(2006) Brides of year 2006


wah, so happening ah? Since ice n me cannot produce noise we absorb la, we be the sound proof board hahahaha. if not too noisy later kana scold :p hahaha

Anyone interested in orchard mandarin triple 3 buffet huh? jus got their news letter, 50% off for ladies :D~ but monday only.
 
ribbons, that is why i said FH no logic & not thinking properly!

318, my female married colleagues told me to get use to it... they said, hubbies can go home everyday, shower & sit infront of tv or read papers.. until doze off. the wives hv to take care of the child & teach him. they told me they already accepted that!

well... if the hubby is giving me pocket money & earning lots of money to give me a good life & brings me for good holidays 2 times a yr.. he wans to watch tv, read, or do wat he wans i will not bothered also.. kekekeke
 
yayaya, blackjack better :P count me in!!!

hehehe, 50% off leh, good deal mah. ai mai? anyone interested bo? but think the standard drop a bit liow la
 
318, a close friend of mine who just became a mother lately told me her baby cld be wailing away & yet the hubby can continue to snore & not woken up!!

she also "ren ming", in pain after delivery also has to wake up to tend to the baby when her confinement lady is not here yet

so, women of TODAY are superwomen, we work to bring in money, & many are earning more than the men.. at the same time, we are the caregiver for the children & we are also the homemaker (ie, maid at home)
 
hahah, u not bui la. got meat better. after that incident i lost most of my meat, now boobies also bo liow. damn sad, trying to put back on. :P

Only valid on Nov monday, so left 13, 20 and 27
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which one u prefer? the rest leh? suddenly so quiet....
 
I wan buffet and i wan blackjack... Orghh....
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Diana, hopefully will hav time to meet up during CNY ar. Yes, MJ leh...hands v itchy leh...
 
haha.. tansy no worries la.. u come back then we all go diana house to gamble... keke... i wan MJ!!! after MJ can play blackjack also keke
 
tingz me fine wif 20th or 27th...

actually i did lose weight over the incident also...but i tham jia so gain all back esp during my HM...guess wat, my hubby frenz call me chao tar burger...coz they say normally people look slimmer when tan but i look swollen and orh lu lu....
 
hahaha!!! chao tar burger! so farnie! diana i tot u lost weight lor... where u went for honeymoon?

tingz and diana... dun brood over k.. *hugz*
 
Diana, u got lark per boh? i only peel abit, but hb peel alot, but he still so orr. haha

Cecilia, thanks, we will survive!!! Diana hor? :D

Oh the offer didn't say much leh, i cut and past let u see.


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i guess before all of us get married/ pregnant, we got to set our husband's thinking straight first.. as in child care, house work, etc... better to settle it now... thats what i feel..
 
chao tar burger nt the worse lor...wen his frenz first mit us after our HM, his good frenz can still say, hey wat u do to Diana? Y u bring back a local maid back? See...hmmm....and they all keep laughing wen they saw me....

i slowly gain back the weight...tink i was slimmer during my PS tat time....then i gain more during my HM at maldive coz every day 3 meals also buffet mah...wahahaha....

cecilia, dun worry...me and tingz are fine liao....if nt how cum i gain so much weight back...wahahaha....

i lark abit...but tink my hubby lark more and faster.....he all along is orh orh one...so nt much diff ;-p
 
Diamond~ can not wait,have to teach hb to do housework!Unless you have maid lar! before we ROM/get the house, I already discuss with him, if we have house, who take care this lar,who take care that lar! so many housework,how? ask him to suggest who should do. When have baby,how to take care lar!who handle this or that...have to change their mind 1st before the things come in!

Nowadays,I let him take care of the flooring and toilet,and wash plate after dinner. Of course talk to him nicely and make him do it by 'xin gan qing yuan' lar!
 
omg!!!! today to many post >.<

Have you all get ready Ang Bao? I think we need to get more S$2 notes, as lots of angbao ended with 8 such as $8, $28, $48, $88, $128.
 
