Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

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thommy

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"And for some Cantonese, they don't like to fetch the bride at 9am due to pan-tang reasons."

Hi David, may I know due to what reasons? Me and my wife are both Cantonese, don't think we've heard of this 'rule' before.

And I presume you meant 'roast pig' instead of 'roast pork' right? cos roast pork is cheap, roast pig is very expensive haha.
 


cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Thomas,

haha yes roast pig, not roast pork. Indeed it is more expensive
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Coz 9am in Cantonese, the pronounication sounds like "hook". So some elderly said it will 'hook your spouse away"
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But don't worry. This won't happen unless in a person's Bazi Destiny chart, it is meant to be this way!
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minnie_goh

New Member
Hi Master Tong

In your reply to Angie, can i check, to cheat by doing it in different year, does it have to be lunar year?

If say sibling wedding in Dec 09, can cheat by doing mine in Jan 2010 (diff english year but same lunar year).

Thanks!
 
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ipc

New Member
Hi,any good dates from sept to dec?
groom:snake
Father:dog
Mother:rat
Bride:rooster
Father:horse
Mother:goat
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi minnie_goh,

Yes some do use different english yr. Since this is a "cheating" method, it does not differentiate between lunar year or english year. Either one can be used
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But of course whenever possible, i will still stick by the original method of 12 mths apart.
 
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ipc

New Member
Hi Master Tong,
Sorry for the lack of info.
Any good dates for year 2010?

any good dates from sept to dec? Thank you very much.

groom:snake
Father:dog
Mother:rat

Bride:rooster
Father:horse
Mother:goat
 
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macadamia3050

New Member
Sorry Master Tong, forgot to ask... read about the part on siblings cannot get married in the same year. Which is considered 'married' - ROM or AD?
Cos my ROM will be end of this year but AD late next year, and my elder sister is probably getting married (solemnisation + wedding) some time next year too. Is this ok?
Appreciate your advice again.
 
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keverin

New Member
hi master tong

do like to ask if u have any dates recommended to me . I have intend to have my ROM and customary together

bride : monkey
Groom : monkey
 
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stitchy

New Member
Thank you Master Tong.

Itz seems tat oni left 30 Oct 2010 and we still need to wait for the Tong Shu to match with our Baizi to determine if itz a good date.

So Master Tong, could you kindly provide some good dates from sept to dec 2010 (saturdays) for us to select? How abt 18 sept and 2 oct 2010?

Bride: Horse (Mar 1978)
Bride's Mom: Rabbit (Mar 1951)
Bride's Dad: Dragon (Feb 1952)

Groom: Monkey (Nov 1980)
Groom's Mom: Horse (Sep 1954)
Groom's Dad: Deceased

Reali appreciate your kind advice.=D
 
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi ipc,

For 2010 dates, as much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates, the Tong Shu is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2010 yet. Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.

As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.

If you have any particular date in mind, just post it here. I can advise you if it is a bad day as there are some days that are definitely bad and cannot be used for marriage; and some days that will clash to either of you or your parents, so cannot be used as well.
 
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi macadamia3050,

In fact, ROM is the real marriage coz that is the day both of you officially become husband and wife. But for AD, the elderly still regards this as very important (although it is just tea ceremony and banquet). Since this is just a chinese belief or superstion that siblings cannot get married in the same year, no one in this world can measure how accurate it is, right or wrong. Hence on the safe side, i will recommend taking both ROM and AD into account if possible (unless really no choice).

In your case, try to do it in different calendar years and at least 3 mths apart, if possible. If really no choice, the ROM will be taken as the marriage date.
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi souless,

I need more info from you such as your parent's animal signs and when you want your wedding to be held. If 2010, the Tong Shu is not out yet hence i will not be able to provide general dates now at this moment.
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Scrumpy,

If you do Bazi dates selelction, you don't have to wait for the Tong Shu to come out. Using Bazi, you can select dates for ANY year.

For 18 Sept, it clash to Ox, which is none of you.

