Serene,
Whatever you do, enjoy the love. But it's best to love someone worthy for your love... which is, someone who truly loves you.
The final test... is for life: Marriage.
No matter who he is, while it is possible for a man to love more than one women, as long as he is 'available' he should be committed to you, hence there is marriage.
Loveless marriage happens because the order is upside down... A woman gets the marriage but the 'sensation' fades, and they called that sensation love.
It's entirely possible to have love without marriage for a lifetime. But that'd be neo-fairy tale... which is, he will and has to be the One.
Afterall, marriage is only a system. It existed to protect the legal rights of a man willing to commit to a girl in a time when men hunted down girls for sex, and law was fists and lust.
So, Serene, love first, then... whether you got married, that's another thing. A loveless marriage and a partnerless life is about the same. Nobody cares really for you... or you don't care anyway.
I am not a psychic, I can only go by what people tell me.
Yes. The One is ALWAYS about love... about who you truly desire. On the other hand, there are billions of dicks around, but there won't be really so many men who will truly love you. See?
So, the One is the One lah~ LOL~
May you live a life full of true love... Don't get hurted.