Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

minestrone

New Member
hi master tong can u tell me which of these dates can be used ?

bride: water dog
groom : water dog

parents : rat/rabbit
the dates are 28may, 25 june, 2jul, 9jul, 16 jul 2011
 


minestrone

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hi master tong can u tell me which of these dates can be used ?

bride: water dog
groom : water dog

parents : rat/rabbit/ monkey
the dates are 28may, 25 june, 2jul, 9jul, 16 jul 2011
 

shellzzz911

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

I would need your advice on the auspicious wedding dates for 2011. both my partner and i aer born in year of rat 1984.

Thanks!!
 

yapandrea

New Member
Hi Master David,

We like the wedding date of 19 June 2011. Like to know if this date is suitable for us to hold our wedding ceremony.

Groom: Snake 22 Sep 1977
Bride: Monkey 13 Aug 1980

Groom's Dad: 14 Aug 1950
Groom's Mom: 8 Apr 1955
Bride's Dad: 18 Mar 1952
Bride's Mom: 16 June 1956

Many Thanks
 

minestrone

New Member
hi master tong
i just heard that people do not get married in chinese 6th month because it is half marriage? is it true? if i rom outside the 6th month but hold the ceremony/dinner on 6th mth isit ok? since rom is more impt date
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi scorpyin,

In a typical Classical Feng Shui Audit, a master will look at the external environment for any Sha Qi, water features or other things that might affect the feng shui of the unit. As for the internal feng shui of the unit, the most important is the main door. The main door Qi determines the DNA of the house. If the door is good, the house is generally good. If it is bad, the house is generally bad. How we determine the type of Qi at the main door is using a luo pan to measure the direction/facing of the unit itself.

After which, the next most important thing will be the stove positioning. Wrong stove placement is the major source for health problems, ranging from minor ones such as falling sick often, to more serious one like heart attack, cancer, lungs problem, miscarriage and even difficulty in having kids.

Next on the list will be bedroom Qi. Every bedroom has different Qi. If for eg in your home now, you are staying in Bedroom 1 and your sister in bedroom 2, and you are doing better in your studies or career, high chance the room Qi in your room is better. We can measure this and tell you what will happen to you after staying in the room for some time. The bed positioning of the bed in the room is also very important. This will affect both health and wealth aspects of the occupant sleeping there.

If there are any water features such as fish tank or water fountain, this is VERY important. Water can float a ship, but it can also sink a ship. Water, if placed correctly, can bring you wealth. if placed wrongly, it can cause serious health problems, bankrupt or loss of money, or even death ( i personally had seen countless of these real life cases..). So if you don't intend to see feng shui, don't put any water feature in your home, and you will have one problem less to worry about
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After all these, the rest are variable factors where every house is different. Normally, if the main door, stove, bedroom, bed and water feature is correct, the house feng shui will be considered good (provided no external sha qi as well).

The move in date and start of reno dates will also affect the feng shui of the house. A wrongly selected one will "minus" some pts away from a good feng shui house as it can accidentally trigger the negative qi in the house.

For eg, there is a term in feng shui call "San Sha". this is the area inside and outside the house that cannot be renovated each yr if you are staying in the house. If you do , and without proper date selection, it will bring you bad luck within the next 4 months. The type of bad luck depends on the direction and qi of your house. 2 of the worst i've seen is death and lung cancer. This year, the San Sha is at the North sector. If for eg you are getting married and renovate the North sector (which happens to be your bedroom), you will realise you will get 3 bad things happening to you over the next 4 months. If your main door face South (which means your house sit North), the whole house cannot renovate in 2010. if you must, you need to choose a good date for it. Or if your main door face North, and there is a lift upgrading in front, this will also trigger the bad luck.

And you cannot use a tong shu to select a start reno and move in date coz the tong shu don't factor in your house direction. Hence, as you can see, the tong shu is not accurate in date selection (not just wedding date!)
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And as you can see, an authentic feng shui audit does not require you to buy ANY expensive auspicious objects, crystals, jades, pi xiu, qi lin etc etc. Feng Shui if done correctly, at its highest level, is "invisible" and blend in with the design of your house.

Hope this helps
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Can you drop me an email at [email protected] for the charges? Thanks
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi missy_bride_to_be

I Chinese hr "Shi Chen" is from 1pm - 2.59pm, 3pm - 4.59pm and so forth. Hence you can state this range of yours instead of giving me the exact if you wish. It is the same.

Btw, in case this is your concern, time of birth or Bazi CANNOT be used to do Black Magic! This is many elderly's concern and is a huge misconception. If birthday and time of birth alone can do black magic, then do we still need to fight war? The government or USA should engage us to fight the terrorists right? I believe their CIA can get the bad guys' birth data easily and with their bazi, we can just poke a few voodoo needles and they are gone
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Another scenario: Celebrities birth data are easily available on wikipedia or other celebrity and astrology website. So if you like Jay Chou or S.H.E, with their birth data, isn't it easy to make them fall in love with you (maybe by performing some love potion black magic?). So as you can see, Bazi "alone" is not possible to do black magic...

