Hi everyone,
I’m back from my wedding!
It was simply beautiful and worth all the hard work and time that my husband and I put in to prepare for it. Even till today, I am still replaying it in my head and savoring all my memories of this special day.
When we both woke up to a wet Saturday morning (it was drizzling at my place up north and pouring & thundering at his place in the east), we were both definitely feeling apprehensive. But thank God – that was all the rain we had last Saturday! Traffic up and down the SLE/CTE was smooth that Saturday morning so we spent much less time on the road than we had catered for. This gave us some extra time to take more photos with our families. My own relatives were very supportive that day – quite a number of them were at my parents’ place by 7.30am just to see the groom come at about 8am to fetch me to his parents place!
The tea ceremonies in the morning took faster than we expected so there were lots of time in-between for our helpers and us to grab a bite and rest. We used Four Seasons for the mini-buffet lunch at my mum’s place. The caterer was slightly late but the food was delicious and the portions extremely generous.
Something else to share, I hired a bus from Bus Plus to ferry my jiemeis, xiongdis, photographer & videographer around in the morning. The feedback we got was that it was a very comfortable and unique experience. This way, our xiongdis didn’t have to tire themselves out driving. It’s quite cool too as the bus would display the word “WEDDING” on its LCD display board. As it was a 17-seater, we used the bus to fetch some of my relatives who don’t drive to church after the tea ceremony. I was quite touched by my relatives’ enthusiasm in attending all of aspects of my wedding – even the church service – even though they are non-believers. Felt so loved by everyone that day.
Now the most significant part of the day - the Holy Matrimony.
Talking about this, I’m really glad we opted for a full service. The turnout was tremendous – there were about 400 guests – and a large number of them turned up just to be witnesses to our marriage. St Andrew’s has 25 rows of pews and when I arrived at the doorstep, I saw all 25 rows filled with guests. My pageboy looked so solemn and focused on carrying the ring pillow properly that it was such an adorable sight. Anyhow, words simply cannot describe the feelings in me as I marched in holding my father’s arm to the sound of Pachelbel’s Canon in D.
I must say that the church ladies really did a fantastic job with the flowers. All our guests, especially the elderly folk, loved the red & white theme I picked for church that day. For the flower stands, they used roses, carnations, orchids and eustomas. For the pews, roses and carnations were used. Our church bulletin covers had red roses with baby’s breath on them. I had also requested Lavish Dine Catering to use a red and white theme for fresh flower arrangements for the reception table and tea reception – they used roses and gladiolas in their arrangements. For my hand bouquet, it was a cascade arrangement with red roses and white lilies. To soften the look slightly, I gave my flowergirls 2 stalks of pink gerberas each to carry in lieu of flower baskets. Hehe…come to think of it, even the pastors conducting the ceremony and children’s choir who sang in our service were wearing red and white.
For the tea reception, we had feedback that the food was delicious and that there the portions were more than sufficient. Only downside was that the caterer started setting up late – at about 1pm instead of 12noon as promised so they were still not completely ready when the service ended at about 3pm. Hubby and I give their laksa, swedish meatballs and satay the thumbs up! Being the foodies that we are, hubby and I sat down to eat at about 4pm when most of the guests had left. I think it helped that both of us continually kept our stomachs full the whole day, because I didn’t feel faint at all that day.
By the time we left church and went back to the suite, I just had sufficient time to remove my make-up and wash my hair before the MUA came. I strongly recommend brides to go down to the reception to mingle with your guests. For myself, I managed to take pics with my relatives and my parents’ guests as well as chat with my friends who came early.
The banquet was a success – with gorgeous décor, great food (we served cod fish which tasted wonderful even when it was re-heated for our supper), and impeccable service. It was everything that we expected of a wedding at Raffles and more. We even manage to get a relatively early start at 8.25pm and the banquet ended at about 10.45pm. Thankfully, my husband’s colleagues let him off that night – he only had to drink ¼ glass of beer. Also, we were quite glad that our alcohol estimate was spot on (when we signed up, we didn’t even bother negotiating for corkage waiver!). The only additional charge we had for alcohol was for 1 glass of stout, we didn’t even exceed the 30L barrel of beer and 23 bottles of house wine that we got as part of our package.
For music, we used Jonathan Cain’s Bridal March for the 1st march-in and Come What May (Ewan McGregor & Nicole Kidman) for the 2nd march-in/Champange Pouring. For the photo-montage, we used Steven Chapman’s I Will Be Here & This Is The Day by Scott Wesley Brown. Our guests were served their first dish accompanied by the piece Summon The Heroes (1996 Atlanta Olympic Theme Song) – I selected it partly as a tribute to the heroes that night, the waiters and waitresses.
Looking back, I must say I am a really blessed bride to have had such a lovely wedding. All through the last 1.5 years of wedding prep, my husband was always beside me, working together with me to create this beautiful and special day. In addition, I didn’t have any major disagreements with my own parents over wedding issues even though they are non-believers. They even gave us a wonderful present that day – my parents gave us all the ang paos they received for their share of the banquet tables!
Now, I am just so looking forward to my honeymoon. When we return, our photos and video should be ready, and I will throw a party at our lovenest for all my helpers.