Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)
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cmg_consulting
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Hi hamham,
If it is not a tong shu good day, it MUST at least be a good day in terms of Bazi. If both are not, it will be a bad day for marriage for both of you, even if it doesn't clashes.
btw, just as a reminder, even if it is a tong shu good day, it can also turn out to be a bad day and both your bazi is not compatible with the day.
Hope this helps
If it is not a tong shu good day, it MUST at least be a good day in terms of Bazi. If both are not, it will be a bad day for marriage for both of you, even if it doesn't clashes.
btw, just as a reminder, even if it is a tong shu good day, it can also turn out to be a bad day and both your bazi is not compatible with the day.
Hope this helps
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi leyash,
Yes it is a bad day for wedding. Bazi cannot overrride this, hence avoid this day.
Yes it is a bad day for wedding. Bazi cannot overrride this, hence avoid this day.
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi dorine ng,
Thid date does not clash to any of you.
At this moment, i can only check if the dates clashes to any of you. The tong shu is not out yet and for general good dates, i can only advice after it is out.
For now, the right way and authentic way to select a good date for wedding in 2011 and 2012 will be using Bazi. A good date stated in the tong shu can still be a bad date if the date and your bazi are not compatible.
Hope this helps
Thid date does not clash to any of you.
At this moment, i can only check if the dates clashes to any of you. The tong shu is not out yet and for general good dates, i can only advice after it is out.
For now, the right way and authentic way to select a good date for wedding in 2011 and 2012 will be using Bazi. A good date stated in the tong shu can still be a bad date if the date and your bazi are not compatible.
Hope this helps
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi Ann,
I need to know your wedding date as well as your parents animal signs.
I need to know your wedding date as well as your parents animal signs.
Hi Master Tong,
We are looking into Oct/ Nov 2011 for actual day. Can we check with you if these any days for the month are good for wedding? and does not clash with the zodiacs.
Our zodiacs are
Groom: Sheep (11/02/1979)
Bride: Tiger (06/06/1986)
Groom's Dad : Horse (1954)
Groom's Mum : Sheep (1955)
Groom's Brother: Snake (1977)
Bride's Dad: Sheep (1955)
Bride's Mum: Rooster (1957)
Bride's Elder Sis: Monkey (1980)
Bride"s Elder Sis: Rat (1984)
Thanks a lot!!
you can email me at: [email protected]
Thank you so much!
We are looking into Oct/ Nov 2011 for actual day. Can we check with you if these any days for the month are good for wedding? and does not clash with the zodiacs.
Our zodiacs are
Groom: Sheep (11/02/1979)
Bride: Tiger (06/06/1986)
Groom's Dad : Horse (1954)
Groom's Mum : Sheep (1955)
Groom's Brother: Snake (1977)
Bride's Dad: Sheep (1955)
Bride's Mum: Rooster (1957)
Bride's Elder Sis: Monkey (1980)
Bride"s Elder Sis: Rat (1984)
Thanks a lot!!
you can email me at: [email protected]
Thank you so much!
Hi Master Tong,
We are looking between 9 - 23 July 2011 for actual day. Can you advise if there are any good wedding dates for us and it does not clash with the following zodiacs?
Our zodiacs are
Groom: Rat (Feb 1984)
Bride: Tiger (July 1976)
Groom's Dad : Rat (1948)
Groom's Mum : Ox (1949)
Bride's Dad: Sheep (1955)
Bride's Mum: Rooster (1957)
Thanks so much!
Also, is it true that July is not a good month for wedding since it is the Ghost month?
And is it fine if the date clashes with one of my siblings? Anything we should do if that really happens and we couldn't prevent?
Thanks and you can pm me.
We are looking between 9 - 23 July 2011 for actual day. Can you advise if there are any good wedding dates for us and it does not clash with the following zodiacs?
Our zodiacs are
Groom: Rat (Feb 1984)
Bride: Tiger (July 1976)
Groom's Dad : Rat (1948)
Groom's Mum : Ox (1949)
Bride's Dad: Sheep (1955)
Bride's Mum: Rooster (1957)
Thanks so much!
Also, is it true that July is not a good month for wedding since it is the Ghost month?
And is it fine if the date clashes with one of my siblings? Anything we should do if that really happens and we couldn't prevent?
Thanks and you can pm me.
