<font color="0077aa">starlight, ampoule is not necessary.. most of the professional mua like kenneth lee, tg goh, dily wang, etc dun use that.. no offense, but i think some BS or mua use this as an excuse to make more money out of btb.. =P
tingting, depends on individual whether you want/can attend other ppl's weddings which near yours.. i know some frens observe the rules 3 mths before and after their own wedding.. for me, i dun care.. in fact a few of my closer frenz got married or are getting married in tis period (oct06 to mar07).. we helped each other out during the wedding as bridesmaids, etc.. so yupz, no pantang for us..
then instead of delaying the menses, you can ask for pills to advance it.. that may be better for you.. but go to the doc soon tho.. its already late nov.. </font>