Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

Hi CH,

9th Sept 2011 is a very bad date for wedding. Avoid.

You might want to choose Oct or Nov for it.

Hope this helps
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Hi btb,

9th Sept 2010 is not a general tong shu good day for wedding.

19 Nov 2011 will clash to Monkey, hence cannot be used.

Hope this helps
 
Hi mich,

Both dates are tong shu general good dates for wedding. Both don't clash to anyone.

However, Bazi is not taken into consideration yet. A good date listed in the tong shu can often turn out to be an inauspicious date if the date and the Bazi is not compatible. The authentic way to select a date will be using both your Bazi.

Hope this helps
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Hi Master Tong

Noted on the date with many thanks.

Would you be able to suggest alternative date for ROM and customary for this year?

Thank you!
 
Hi Master Tong

I hope to hold my ROM in English 9 Sep 2010 and wedding dinner in English 19 Nov 2011.
Can you let me know if these are good days for my ROM and wedding.

Bride Jun 1984 (eng) Rat
Bride father 1944(eng) Monkey
Bride mother 1948(eng) Rat

Groom Aug 1980 (eng) Monkey
Groom father 1948(eng) Rat
Groom mother 1950(eng) Tiger


I really appreciate your kindness in guiding me and husband to a better future. Thank you.
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Hi btb,

9th Sept 2010 is not a general tong shu good day for wedding.

19 Nov 2011 will clash to Monkey, hence cannot be used.

Hope this helps
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Hi Master Tong,
So for wedding there is clashes then what can be done? or must we change the date?

Thank you
 
Hello Master Tong!

My boyfriend and I intend to have our customary wedding in last quarter of 2011. Please advise if 11 Nov 2011 a good date for us to hold our customary wedding.

Our horoscopes are as follows :

Bride : 1983 July (Boar)
Bride Father : 1947 January (Boar)
Bride Mother : 1954 September (Horse)

Groom : 1984 May (Rat)
Groom Father : 1962 June (Tiger)
Groom Mother : 1961 June (Ox)

Sincerely appreicate your assistance for our future.

Thank you.

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Hi jasmine_isabelle,

11 Nov 2011 clash to Rat, which is the groom. Hence cannot be used.

Hope this helps

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Master Tong,

As you have mentioned this is not a good date,
Can you advise if the below dates will work or should we totally avoid month of Nov in 2011 :

12 Nov 2011
19 Nov 2011
26 Nov 2011
 
Hi Master Tong,

Recently, I just rented out my house. This is my 1st time renting out to tenants, hence I'm not experienced.

I was quite surprised that a lot of potential tenants wanted to know whether my main door is facing north when a person enters and when he exits.

All the tenants who asked this, happened to be business men.

What is the significance of a main door with north facing?

I did not take note of these things when I 1st bought the house.

I would like to learn more about the fengshui of a house. Hope to hear your advice soon. Thanks.
 
Hi Master Tong,

ROM date was 16 Oct 2009. Customary 17 June 2010.

Groom: Monkey, 1980 June 3
Bride: Pig, 1983, Aug 1

Are the dates OK? What are the possible dates for Guo Da Li?

Thanks in advance!
 
Hi Master Tong,

Pls advise if 23 Oct 2010 is generally ok for rom?
If not, what other dates(weekends) between Nov to Dec 2010 would you recommend?

We are also planning to hold our customary next year 2011 most likely 4th quarter(Sep to Dec), weekends as well. Would appreciate if you are able to advise some dates.

Groom: Pig
Bride: Pig

Groom's mum: Cow

Bride's dad: Rabbit
Bride's mum: Monkey

Thanks very much!
 
Hi Master Tong,

People always tell me to buy new house because new house has no history or "successful" house where the ex-owner has upgraded to a better place.

What about these houses?
1. new condo in good central location : owner has not move in yet but has to sell the house due to unable to service bank loan cause by speculating on property on wrong timing (economy crisis) Price : $1.2 Mil drop to $1 mil

2. new semi detached house in rural area: Developer has to put up for auction due to cash flow problem and bankruptcy (economy crisis). Price : $2.4 Mil drop to $1.4 Mil

What do you think of bargain houses during economy crisis?
 
Hi Master Tong,

Can you help me to pick an auspicious date for An Chung and Guo Dai Li? Because my bf is not chinese therefore i need your help to advise me the date. Our wedding date is 04.12.2010. I was told that there is timing for the An chung. Can we do it ourself or my bf's parents have to do it? Your help is very much appreciated...

