not so popular type.

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Shirleen,

This date clash to Ox. If none of your family members are born in ox year, then this date is a 'potential' good date only. The tong shu is not out yet hence if you are only looking at general good dates, i can only advise you after Jul/Aug period when the tong shu is out.
 
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pinkscrump

New Member
Hi Master Tong,
thank you very much for the reply.

I am looking at the date of 17 dec 2010 to hold my ROM.
please kindly advise whether is it good for e both of us.

Groom - snake (1977)
Bride - snake (1978)

Groom's dad - snake (1941)
Groom's mum - horse (1954)

Bride's dad - tiger (1938)
Bride's mum - pig (1948)

Thank you very much = )
 


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