Hi
Can you help me to pick an auspicious date for An Chung and Guo Da li?
Our zodiacs are
Groom: Monkey (Aug1980)
Bride: Monkey(May 1980)
Groom's Mum : Rat (1948)
Bride's Dad: Horse (1954)
Bride's Mum: Horse (1954)
Plan for sat/ sun wedding in Sep, Oct, Nov, Dec 2010.
Right hotel available date on 2, 9, 30 Oct.
Out of the three dates in oct, which is best?
If not can, give suggestion in Sep, NOV and Dec.
Can you help me to pick an auspicious date for An Chung and Guo Da li?
Our zodiacs are
Groom: Monkey (Aug1980)
Bride: Monkey(May 1980)
Groom's Mum : Rat (1948)
Bride's Dad: Horse (1954)
Bride's Mum: Horse (1954)
Plan for sat/ sun wedding in Sep, Oct, Nov, Dec 2010.
Right hotel available date on 2, 9, 30 Oct.
Out of the three dates in oct, which is best?
If not can, give suggestion in Sep, NOV and Dec.
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi Peiyi.
As much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates for year 2011, the Tong Shu for 2011 is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2011 yet. Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.
As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.
If you have any particular date in mind, just post it here. I can advise you if it is a bad day as there are some days that are definitely bad and cannot be used for marriage; and some days that will clash to either of you or your parents, so cannot be used as well.
As much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates for year 2011, the Tong Shu for 2011 is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2011 yet. Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.
As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.
If you have any particular date in mind, just post it here. I can advise you if it is a bad day as there are some days that are definitely bad and cannot be used for marriage; and some days that will clash to either of you or your parents, so cannot be used as well.
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi zhuzhu2,
As much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates for year 2011, the Tong Shu for 2011 is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2011 yet. Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.
As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.
If you have any particular date in mind, just post it here. I can advise you if it is a bad day as there are some days that are definitely bad and cannot be used for marriage; and some days that will clash to either of you or your parents, so cannot be used as well.
For 2011, the 7th lunar month falls on the 31st July - 28th August. Most people don't get married in this month due to Chinese superstitions.
In the event if the dates sslected clash with silbings or grandparents, it is perfectly ok. They just need to hide before the groom or bride step into the house. In wedding dates selection, only the couple's bazi and the parents zodiac signs are taken into consideration only. Siblings and grandparent's are not taken into consideration.
Hope this helps
As much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates for year 2011, the Tong Shu for 2011 is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2011 yet. Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.
As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.
If you have any particular date in mind, just post it here. I can advise you if it is a bad day as there are some days that are definitely bad and cannot be used for marriage; and some days that will clash to either of you or your parents, so cannot be used as well.
For 2011, the 7th lunar month falls on the 31st July - 28th August. Most people don't get married in this month due to Chinese superstitions.
In the event if the dates sslected clash with silbings or grandparents, it is perfectly ok. They just need to hide before the groom or bride step into the house. In wedding dates selection, only the couple's bazi and the parents zodiac signs are taken into consideration only. Siblings and grandparent's are not taken into consideration.
Hope this helps
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi ann.tan22
All 3 dates are not general tong shu good dates for wedding. However, some of these dates can be used only if your Bazi and the dates matches/are compatible.
Some general tong shu good dates for wedding and dont clash with your are:
- 10/9, 12/9, 16/9, 18/9, 24/9, 30/9, 13/11, 14/11, 17/11, 25/11, 1/12, 8/12, 20/12, 26/12
Hope this helps
All 3 dates are not general tong shu good dates for wedding. However, some of these dates can be used only if your Bazi and the dates matches/are compatible.
Some general tong shu good dates for wedding and dont clash with your are:
- 10/9, 12/9, 16/9, 18/9, 24/9, 30/9, 13/11, 14/11, 17/11, 25/11, 1/12, 8/12, 20/12, 26/12
Hope this helps
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi blu3_84,
You are welcome
You are welcome
Hi Master Tong
Thank you so much for your information. We are looking at the following dates:
Oct 5,22 or 29
Nov 5,12,19 or 26.
Another question is if I wish to consult you for advices on ba zi matters,may I know where is your office location so it will be easier for me to plan my route.
Thank you so much once again.