Groom : Tiger
Bride : Goat

Groom's dad: Jan 1939 Rabbit
Groom's mom: March 1943 Goat

Bride's dad : Rat
Bride's mom : Dragon

Many thanks
 
Good Afternoon Master Tong,

Apology that i reply your mail only today, thank you for your prompt reply. In regards to your advise that April and late March are close to Qing Ming Festival, hence not really good/great for wedding. We have also seeked our parents opinion, they are suggesting March for our customary.

So, would like to consult you again if the below dates are possible good wedding dates:
7 March,
14 March or
21 March.

We are only chosing Mon due to lesser guests' table requirement. We are also aware that 18 March, Friday is a great wedding date, but we are unable to accomodate the minimum tables required.

Below are our parent's and our's details:

Groom: Horse(1978)
Groom's dad : Monkey (1956)
Groom's mom : Monkey (1956)

Bride: Dog (1982)
Bride's dad : Rat (1960)
Bride's mom : Pig (1959)

Thank you once again.

Best Regards,
Feris Ong
 
Hello Master Tong,

do you have any auspicious dates for a 2011 wedding?

Groom: rooster (1981)
Groom's dad : Dog (1946)
Groom's mom : Pig (1947)

Bride: monkey (1981)
Bride's dad: tiger(1950)
Bride's mom: rabbit (1951)

thanks.
 
Hu Huihui,

You can use 23/5/2010 if you are looking at weekend.

However, do note that is a good general day for wedding only (as listed in tong shu) and a good date listed in the tong shu can still turn out to be inauspicious if the date and Bazi are not compatible.

Hope this helps
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Hi Blissful Gal,

That date did not clash to any of you (clash to Ox). However, if it is a good date or not will have to wait for the tong shu to be out.

Note that Sept in 2011 is not a good month for marriage. This is call "Sui Po", the month that clash with the year. Hence a bad month for important activities, including wedding. Avoid doing in this month if possible.
 
Hi Isa,

Only 19 Nov 2011 does not clash to anyone. However, i cannot advise you if it is a general tong shu good date now as the tong shu is not out yet. The only way to do it now will be using Bazi to select the dates, which is the correct method. Tong Shu is very generic and for mass consumption only.

Hope this helps
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Hi Albee,

Generally houses that face North or South are better.

From a business pt of view, houses facing these 2 directions won't get hit by direct sunlight at the front and back of the house.

From a Feng Shui pt of view, houses that face South (not North) is the best. Hard for me to explain here without any illustrations etc, but simply, if you buy a house that face South, chances of you getting a good Feng Shui house is higher as the main door will most likely falls into the wealth sector. This means that after shifting in, it will bring you good wealth and career luck.

Note that this does not apply to all types of houses. It only applies to a landed property, or old 3 and 4 Room corridor HDB flats. This is not applicable to new flats, 5 rooms flat, Condos etc. Reason coz besides the direction/facing, where the main door is located on the floor plan is also very important. This is why 2 houses (eg neighbours), both facing South, 1 can be very good but the other very bad (due to the difference in door opening).

Hope this helps
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Hi Nikki,

17th JUne clash to Dragon. If any of your parents are born in Dragon yr, then it cannot be used.

I need to know your parents animal signs to suggest a Guo Da Li date
 
Hi auroraz,

23/10/2010 is ok for ROM. It does not clash to your and is a general tong shu good date.

However, do note that is a good general day for wedding only (as listed in tong shu) and a good date listed in the tong shu can still turn out to be inauspicious if the date and Bazi are not compatible.

As much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates for year 2011, the Tong Shu for 2011 is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2011 yet. Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates.

Hope this helps
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Hi Albee,

You cannot buy a house based on previous history. This is wrong wrong wrong.

If previous owner got rich by staying in that house and sells to you, and if you think that it wil bring you the same "wealth luck", you might be in for a disappointment. When occupants change, the Feng Shui of the house may or may not remain the same. We have ways to determine that of course.

On the other hand, if the previous owners goes bankrupt, there is still a likelihood that after you buy and stay in it, it will bring you good career luck. I personally have found houses for clients that previous onwer goes bankrupt (and they grab the unit at good price) , but after shifting in, they are doing very well!.

So Feng Shui is not simple. I will advise not to DIY in this aspect and don't buy a house based on past history...it is not accurate.

