Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

Hi Master Tong,

We plan to have our ROM on the 2nd June 2011. Can you advise whether this is a good date for both of us? Is there any date that is good from Mar - Oct?

Groom: Monkey (June 1980)
Groom Mum: Horse (June 1954)
Groom Dad: Dragon (Sept 1952)

Bride: Pig (Oct 1983)
Bride Mum: Tiger (Jan 1962)
Bride Dad: Dragon (Dec 1952)

Thank you so much.
 


Hi Master Tong,

I saw that you stated that 2011 is not a good year for rooster to get marry. Is there any dates that is good if my AD will be in 2011.

Groom - 14 May 1985 (1985)

Bride - 2 June 1981 (1981)

Can you pls advise the best date if my AD is in 2011? Thanks lots.
 
Hi Master Tong,

Will you be able to advise a date this month for Guo Da Li and An chuang?

Groom: Ox
Groom Mum: Snake
Groom Dad: Deceased

Bride: Monkey
Bride Mum: Tiger
Bride Dad: Pig
 
Hi nit3angel,

Here are the general tong shu dates:

- 12/11, 19/11, 20/11, 24/11, 2/12, 6/12, 13/12, 19/12

**Note that these are general dates only. Both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet as the general date can still be considered inauspicious if the date and both your bazi are not compatible

Hope this helps
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Hi shirley,

Yes, ideally you should do this this year (before Rabbit yr starts) or after 2012. This is the ideal situation. Of course i understand 2013 is bit far, but in date selections, you just have to wait for the right time and good time to come.
 
Hi blu3blu3,

I can't advise you which direction to face or sleep coz Feng Shui has to be done on site. The direction you provided me is insufficient. I need the exact bearing of the house and you must also know how to measure it correctly (not the usual way of using a normal compass...) as well, else if implemented wrongly, will bring negative results and impact.

Feng Shui is not so simple and generic. A lot of factors has to be taken into consideration and i don't recommend you DIY as chances are, it will be incorrect.
 
Hi boon2niko

The whole yr is clashed and entire year is bad for marriage for those born in Rooster yr. Even if you use the tong shu, EVERY single day is listed as "inauspicious". Hence the best is to do it in 2012.
 
Hi Elsa,

You can use 26th Dec for GDL & 27th for An Chuang (parents born in Snake yr cannot do An Chuang for you if you intend to use this day).

All the gd weekend dates for An chuang clashes, hence only weekdays. And for GDL, this is the only weekend that don't clash.
 
Hi Master Tong,

I was advised that 20 Nov 2011 is a good day but it has a bad star constellation for a wedding.

Do we suppose to check the date and the lunar constellation to get a good date?

Could you please advise a good date for a wedding in Sept, Oct or Dec? Preferable on weekend.

Is Sep 2011 the best month for a wedding?

Here is details:
Groom: Ox (1985)
Groom Mum: Pig (1959)
Groom Dad: Dog (1958)

Bride: Rat (1984)
Bride Mum: Dragon (1964)
Bride Dad: Monkey (1956)

Thank you.
 
hi master tong,as above.my wedding date is actually on 26 dec this mth. So need your advice on the date ,wkdays will do as well.
 
Hi Master Tong

We will be having a church wedding overseas on 09 Dec 2012 followed by the rom & customary here in sg. Is 28 dec good for us to do the sg wedding?

Groom: pig
Father: dog
Mother: dog

Bride: tiger
Father: rabbit
Mother: horse
 
Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for your advice on 9 Dec 2011. Is it also ok if hold our wedding on the other dates that I've provided before (11 Dec 2011 and 16 Dec 2011)?
We are not looking for particularly good dates, just want to ensure that the dates are not bad dates.

Please see below Zodiacs.

Groom: Monkey
Groom's Dad: Monkey
Groom's Mum: Dog

Bride: Dog
Bride's Dad: Ox
Bride's Mum: Rabbit

Thanks once again.
 
Hi Master Tong,

Sorry to trouble you again.
I checked with your previously and you mentioned 24th Nov 2011 clash with OX.
However, yst my mum checked the lunar calendar and it mentioned clash with PIG.

So will like to check with you if the date clash on PIG or OX?
My jie meis are born in the year pig. Is it ok?
 
Hi aiming84

20/11 is a general good date for wedding and doesnt clash to any of you (clash Rooster). Hence u can use this date if u looking at general dates only.

Most of the auspicious 2011 weekend hotel banquet dates are gone by now.

The lunar constellation method is inaccurate. This is an outdated method and most of the constellations are already out of alignment in the solar system. Hence many feng shui masters don't use this mtd anymore.

Date selection is not so simple. The core essence is still using both your Bazi to select, that is the most accurate way as it is personalised to both your bazi

Hope this helps.
 