Thank you so much for your information. We are looking at the following dates:
Oct 5,22 or 29
Nov 5,12,19 or 26.
Another question is if I wish to consult you for advices on ba zi matters,may I know where is your office location so it will be easier for me to plan my route.
Thank you so much once again.
Hi Master Tong,
Am i right to say that if the date clashes with my siblings, it is fine for them to see me leaving the house? The reason i am asking is that i will leave to church and there is no gatecrashing. So if this is the case, no issues if the date clashes right?
Thanks.
Am i right to say that if the date clashes with my siblings, it is fine for them to see me leaving the house? The reason i am asking is that i will leave to church and there is no gatecrashing. So if this is the case, no issues if the date clashes right?
Thanks.
piggy_chong
New Member
Hi Master Tong,
Sorry to trouble you again.
Can I ask if 21th Dec 2011 or 30th Nov 2011 or 22th Nov 2011 or 15th Nov 2011 is a good day for customary?
Groom : Dog
Groom's Dad : Monkey
Groom's Mum : Goat
Bride : Dog (Jan 1983)
Bride's Dad : Rat (Deceased)
Bride's Mum : Rabbit
Sorry to trouble you again.
Can I ask if 21th Dec 2011 or 30th Nov 2011 or 22th Nov 2011 or 15th Nov 2011 is a good day for customary?
Groom : Dog
Groom's Dad : Monkey
Groom's Mum : Goat
Bride : Dog (Jan 1983)
Bride's Dad : Rat (Deceased)
Bride's Mum : Rabbit
Dear Master Tong,
Last min decide to ROM and checked some general auspicious dates but none seemed to fit my schedule as my bf is based overseas. Desperately need to look at a date end June, early July. Hoping u can advise if any auspicious dates during this period or if the following r good dates for us:
Some preferred dates 2010: 26/6, 27/6, 4/7, 7/7, 9/7, 10/7, 13/7, 17/7
Groom: Goat
Groom's Dad
ragon
Groom's Mum: Dog
Bride: Horse
Bride's Mum: Horse
And if keen to get Bazi dates with u, wat r ur charges and wat it entails - a set of dates for use in case venue not avail? and if dates includes ROM, Customary Wedding, An Zhuang and auspicious times? can email me at [email protected]
Last min decide to ROM and checked some general auspicious dates but none seemed to fit my schedule as my bf is based overseas. Desperately need to look at a date end June, early July. Hoping u can advise if any auspicious dates during this period or if the following r good dates for us:
Some preferred dates 2010: 26/6, 27/6, 4/7, 7/7, 9/7, 10/7, 13/7, 17/7
Groom: Goat
Groom's Dad
ragon Groom's Mum: Dog
Bride: Horse
Bride's Mum: Horse
And if keen to get Bazi dates with u, wat r ur charges and wat it entails - a set of dates for use in case venue not avail? and if dates includes ROM, Customary Wedding, An Zhuang and auspicious times? can email me at [email protected]
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi Peiyi,
Only 22/10, 12/11, 19/11 don't clash to any of you.The rest cannot be used.
Note that these are not good dates yet, just date that dont clash to you or your parents.
For Bazi consultation, can you drop me an email at [email protected] for more info? Thanks
Only 22/10, 12/11, 19/11 don't clash to any of you.The rest cannot be used.
Note that these are not good dates yet, just date that dont clash to you or your parents.
For Bazi consultation, can you drop me an email at [email protected] for more info? Thanks
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi ann.tan22
When is your confirmed wedding date? I need to know your confirmed date as it is about 1 month before your wedding for guo da li and for an chuang, it will be as near to your AD date as possible
When is your confirmed wedding date? I need to know your confirmed date as it is about 1 month before your wedding for guo da li and for an chuang, it will be as near to your AD date as possible
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi zhuzhu2,
This date clash to Tiger, hence cannot be used.
Yes they can see you leave the church/house, no problem
This date clash to Tiger, hence cannot be used.
Yes they can see you leave the church/house, no problem
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi Jasmine,
You are welcome
You are welcome
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi LaLa,
Only 21st Dec 2011 does not clash to any of you. The rest of the dates either clashes or are bad dates for wedding.
However, this date is not a good date yet. It is just that it doesn't clash to your. For general good wedding dates, will have to wait for the tong shu to be out first. However,the proper way will be using bazi to select as a good date in the tong shu can still end up to be a bad date if the date and bazi is not compatible.