For your qns:

1. new condo in good central location : owner has not move in yet but has to sell the house due to unable to service bank loan cause by speculating on property on wrong timing (economy crisis) Price : $1.2 Mil drop to $1 mil

--> if the owner havent even stay in the house yet, that house feng shui is not affecting him. It is his current house feng shui that is affecting him. Where you stay will affect you (even in hotels!). If you own a property and don't stay in it, it will not affect you in any way.

Furthermore, i am very sure that guy must be in bad luck period in his Bazi luck cycle. A person in bad luck always do the wrong thing at the wrong time!

2. new semi detached house in rural area: Developer has to put up for auction due to cash flow problem and bankruptcy (economy crisis). Price : $2.4 Mil drop to $1.4 Mil

--> I guess you know the answer by now after my explanation above
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Hi Jasmine,

The nearest wkend date for Guo Da Li will be 14th Nov (clash Dog that day). Timing will be 9am - 11am.

An Chuang will be 17th Nov (nearest date to your wedding and without clashing to anyone). Timing will be 11am-1pm.

Normally is a good fortune woman to do it. This is the tradtional approach. The "21st centruy" approach will be the couple to do it themselves. So it really depends on how traditional your family is.

But the key pt is, this is just a Chinese custom. It will not affect your marriage or ability to have kids in the future. Whether if a person is destined to have kids or not is determined in their Bazi Destiny Chart. If a person is destined not to have any kids, getting 1000 boys to jump on the bed for the An Chuang will not help either
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Hi Feris,

Only 21st March 2011 does not clash to anyone.

However, i can't advise you if it is a general tong shu good date for wedding now as the tong shu is not out yet. However, do note that a good date listed in the tong shu can still turn out to be inauspicious if the date and Bazi are not compatible. The authentic way to do it will be using Bazi to select the dates that is good specifically good for both of you, and not rely on the tong shu.

Hope this helps
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Hi Davelyn,

As much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates for year 2011, the Tong Shu for 2011 is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2011 yet. Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.

As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.

If you have any particular date in mind, just post it here. I can advise you if it is a bad day as there are some days that are definitely bad and cannot be used for marriage; and some days that will clash to either of you or your parents, so cannot be used as well.
 
Hi Master Tong
I need some kind advise from you. I rom in 09 and planning for my AD in 2011. The months which i am looking at is either May or June. Can you please advise me the auspicious date during the weekend (Sat) in the mth of May of June?

Groom Side
Groom - Goat (1st June 1979)
Father - Tiger
Mother - Goat
Brother - Dragon
Brother - 1977 (married)
Brother wife - 1978 (2 kids, one is dog, one is born this yr)

Bride Side
Bride - Dog (1st june 1982)
Father - Roaster
Mother - Cow
Sis - Cow
Sis - Dragon

Thank you for your help.....
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Hi Master Tong,

My htb and i have a few dates in mind to hold our ROM and chinese wedding dinner/lunch on the same day. The dates are 19 Feb 2011 (eng), 26 Feb 2011 (eng), 05 Mar 2011 (eng).

Our details are as below:

Groom: Rooster (1981)
Groom Dad: Tiger
Groom Mum: Rooster

Bride: Cow (1985)
Bride Dad: Goat
Bride Mum: Dog

Pls advise whether the dates are good.
Thank you very much! =)
 
Hi Master Tong,

Thank you so much for your reply.

Will a family with good Ba Zi able to overcome a bad fengshui house? Ba zi is more impt or fengshui of house more impt?

One of my relatives bought a landed house from a buddhist monk at a very cheap price. The condition by the monk was he will only sell to a devouted buddhist who will chant everyday in the house.

My relatives are devouted buddhists so they did what the monk said. They were childless for yrs although docs couldn't find out what was wrong.

After 7ys, one day my relative removed one of the plants in the garden, then they consecutively have 2 children easily and successfully. They are a happy family and the children are very bright and obedient. Is this a coincident?

Can you overcome a bad fengshui house if you have very good Ba Zi?
 
Hi Master Tong
Thanks for your earlier reply.

Can you advise if the following dates are suitable for weddings?

Date: 2 Mar 2011, 11 Jun 2011, 9 Oct 2011, 20 Nov 2011

Groom : Dragon (1976)
Bride : Monkey (1980)

Groom's Parents : Horse (1942) and Pig (1947)
Bride's Parents : Pig (1947) and Monkey (1956)
 
Hi Master Tong,

Is the fengshui of the floor level of the condo more impt than the individual unit door facing or family's Ba Zi?

Because not one but all my neighbours on my floor after staying in the condo for a year or 2 had moved to bigger or more expensive houses/condos.

