thanks tingting and apple!
I'm not sure about the an chuang thingy, but my future MIL asked my parents to buy a pair of pants for him so my future hubby & i went to shop for a pair & i paid for it. My galfriend who's getting married also did the same (Her mother told her to do so). My future MIL did explain to me the reason behind it but it went out from my other ear as soon as she's done explaining, hahaha! As long as everyone's happy, just go according to their wishes...afterall, there's no harm. But we didn't give him the pants on GDL. FMIL says must wait till AD then give...so funny!