hi waiwai, im so glad ur parents are understanding...my FMIL is not....now alot of blame on my fiancee for not following Hong Kong custom...
for example, we chose ivory wedding invitation cards...over the red one cos it is very weird...
but her hong kong relatives were shocked why wedding card is white...so my FMIL blasted out at my fiancee...i feel helpless excpet to constantly remind my fiancee we make the decision together and I will stand firm for her...