Just to clarify this to all readers here. Don't be misleaded by 'hearsay'. Everything in this world must be logical
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Nat Chew,

28may & 25 june 2011 don't clash to anyone. However, we will have to wait for tong shu to be out to check if it falls under a general good date.

Hope this helps
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Nat Chew,

The 6th month thing is pure superstition and i don't believe in this and there is no logic or truth to this. Personally i don't follow this superstition as i find it too absurb. 6th month means "half husband half wife"?? Then what about the popular 8th lunar month? Isn't it bad as well? Can't we say it is "8/12th of husband and wife"? Isn't 9th lunar month "3/4 husband and wife"? In this case, don't we all have to get married in lunar 12th month to make sure we are all "ONE husband and wife"?
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I hope you get what i mean. If your parents are strong believers, then do it to please them. But i can rest assure you, there is no truth to this
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Michelle Chen,

The tong shu is not out yet and will only be out July/Aug period. If you are looking at general dates, i can only help you after Aug.
 

minestrone

New Member
Hi mater tong

i also heard that 5th lunar month marry = poor couple? have u heard of it?
do u think u can help me check these dates as well. 30apr, 14may, 21may tks

bride: water dog
groom : water dog

parents : rat/rabbit/ monkey
 
<< Hi Alice Choo,

Here are some good weekends date according to tong shu (note that these dates are general dates only. Both your Bazi are not taken into cosnideration yet and these dates can still turn out to be a bad day if the bazi and date is not compatible):

03/07, 12/09, 18/09, 14/11, 18/12, 01/01

Hope this helps >>

Hi Master Tong,

Previously u have given me the dates as above. But now things changed. My fiance's grandmother has passed away on 27th May 2010. Is it that we have to ROM within 100 days or get the wedding done within 100 days? If so, are you able to provide me with the dates from now to the end of 100 days that suits us? It can be weekdays n weekends if there isn't much dates.
Groom's dad: Rooster
Groom's mum: Rabbit

Bride's dad: Rat
Bride's mum: Dragon

Groom: Rooster
Bride: Pig

My apologies to trouble you once again.
 

shellzzz911

New Member
hi master tong,

I read that sept 2011 is not a gd month for marriage? does it apply generally as i am looking at sep 18 2011..

if not is oct 9 or 10 2011 suitable for us?

bride and groom: rat 1984
bride mom: rooster
groom parents: goat/ monkey

thank u!
 

nahirene

New Member
Hi Master David,

would like to seek your advice on our planned wedding date as at 12 march 2011, if it is gd for both families, if not any alternative date in march available? Thank you.

Groom: 1982 Dog
His Dad: 1951 RAbbit
His mum: 1953 Snake
His Bro: 1981 Rooster

Bride: 1980 Monkey
Her mum: 1944 Monkey
Her dad: deceased
 

zenn99

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

We just bought a house and need to do renovation before our marriage early next year. The north sector of the house is living area. This house face south and sit north.

You said that 2010 is not good for renovation. what is your advise then? But the thing is we will not move in till early 2011. will it still affect?
 

freek

New Member
Hi Master Tong

Need your advice, whether ROM on 20th Nov 2011 and AD on 1st Dec 2011 are gd for both families, otherwise what are the alternative dates for Nov and Dec 2011.
Thank you!

Groom: 1977 Snake
His Mum: 1936 Rat
His Dad: Deceased

Bride: 1984 Rat
Her Dad: 1954 Horse
Her Mum: 1960 Rat
Her Sis: 1990 Horse
Her Bro: 1985 Cow
 

peak2012

New Member
Dear Master Tong,

Thanks for your previous advice. As both dates selected are not suitable, Im wondering if 22nd May 2011 for us?

Im looking at AD for May 2011 (Sat/Sun). Please advise. Many Thanks.

Groom: Dragon
Groom's mom: Ox
Groom's dad: Tiger

Bride: Goat
Bride's mom: Rat
Bride's dad: Pig

Many Thanks.
 
      
Hi Master Tong

Check with you whether 3rd of September 2011 is a good date for us to hold our wedding dinner.

GROOM: RABBIT (YR 1975)
BRIDE: MONKEY (YR 1980)
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Nat Chew,

>>i also heard that 5th lunar month marry = poor couple? have u heard of it?

This is the firs time i heard of this!
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There is definitely no logic to this but why is it so? Maybe you can tell us the logic behind this hearsay? I am curious to find out
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Only 14may 2011 does not clash to anyone (clash Pig) and may be a 'potential" general good date (need to wait for tong shu to be out to confirm).
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Alice Choo,

Yes. If a close one pass away, you have to do it within 100 days or 1 year later (some practice 3 yrs later).

For general tong shu dates for the next 100 days, here it is:

- 23/06, 03/07, 08/07, 13/07, 20/07, 01/08

Not many dates in Aug coz Aug 10th onwards is the 7th lunar mth

Hope this helps.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Mic,

Yes, 8th Sep - 7th Oct 2011 is not a good month for marriage.