Hi Elsa,

For GDL, these are the general dates in dec:

- 17/12, 20/12 (only these 2 dates left that don't clash)

For AC -

- 09/12 (parents that is born pig yr cannot do AC for you this day)

Only this date available and the rest of the good AC dates clashes to both of you. Cannot be used. If no choice, then you use 20th Dec for AC as well, but this date is just a general good date, not meant for AC (but now too short a period to find good dates..normally this date selection has to be done 3 mths before AD).

Hope this helps.
 
Hi kathleen wong

This date does not clash to anyone. However, if it is a general good date or not will have to wait till the 2012 tong shu is out next yr July/Aug period. Now the only way to select will be using both your Bazi and this is the right method to do it as tong shu date is just for mass consumption only, and is inaccurate.

Btw, 9th Dec your church wedding date clashes to Dog, hence is a bad date.

Hope this helps
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Hi weif,

Yes these 2 dates don't clash anyone. I can't recommend these 2 dates coz it is not a general tong shu good date and normally it can only be used if the date and your bazi are compatible. Hence, it is up to your decision to use these dates.

Hope this helps.
 
Hi Master Tong,

Thanks, have already chosen this coming sat 11/12 as GDL and 20th as An Chuang.

Sorry, just another question, you have mentioned in your earlier post that fetch the bride means if the timing is from 7am - 9am - groom got to step into the bride house at or after 7am and before 9am have to finish the tea ceremony at the groom place.

The shifu that gave me this wedding date 26/12 states this :

迎接: 9am-11am (fetch the bride)
过 门: 11am -1pm (if the above explanation on fetch the bride is as above, then what does this 过 门 timing ?)
回 门:1pm-3pm

I'm confused.
According to the tong shu after 11am wasn't good timing. So i got to finish the tea ceremony and return to the bride side before 11am?
 
Hi Mr Tong,

My fiancee and I are thinking of getting married on Dec 3rd 2011.

Our birthdays are as follows:
Timothy-2nd October 2011 (rat)
Jenny- 9th August 2011 (rat)

Tim's dad: Rabbit 1951
Tim's mum: Goat 1956

Jenny's dad: Rat 1948
Jenny's mum: Dragon 1952

Could you advise us whether 3rd Dec 2011 is a good date? any auspicious dates or bad dates on Dec 2011 or June 2012?

Thanks for your help.

Timothy & jenny
 
Hi Master Tong,

How about 19 Dec 2011? Is it a good date?

For your convenience, here is details:
Groom: Ox (1985)
Groom Mum: Pig (1959)
Groom Dad: Dog (1958)

Bride: Rat (1984)
Bride Mum: Dragon (1964)
Bride Dad: Monkey (1956)

Can we actually check the compatibility of our Ba Zi and wedding date without our birth time? I mean just using our date, month, year of birth?

Thank you so much.
 
Hi master tong

If for 2012, what is an advisable date for marriage for me and my bf?

Me: 2 jun 1981
Bf: 14 may 1985

Thank you for your advise.

Regards
Niko
 
master tong.. just want to ask a question..
If someone's ROM is within 3 months away from our banquet dinner can we attend??

or only banquet and banquet clash?
 
Hi Master Tong,

Please see below Zodiacs.

Groom: Rabbit
Groom's Dad: Snake
Groom's Mum: Ox

Bride: Monkey
Bride's Dad: Rooster
Bride's Mum: Goat

Please advise is 22/10 a good date and any other good dates in Oct/Nov/Dec 2011 to tie the knot?

Thanks for the advice.
 
Hi Master Tong,

My fiance and I are planning to marry at the end of 2012

We are both born in the year of the monkey.
Bride 3 feb 81
Groom 24 august 80

Would this be a good general time to get married?

Thank you so much for your help
 
Hi Master Tong,

I am planning to hold my ROM on the 6th Mar 2011. Is it a bad day in the tong shu in general? How about the day 13th Mar 2011? Below are some of our details:

Groom DOB: 21 Jun 1977 (Snake)
Groom Dad: Mouse
Groom Mom: Snake

Bride DOB: 20 Jul 1982 (Dog)
Bride Dad: Rooster
Brider Mom: Dog

Thanks in advance!!
 
Hi Master Tong,

I'm looking at sometime in March and April for ROM and Sept or October for the Actual Day.
Please kindly advise if the dates are OK, if not what other better dates would you propose..

ROM - 31/03/2011
AD - 25/09/2011

Groom - 25/09/1979 (Sheep)
Groom dad and mum = Rabbit

Bride - 18/06/1984 (Rat)
Bride dad - Rooster
Bride mum - Rat

Understand that March and April period is close to Qingming, any dates in Feb will be good as well.

Thanks!
 
