pandalic, thanks for the information. my friend told me to transfer the APs to a handbag. said easier to carry around & not so conspicious as to carrying the AP box around... am stressed over such little things... FMIl is ill & now i hv to handle all the things my mum wans for GDL.. & she is not happy abt it.. coz to her, is the guy's side responsibilities!
the other thing, when will be the appropriate time for tea ceremony at church? after the church service, it will be followed by photo-taking in the church hall, then lunch. then tea ceremony in the canteen can??