318, he used to help with mopping the floor once a week.. But then, since the dad passed away in Aug, he goes home everyday to have dinner with his mum. So, by the time he got home, i hv already finished sweeping the floor and/or mopping the floor. Lately, almost every Sat, by 10am we are out of the house, to send the mum to the hopsital or some other things, get home, is late leow.. u cannot expect me to get up early to do housework right? as for sunday, i try not to do housework.. wan to rest.. but will need to spend time with his mum for a few hrs also...

this is life since the dad passed away
 
Ribbon~ then we will not so tiring to do housework!

Shirley~That Malay Hari Raya I went down to change note, only left $5 new note...now can change the new note of $2?
 
I agree wif u gals..woman really ming ku. Gotto work, gotto give birth, be maid at home, then gotto worry HB fall for other woman when we pregnant somemore. Me and HB stay together since Jun, then there were many times I got pissed with him for not helping out with housework, until recently i told him, I am not going to do anymore housechores..then he realised I am seriously angry and offered to help. Normally he'll take his own sweet time to sweep/mop the floor, then I have to explain nicely to him that we'll have more time to rest after we finish the housechores..so now we try to finish all the routine stuff on fri nite so that sat and sun got time to relax or go out for dates. Keke..

Diamond, maybe you try to think this way, if the same thing happen to your mum (touch wood), I am sure you'll react the same way. Probably your MIL is old and your HB just wanna spend watever time he can with her. Who knows that might be his last chance. Maybe she really is too much at certain times..but think of it this way..she don't have that many days left..whereas u still got a entire lifetime to spend with your HB. My mum complains a lot that I neglect her too...but sometimes when I go home to visit her, she'll prepare all my fav. dishes and soup..sometimes kinda makes me wanna cry..so touched. Keke. guess old folks are like that, they think that children after marriage will not bother about them anymore..prob that is why she is trying to seek a lot of attention frm your HB now.

Ya, talking abt Ang Pow..I heard now banks don't have new $2 notes yet...only near CNY then can change..how huh?
 
tingting, i will also finish cleaning toilets, &amp; mopping floor on fri night. ironing of clothes wld be on either tues or thurs. coz i do sweep the floor &amp; wide the toilet floor every other day on a wkday... so i iron clothes on the days i dont do this &amp; not washing clothes. i see my family almost every day.. as they stay upstairs. and who say the person who is ill will have a shorter life? my FFIL was healthy okie, he passed away suddenly in his sleep... while my FMIL has been ill for 17 yrs.. but then, she still outlive him.. in life, we never know what has been planned for us.. anything can happen.. we need not pass away coz of old age, illnesses or watever.

318, nope he does not eat dinner with me. i eat at home &amp; the food is prepared &amp; brought over to me by my parents (even if tabau, they will tabau for me). i am fine with it, as long as i dun hv to rush back to his mum's place every day after work.
 
Ting~sometime I also think myself quite selfish..I can spent whole day (day and night) at my mummy house,feel happy and relax. but when I spent whole day at IL house, I can't have this kind of feeling..I start to count, if I at home, I can done this and that...can take a good afternoon nap .. :p of course didnt let my MIL know lar! hahaha!
 
318, oh yes. anything at home, finished, tell my parents they will buy. every wkend, during lunch time, my dad will defintely call to see if i need lunch. &amp; ususally 9 out of 10 times, i am out.. but still, he calls without fail.

i go see my parents everyday for at most 20-30mins only. my parents are staying with my married bro &amp; they rented out their place
 
diamond - envy u siah..u got nice parents. Too bad I stay so far away from my mum..now stay nearer to MIL..but she don't cook. Only cook soup once in a while..but I still prefer my mum's soup. Hehe.. sometimes I even hv to cook then ask my in-laws to come and eat. Now I worry if really have kids next time, how to trust my kids with them.
 
tingting, when have kids that time, u hv a few options:
- shift house to be nearer to your own parents
- leave the child with your parents on wkdays &amp; bring him back only on wkends
- get a nanny to take care
- get ILs to help
- you be home maker &amp; take care urself
 
hi nami, my email address is [email protected]. me on leave this fri. got back to work on mon &amp; tue then start on leave again then go back work beginning of next mth.