Only 21st Dec 2011 does not clash to any of you. The rest of the dates either clashes or are bad dates for wedding.
However, this date is not a good date yet. It is just that it doesn't clash to your. For general good wedding dates, will have to wait for the tong shu to be out first. However,the proper way will be using bazi to select as a good date in the tong shu can still end up to be a bad date if the date and bazi is not compatible.
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi Sprinkles,
Unfortunately, only 13/7 is a general tong shu good date. However, this date clash to Horse, hence cannot be used.
Sent you an email regarding selection of dates using Bazi
Unfortunately, only 13/7 is a general tong shu good date. However, this date clash to Horse, hence cannot be used.
Sent you an email regarding selection of dates using Bazi
Hi Master Tong,
May i know what are the charges for bazi wedding date selection and time for groom to fetch the bride?
Also, what are the all information required from us for you to help us with the above?
Is 08/08/2010 really a terrible day for marriage especially for ppl born in monkey yr?
please email me. [email protected]
we would like to meet up with you as soon as possible.
Thank you.
May i know what are the charges for bazi wedding date selection and time for groom to fetch the bride?
Also, what are the all information required from us for you to help us with the above?
Is 08/08/2010 really a terrible day for marriage especially for ppl born in monkey yr?
please email me. [email protected]
we would like to meet up with you as soon as possible.
Thank you.
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi Sprinkles,
Unfortunately, only 13/7 is a general tong shu good date. However, this date clash to Horse, hence cannot be used.
Sent you an email regarding selection of dates using Bazi
Unfortunately, only 13/7 is a general tong shu good date. However, this date clash to Horse, hence cannot be used.
Sent you an email regarding selection of dates using Bazi
cmg_consulting
Active Member
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi ann.tan22
Both dates are not general tong shu good dates for wedding.
Hope this helps
Both dates are not general tong shu good dates for wedding.
Hope this helps
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi Stephanie Ang,
By right siblings should not get marriedin the same year (12 mths apart). This is a chinese belief. However, some "cheat" (as they cannot wait that long) by doing it in different calendar yrs or 3 months apart.
So it really depends if you want to to follow the original chinese belief or "Short cut" method.
Hope this helps
By right siblings should not get marriedin the same year (12 mths apart). This is a chinese belief. However, some "cheat" (as they cannot wait that long) by doing it in different calendar yrs or 3 months apart.
So it really depends if you want to to follow the original chinese belief or "Short cut" method.
Hope this helps
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi AT,
Yes. for those born in Monkey years, 2010 will not be a good yr for marriage.
I've sent you an emaill
Yes. for those born in Monkey years, 2010 will not be a good yr for marriage.
I've sent you an emaill
Master tong, I did nt receive ur email. Pls resend to [email protected]. Thanks.
Hi Master Tong,
Sorry, the groom is dragon and not tiger. If this is the case, is the date 16 july 2011 a good date for us? Thanks.
Groom: Rat (Feb 1984)
Bride: Dragon (July 1976)
Groom's Dad : Rat (1948)
Groom's Mum : Ox (1949)
Bride's Dad: Sheep (1955)
Bride's Mum: Rooster (1957)
Thanks.
Sorry, the groom is dragon and not tiger. If this is the case, is the date 16 july 2011 a good date for us? Thanks.
Groom: Rat (Feb 1984)
Bride: Dragon (July 1976)
Groom's Dad : Rat (1948)
Groom's Mum : Ox (1949)
Bride's Dad: Sheep (1955)
Bride's Mum: Rooster (1957)
Thanks.
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi AT,
I've sent you an email last night, but didn't receive any email from you
I will be back on the 18th April
I've sent you an email last night, but didn't receive any email from you
I will be back on the 18th April
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi Sprinkles,
I just resend and you might want to check your hotmail spam mailbox in case it went into that folder.
Otherwise, if you still don't receive it, you can drop me an email at : [email protected]
Thanks
I just resend and you might want to check your hotmail spam mailbox in case it went into that folder.
Otherwise, if you still don't receive it, you can drop me an email at : [email protected]
Thanks
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi zhuzhu2,
are you referring to the bride that is dragon?
Anyway, this date still cannot be used as this is not a good date that is for wedding purpose.