For 2 Oct, it clashes to Rabbit, hence cannot use.

Therefore, 18/9 is another date that might be able to be used if it matches the Bazi.

I can't provide you with general 2010 dates now as the Tong Shu is not out yet. The only way to do it without the Tong Shu is to use Bazi to select dates, which is the authentic and accurate method.

Hope this helps and have a nice weekend
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winter2331

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

We will be getting married in Dec 2009.

groom:monkey
Father:snake
Mother:dragon

Bride:rooster
Father:rat
Mother:dragon

Understand that there is several events during the AD need to choose a good timing.

1. Time to Fetch The Bride,
2. Time for Bride to Step into Groom's House

Pls advise is there a need to choose the time for the bride to return to her parent's house.

We've shortlisted one of my frenz to be jie mei on the AD. However, she is born in Tiger year. Is it advisable for us to approach her to be jie mei coz her zodiac (tiger) clashes with my hubby's zodiac(Monkey). Or it does not matter.

Thanks alot in advance for your advice.
 
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tan_ann

New Member
Hi Master Tong

I intend to have my customary next year oct onwards. So would like to enquire if you have any dates to recommend me .

Bride : Rat (May 1984)
Father: Dragon (Dec 1952)
Mother: Pig (Dec 1959)

Groom : Monkey (Jan 1981)
Father: Snake (jul 1953)
Mother: Chicken (sept 1957)

Appreciate your help..
 
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celia79

New Member
Hi Master Tong

We had our bazi read and we given a timing (7am to 11am) to fetch the bride and complete the tea ceremony. Is abit confused as read from the previous post, you give a specific timing on when the groom must step into the bride house and complete the tea ceremony but seems like mine timing is quite a big range.

Would like to enquire is there any timing that I need to avoid for my case?

Would like to ask whether 16th Sep 2010 is a good day? Thanks!

Bride: Goat
Groom: Hose

Read from the previous posts that
We had our bazi read and we were given a timing from 7am to 11am to fetch the bride and perform the tea ceremony. Would like to ask is there a specific timing whereby the groom must step into the bride house and vice vesa?

Would like to ask whether 16th Sep is a good day?
Thanks!

Bride: Goat
Groom: Hose
AD: 16th Sep 2010
 
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ahpig

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Do you think it's possible to suggest a few ok/good dates for my fiance and me to ROM? We're hoping for a date September 2009 to December 2009.
For your reference:
Groom: Dragon (July 1976, Hanoi)
Groom's Mom: Tiger (November 1938)
Groom's Dad: Deceased

Bride: Rooster (September 1981, Cantonese)
Bride's Mom: Deceased
Bride's Dad: Ox (August 1949)

Thanks a lot in advance and looking forward to your reply. c",)
 
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stitchy

New Member
Hihi Master Tong,

Thank you so much for ur kind advice.

May I check wat if the date chosen clashes wif other family members' zodiac e.g siblings? Is it still ok to go ahead and choose those dates?

Master Tong, any idea when the Tong Shu for 2010 will be coming out? Alot of pple have been asking and waiting. Perhaps you might ve news abt it?

Is it convenient for you to send me the price list of your consultation service of Bazi wedding dates selection? As my HTB and I might consult you for the dates selection for our big day next yr.

My email add is [email protected]

Thanks in advance and look forward to your reply!
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orangeybone

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

We would appreciate if you could advise us suitable dates for our wedding in 2010.

Below are our details:
Groom: ox(oct 1985)
Groom's dad: rabbit (apr 1951)
Groom's mum: snake (may 1953)

Bride: mouse (oct 1984)
Bride's dad (deceased): mouse (jul 1948)
Bride's mum: pig (dec 1959)


dates are 2010:
10th jul
17th jul
11th sep
18th sep
25th sep
2nd oct
9th oct
10th oct
16th oct


thank you very much.
 