hi nueyerdua,

congratulation to you too. thks for the comfort words. i muz really jia you. btw, where u holding ur wedding ?
 
thks to all of you gals out there, i will definitely, be beautiful this SAT and jia you too. How i wish it will end fast then I can sigh a relieve. now so busy clearing my workload and busy with last min stuff for my wedding.

your take care too...
 
hi munmun..
dun worie too much k.. i guess mayb u can ask ur hb to talk to his parents and xplain.. then perhaps its best that most of the tings ur hb handles it lor. so wont trouble his parents to get tis and that... then might b better..
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its always the beginnin when one side cannot accept the other side's doings.. like my parents.. at the beginnin they r quite unhapie that the whole tingy v to start before daybreak ... nw they seems ok w it..but i noe they stil prefer the norm timing.. i guess wat i can do is to accomodate other tings lor.. so its always a try to give and take tingy..
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.. everything will work out fine ultimately.. ;p

hi debbie..
wow.. long leave uh.. goin on HM?.. wher? dun overwrk urself leh..
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Hi hi gals,

Hope everyone is doing great yah!!It's Nov le, our wedding mth!! =) I'm counting down le, tml- Friday finally my big day le!! So excited! But hopefully everything be smoothly done with &amp; is a memorable one!! ;)

Till then take care everyone!! Shall post again! ;)

*Cheers*
 
Hi gals... the problem is none of them paying. I'm the one gonna pay. So how??? Only put my name la...kekeke...

I have no choice. PIL already sold their house to live with us. MIL rarely clean the house. After cook neva clean the kitchen. and she cook everyday. Now I whenever I go into my once beautiful kitchen with italian cooker and sink, I "kek sim". Not beautiful anymore. They drink coffee like water so my white solid surface everyday got coffee stains. Now i regret making everything white. All HB's fault.

HB needless to say, don't do housework wan la. Only tell him something broken then he fix.
 
yeah, no matter how good it is, nothing will ever beat mum's home cooked food, comforts of our own room, etc... =)

diamond.. u everyday go see ur parents? do u stay near them? My work place is near my parents place, so sometimes after work next time will pop by as and when i can to have dinner with them...
 
Another issue, next Monday gonna go for PS. He wants to bring his parents to take photo with us. He decide all this without consulting me!!! Why??? Already on tight budget now have to spend extra for MIL makeup. Sian.....
 
Sam

Tell him to pay for it if he wants to do things extra.

The prob i think becos not he pay that why he not sure how tight we are. keke. Mayb that will drop his idea.
 
hi all,

wow so many posts.. seems like most (not all) of us have some issues with ILs etc. hee hee..

yeps heard banks no longer issues new $2 notes. Thinking how to route around this issue also. hmmm....
 
Cecilia, i think its for public, cos i got the info from the hotel newsletter. Can call to ask if interested
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Diana, only me and u ah? I 20th or 27th also can. Anyone else?
 
Sam ~ your PS album want to include your IL? Agreed with Apple, let him pay, if not he can't feel the pain..

Angel ~ try to exhange with malay colleagues lor for the new note!
 


Ribbon – so good at least your mum help you to change it.

318bi – I don’t even know during the Malay Hari Raya got new note >.<, I collected those left over S$2 note fm CNY fm my colleagues. But still not enough le, only S$200.00. This only allows me to prepare for 25 ang bao ended with S$8.

Think you all still very good can see your parents, my parents are at Malaysia and I am working here about 10 yrs liao. I am staying with my PILs at the moment… for this wedding I think I am the one prepared for everything on behalf of my parents.

But I am lucky to have a good PILs, so far, I never help them to do any house work, but I clean my toilet, my room every Sat, iron only my clothes if I am feeling like to do so. Wash my clothes daily, although my MIL asks me to leave it to my Sister-in-law’s maid to do it.
 
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