Hope this helps
are you referring to the bride that is dragon?
Anyway, this date still cannot be used as this is not a good date that is for wedding purpose.
Hope this helps
Hi Master Tong,
Would like to check with you if 20 November 2011 is a good date for us just according to zodiac?
Bride: Rat
Groom: Dog
Bride mother/ father: Goat, rabbit
Bridegroom mother/ father: goat, goat
Bride brother: dragon
Bridegroom sister: dragon
thank you so much for your help!!!
Cheers!
Would like to check with you if 20 November 2011 is a good date for us just according to zodiac?
Bride: Rat
Groom: Dog
Bride mother/ father: Goat, rabbit
Bridegroom mother/ father: goat, goat
Bride brother: dragon
Bridegroom sister: dragon
thank you so much for your help!!!
Cheers!
Hi Master Tong,
my boyfriend and I are planning to hold a simple customary wedding on feb 19 or Feb 20 2011? are the dates okay for us?
Groom: Horse (1978)
Bride: Goat (1979)
Groom's mother/father: Rabbit/chicken
Bride's mother/father: Dog/Snake
Do we need to consider someone if the person is no longer around?
thanks so much for your help!
my boyfriend and I are planning to hold a simple customary wedding on feb 19 or Feb 20 2011? are the dates okay for us?
Groom: Horse (1978)
Bride: Goat (1979)
Groom's mother/father: Rabbit/chicken
Bride's mother/father: Dog/Snake
Do we need to consider someone if the person is no longer around?
thanks so much for your help!
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi zhuzhu2
Yes that day is not an iddal day for wedding. Hence choose a better date if you haven't book yet
Yes that day is not an iddal day for wedding. Hence choose a better date if you haven't book yet
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi joejoy,
That is not a general tong shu good date for wedding for 16.10.
30th clash to Goat, hence cannot be used.
Hope this helps
That is not a general tong shu good date for wedding for 16.10.
30th clash to Goat, hence cannot be used.
Hope this helps
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi Evette,
That date don't clash to any of you (clash Rooster).
I can't tell you if it is a general good date for now as the tong shu is not out yet.
Hope this helps
That date don't clash to any of you (clash Rooster).
I can't tell you if it is a general good date for now as the tong shu is not out yet.
Hope this helps
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi ying,
Both dates don't clash to any of you. However, we have to wait for the tong shu to be out to be able to tell you if it is a general good date. Right now the only way to do it will be to select using Bazi.
If the person is deceased,don't have to consider anymore
Hope this helps
Both dates don't clash to any of you. However, we have to wait for the tong shu to be out to be able to tell you if it is a general good date. Right now the only way to do it will be to select using Bazi.
If the person is deceased,don't have to consider anymore
Hope this helps
Hi Master Tong,
I would like to check with as regards to my friend's wedding on 11 Jun 10. As my family would prefer to have the 4 months gap instead of 3 months as my wedding is on the 7 Oct 10. Am I still allow to attend the wedding? From what I calculated, it is withnin 4 months for English date but I tink it is just nice out of 4 months for Chinese calendar. Please advise whether it's okay for me to attend. Also for my wedding, am I allow to invite pregnant lady? Does we need auspiscious date for Ti Qing, Guo Da Li ang An Chiang? Can you please advise me on the dates and timing?
Bride: Pig 1983
Bride's dad: Dog 1947
Bride's mum: Rat 1948
Groom: 1983 Pig
Groom's dad: Pig 1947 (deceased)
Groom's mum: Tiger 1950
Thanks!!!
I would like to check with as regards to my friend's wedding on 11 Jun 10. As my family would prefer to have the 4 months gap instead of 3 months as my wedding is on the 7 Oct 10. Am I still allow to attend the wedding? From what I calculated, it is withnin 4 months for English date but I tink it is just nice out of 4 months for Chinese calendar. Please advise whether it's okay for me to attend. Also for my wedding, am I allow to invite pregnant lady? Does we need auspiscious date for Ti Qing, Guo Da Li ang An Chiang? Can you please advise me on the dates and timing?
Bride: Pig 1983
Bride's dad: Dog 1947
Bride's mum: Rat 1948
Groom: 1983 Pig
Groom's dad: Pig 1947 (deceased)
Groom's mum: Tiger 1950
Thanks!!!