popprincesstrin,
Ya, FourSeasons is good but is abit pricey & the package don include beer... Must pay alot after I calculate everything. I also wanna let out words as my character same as you prefer to have people telling e their cost/pax than I ownself guess. But my HTB everything don1. So angry with him. Like I really don like the ideas of having kids in my wedding (nothing to do with the angpows they gif lesser or what but they very noisy, run here & there, can die) Summore to add on that, parents also buey zhi dong give very little APs despite children/kids do take up seats.
When I suggest something SG BTBs suggested like in our wedding cards we put 3 pics, 1st pics is present, 2nd pics is jewelry, 3rd pic is vouchers, 4th pic is $, all mark cross except 4th $ put a tick. He also don1. He say very rude etc. Who wanna play the bad guys? I also don1. Summore I very confirm my side de Angpows cfm not a problem. It is his side. Summore his side invitees more than mine.
As I mention above that we do not have the much budget to set aside. The most if lose all, don go for honeymoon lo. My HTB is the only person working. I am saving from my pocket $ only as am still studying. We just started saving only so everything starts from scratch. We can make it in time for our wedding in Nov 2010.
Reason being we wanna marry, commit or settle down early is because we love each other, wanna live together, have a place of our own asap. We do not wanna lump everything together in future in imagine if I 30yo den marry, den aft marriage like must rush to have babies if not dangerous to gif birth or hard to get pregnant as grow older. So I rather we marry soon, enjoy all er ren shi jie for a couple of years between 5 to 9 years then tink of babies after that.