9th Oct is a very bad day. Avoid.

10th Oct do clash to anyone. We will have to wait for the tong shu to be out to check if it will be a general good day.

Hope this helps.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Andrea,

Every day has a purpose. Not everyday is a suitable day for wedding. 19th June is not a day that is meant for wedding. Rather, it is a "Bi" day, more for closing down of business, terminating of an event, etc etc. Hence i don't recommend using it for wedding.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Aik Hoon,

This date clash to Monkey, which is the bride, hence cannot be used.

The tong shu is not out yet, hence i can't advise the general tong shu good dates at this moment. The only way and right way to do it now will be using Bazi to select.

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Zenn,

If your house face South and sit North, this year 2010 (till 3rd Feb 2011) cannot renovate the whole house. The house is sitting on "San Sha". If you renovate the house without choosing a proper date, it could trigger the San Sha and you will get 3 bad things happening over the next 4 months.

It will still affect irregardless if you are staying inside or not. The effect will be much greater if you are staying inside. If you are not staying inside, it could still tigger the negative Qi in the property, which is not good for the feng shui of the house.

Hope this helps.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi thomas,

Both dates don't clash to anyone. However, we will have to wait for the tong shu to come out if you are just looking at general tong shu dates.
 

zenn99

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

This proper date is base on the occupants bazi too? Will this be a date that it is hard to come by meaning we have to wait for months etc.

And if the house has missing area like east and southeast will it be a bad house?

Is direction of bedrooms more important or location of bedroom more important?
 

nahirene

New Member
Hi Master David,

i would like to check with u again, is the marriage between Dog (groom) and Monkey (bride) suitable in the year of Tiger?

Thank you.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Zenn,

This date is selected based on all the occupant's year of birth as well as the house direction. This is the correc method to do it for move in, start Reno and all house related dates. Cannot use the tong shu. 99%wrong unless u r lucky to get that 1%correct
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don't have to wait for months. Maybe 1 or 2 weeks, depending.

missing sector will affect the house, but the effects will be different for every house. Eg if the sector missing is your wealth sector, then the house is not good in terms of money.

Location of bedroom within the house is impt. But it depends on the type of qi in the bedroom n different house with different directions n layout is different. There is no fixed template for this.

Hope this helps
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xy_85

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Can you help to advise a good date for ROM for next year after CNY (good to be on a sat).

Groom - Chicken, 1981
Bride - Ox, 1985

Thanks alot !
 

ivanchrissy

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Please advise if 28 May 2011 is a good date for us to get married?

Groom - Horse, 1978
Bride - Goat, 1979

Groom parents - both Ox, 1949

Bride's father - Rat, 1948
Bride's mother - Dragon, 1952

If not 28 May 2011, are there other good dates in 2011?

Thanks!
 

nahirene

New Member
Hi Master David,

I would like to seek your advice again for the following dates:

26 Feb 2011 or
5 Mar 2011

For:

Groom: 1982 Dog
His Dad: 1951 RAbbit
His mum: 1953 Snake
His Bro: 1981 Rooster

Bride: 1980 Monkey
Her mum: 1944 Monkey
Her dad: deceased

Thanks again.
 

minestrone

New Member
hi master tong.. i dont know whats the reason being 5th lunar mth = poor but i heard of it

is ROM date more impt than ceremony date if it is on split days? ie ceremony date does not have to be so auspicious as compared to ROm
 

evelon3008

New Member
Hi Master David,

Please advise if The following is a good date for us to get married:

30 OCT 2011 or
9 OCT 2011

For:

Groom: 1988 DRAGON
His Dad: 1964 DRAGON
His mum: 1971 PIG

Bride: 1988 DRAGON
Her mum: 1964 DRAGON
Her dad: -
 

shellzzz911

New Member
hi master tong,

thanks for the reply. can you advise if the below dates are fine:

bride n groom: rat 1984
bride mom: rooster
groom parent: goat/ monkey

dates: september 3, 4, november 20 and december 11, 18 (all for 2011)

thanks in advance!
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Xiaoying,

As much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates for year 2011, the Tong Shu for 2011 is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2011 yet. Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.

As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.

If you have any particular date in mind, just post it here. I can advise you if it is a bad day as there are some days that are definitely bad and cannot be used for marriage; and some days that will clash to either of you or your parents, so cannot be used as well.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Nat Chew,

Don't worry..there is no logic to that and it is pure hearsay. Ignore it.

ROM is more impt, but to our parents, AD is impt. Hence if possible, we try to choose auspicious dates for both events
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Eve,

30th Oct don't clash anyone (clash Rat).
9th Oct is a super bad date for wedding. Avoid

Will have to wait for tong shu to be out to check if it is a general good date for wedding (if you are looking at only a general good day).
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Dear all,

I will be away overseas later this evening for 3 weeks. All my replies will be much slower due to limited internet access. Rest assurred i will reply you whenever i have internet access
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