Joy >> I let her freestyle.. But if u wan certain styles u can always tell her de.. She will always say.. 'ke yi...' Lolx..
But basically I let her decide lor.. She will try, try some accessories then see whether suitable for you anot.. I think I made the right choice cos pple got compliment me on my hairdo in the night (or maybe just cos I am the bride, they had to say that =P)