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simyy

New Member
Master Tong,

We would appreciate if you could advise us suitable dates for our wedding in 2010,

Bride: Goat
Bride's mom: Monkey
Bride's dad: Goat

Groom: Monkey
Groom's mom: Rabbit
Groom's dad: Goat


Can i have the timing as well?

Thanks.
 
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crappievg

New Member
Hi Master Tong,
My partner and I are looking to rom on 25 Dec 09 which is also christmas day. Both of us however, are not christians.

Pls advise if the date is suitable for us.

Groom: Dog
Groom's mum: Rabbit

Bride: Rat
Bride's dad: Horse
Bride's mum: Dog

Any particular auspicious timing to note?

Thank you so much.
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi winter2331,

There is no need to choose a time for the bride to return to parent's house. You only need a time for the groom to step into your home, fetch you to his home and complete the tea ceremony with his parents.

>We've shortlisted one of my frenz to be jie mei >on the AD. However, she is born in Tiger year. >Is it advisable for us to approach her to be >jie mei coz her zodiac (tiger) clashes with my ?>hubby's zodiac(Monkey). Or it does not matter.

This is not how it works. It does not matter. The jie mei cannot be the zodiac sign that clashes with the day you are getting married in, not clash with you or your hubby.

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Ann,

As much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates, the Tong Shu is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2010 yet. Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.

As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.

If you have any particular date in mind, just post it here. I can advise you if it is a bad day as there are some days that are definitely bad and cannot be used for marriage; and some days that will clash to either of you or your parents, so cannot be used as well.
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Hui hui,

I need your parents' animal signs to see if the day clashes with them.

For 16/9/2010, the auspicious timing is from 7am - 8.59am. The 9am to 10.59am timing is not a good timing. Normally 1 Chinese hour "Shi Chen" is 2 hours, so we normally give 2 hours interval.

In your case, the groom has to step into your house at 7am, fetch you to his home and complete tea ceremony with his parents by 8.59am.

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Wong,

You can use the following 'general' 2009 dates for ROM:

- 03/10, 16/10, 28/10, 17/11, 29/11, 06/12, 11/12, 13/12, 25/12,

Hope this helps.
 
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ahpig

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for the enlightenment.

Please advise any good/ok date of the month September 2009.

Would like to enquire is there any timing that I need to avoid for my case?

Sorry that i keep on asking the same question.
 
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tan_ann

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for the enlightenment.

The wedding dates are 2010:

6/11
13/11
20/11
27/11

Can i have the timing as well?

Thanks.
 
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daydream99

New Member
Dear Master,

Please advise for An Chuang, do we still have the combing hair session, the boy jumping session nowadays?

Also, for the bedside lamp - do we need to light it overnight before the big day? (I like the traditional oil lamp)

Thanks
Day
 
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yuki_21

New Member
Hi Master Tong :

Any good dates for Nov 2010 for my Actual wedding ?

Me:pig
Fiance :Monkey
Fathera: Rabbit
Brother Horse
 
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rachel_fu

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

If my fiance's sister is getting married in Sep this year and my wedding is Jan 2010, can I attend her wedding in Sep then?

Thank you!
 
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stitchy

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Guess you missed out on my earlier post on 6 July. Awaiting for your kind advice.

Thanks alot in advance!
 
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celia79

New Member
Hi Master Tong,
Thanks for the advice!

Btw, if we did not select any good timing for ROM signing, will this affect anything?

Didn't know that ROM need to have a specific timing so we just choose a good date (based on our bazi) and do the signing in the evening.
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Wong,

I did checked for you the dates for Sep but there are none due to 7th month which has already taken up more than half the month. The rest of the good dates all clashes.

You will need to choose a good timing for your ROM and Fetch the bride once you selected the day.
 


cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Ann,

Here are the analysis:

6/11 - Bad day for wedding. Cannot use.
13/11 - Clash to Rooster. Cannot use
20/11 - Clash to Dragon. Cannot use
27/11 - Clash to Pig. Cannot use.

Hence all these dates are not useable. Hope this helps
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