Hi Master Tong,

We plan to hold our rom and chinese wedding somewhere Dec 2012. Can you advise when to ask the dates to do the rom and chinese wedding. cos i hear some people said if ask 1 year in advance need to pay extra.

Thanks in advance
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HI Master Tong,

We plan to do our ROM and chinese wedding tog somewhere Feb/May/June/Aug/Nov 2012. Can you advise what are the better dates for us:

Groom - 03/04/1980 (Monkey)
Groom dad and mummy - Horse

Bride - 26/10/1984 (Rat)
Bride dad - Snake
Bride Mummy - Dog

Thanks alot!
 
Hi Master Tong,

If my wedding date is on 19 Dec 2011? what is a good day for guo li between 1 Nov - 10 Nov 2011?

For your convenience, here is details:
Groom: Ox (1985)
Groom Mum: Pig (1959)
Groom Dad: Dog (1958)

Bride: Rat (1984)
Bride Mum: Dragon (1964)
Bride Dad: Monkey (1956)

Thank you.
 
Hi Elsa,

Fetch the bride and guo men are the same process. I don't know why he gave you so many timings. Basically, if 9-11am is fetch the bride, then the groom just need to step into your house at 9am (gatecrash before 9am), fetch you back to his home and complete tea ceremony by 11am. Going back to new home or bride's parents home for tea ceremony does not require a timing.

Why going back to bride's parent's home doesn't require a timing? Coz in the old days, once the bride is married to groom's place, they never go home on the same day for tea ceremony. The bride only return home after 3 days, which is also known as 三æœå›žé—¨ (and for this event, no timing is required). In modern days, we don't really do this anymore. Hence it is symbolised by changing into your Kua on the actual day, and go back to bride's parents' home for tea ceremony. Hence also the reason why no timing is necessary.

Hope this clears your doubts
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Hi Timothy,

3rd Dec does not clash to anyone (clash Dog) and is a general tong shu good day (depending which tong shu you see coz i know for this day some tong shu list as not good...)

btw, both of you are born in 2011??
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**Note that this is a general date only. Both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet as the general date can still be considered inauspicious if the date and both your bazi are not compatible

Hope this helps
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Hi aiming84,

19th Dec clashes to Tiger, which is none of you. And this date is a general good date for wedding in tong shu.

I will need the birth time for Bazi Wedding dates selection. Bazi is made up of year, month, day and hour. Without the time, it is not Bazi anymore
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Hi boon2niko,

As much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates for year 2012, the Tong Shu for 2012 is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2012 yet. Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.

As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.

If you have any particular date in mind, just post it here. I can advise you if it is a bad day as there are some days that are definitely bad and cannot be used for marriage; and some days that will clash to either of you or your parents, so cannot be used as well.


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Hi pEekAbOo,

ROM and Customary Wedding are BOTH considered "Red Events", which by right ROM is included and will clash. Ideally you should not go
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Hi jvultimate,

22/10 is not a general tong shu good date. It can only be used if that date and both your bazi are compatible.

Some general tong shu good dates are:

- 18/10, 20/10, 30/10, 03/11, 09/11, 21/11, 25/11, 15/12, 19/12

**Note that this is a general date only. Both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet as the general date can still be considered inauspicious if the date and both your bazi are not compatible

Hope this helps
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Hi kiki,

2012 does not clash to both of you. So all your need is to choose a good date and time for the marriage (ideally using Bazi to select).

To determine which is the best yr to do so (eg 2012 or 2013 or 2014), I will have to see both your Bazi to determine that.

Hope this helps
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Hi sg_groom,

6th March 2011 clashes to none of you (clash Tiger), but iti s not a general tong shu good date for wedding. It can only be used if that date is compatible with both your bazi.

13th March clashes to Rooster, hence cannot be used.

Hope this helps
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Hi Sher,

31st March is a super bad date, not advisable to use.

For Feb/March, some general good dates for ROM are:

- 26/2, 05/03, 15/03 (Rest clashes to your/parents)

For Sept/Oct for AD, some general dates are:

- 20/10, 03/11, 09/11, 12/11, 19/11, 24/11,25/11

Sept is a bad month for wedding as the month clash with the year. Oct only got 1 dates, rest clashes. Hence i gave you the Nov dates as well

Hope this helps
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Hi Serene,

There is no need to pay anything extra (at least on my side!!
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). To me, selecting a date is a date. This yr, next yr, the yr after, still a date, so there is no difference to me and i don't differentiate pricing based on that just because there is a demand for that.

As much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates for year 2012, the Tong Shu for 2012 is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2012 yet. Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.

As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.

If you have any particular date in mind, just post it here. I can advise you if it is a bad day as there are some days that are definitely bad and cannot be used for marriage; and some days that will clash to either of you or your parents, so cannot be used as well.
 
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