They are all very young (less than 30 yr old). They rented out their units. They don't even have to sell their units to buy their next property.

I was very impressed that all my neighbours are so capable at a young age.

We are the last family and the oldest in age in our floor to move out.
Coincidentally, none of us on our floor need to sell our property to finance the next one.

However, our neighbours above us or below us are not doing so well. I wonder if the floor level plays an impt part in fengshui?
 
Hi Master Tong

Can you advise a few auspicious wedding dates in one of the Saturdays in March/ Apr 2011? we will have both the ROM & wedding on same day.

Bride and bridegrrom are both horses (1978)

Thks!
 
Dear Master Tong

To move into a new house... we also need to check auspicious dates right. could you please kindly advise me on the dates in April?

Male - Sheep
Female - Rooster
 
Dear Master Tong
Can kindly advise my wedding date for next year, 12 March 2011. Details as follows:

Groom: Dragon (1976)
Bride: Dog (1982)
Groom's Mum: Goat (1955)
Bride's Parent: Dragon (1952)

Hope to hear from you soon. Thank you!
 
Dear Master Tong,

My bf n i plan to help our rom on 1 June 2011.
We havent decide when to held our banquet during 2011. But do u tink is a good day for us to get our rom done on 1 June 2011?

Groom: Dragon (1976)
Bride: Monkey (1980)
 
Hi Master Tong,
we plan to have the wedding on 12 nov 2011

groom: rooster
bride:dog
bride's parents: dragon and rat
groom's parents: rabbit and horse

thank u for ur advice
 
Hi Master Tong,

I plan to hold my wedding next yr. I need your advice on the following questions.

1. Is there any month in yr 2011 which is not suitable for marriage?

2. You mentioned that An Chuan is just a Chinese custom so whether it is done by the couple itself or a fortune woman, it will nt affect our marriage or ability to have kids in the future. If that is the case, can we skip the An Chuan procedure?

3. If I move in to my new flat before I get married, do I marry out from my new flat or my parents' flat which I have been living in?

Hope to hear from you soon. Thank you.
 
Hi future mrs ong,

As much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates for year 2011, the Tong Shu for 2011 is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2011 yet. Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.

As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.

If you have any particular date in mind, just post it here. I can advise you if it is a bad day as there are some days that are definitely bad and cannot be used for marriage; and some days that will clash to either of you or your parents, so cannot be used as well.
 
Hi Jia Yan,

I can only advise if the dates clash to your or not. But whether if the dates are general good dates for wedding, we have to wait for tong shu to be out. At this moment, the only way and correct way to do it will be using Bazi to select the dates. A good date in the tong shu can still be considered inauspicious for both of you if the date and your Bazi is not compatible.

For your dates, Feb 2011 (eng), 26 Feb 2011 (eng) does not clash to any of you. 5th March clash to Ox, cannot be used.

Hope this helps
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Hi Albee,

Will a family with good Ba Zi able to overcome a bad fengshui house? Ba zi is more impt or fengshui of house more impt?

--> Feng Shui of the house is more important. A good Bazi cannot overcome a good feng shui house. If Bazi can overcome the Feng Shui of the house, then logically there is no point doing Feng Shui right?
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--> This is a misunderstood concept in Feng shui. A lot of fortune tellers always tell you based on your bazi, you should buy house that face certain direction. This is wrong. The house feng shui must come first, then talk about the Bazi. If the house is bad, no matter how good your Bazi is, you stay inside, you will be pulled down by the house's bad luck. For eg if a person's bazi does not cause extra marital problems, but if the house you stay in will cause extra-marital problems, high chance it will still happen! In brief, Feng Shui overcomes Bazi and i've seen it in some many real life cases
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One of my relatives bought a landed house from a buddhist monk at a very cheap price. The condition by the monk was he will only sell to a devouted buddhist who will chant everyday in the house. My relatives are devouted buddhists so they did what the monk said. They were childless for yrs although docs couldn't find out what was wrong. After 7ys, one day my relative removed one of the plants in the garden, then they consecutively have 2 children easily and successfully. They are a happy family and the children are very bright and obedient. Is this a coincident?

--> To be fair, i cannot advise if this is a coincident or not coz i never see the house before. Normally the root of the problem for houses that cause a family unable to have kids lies in the main door positioning/direction, the stove or the bed positioning.

Can you overcome a bad fengshui house if you have very good Ba Zi?

--> As explained above, you can't
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At most, you are "less" affected by it, but you cannot overcome it.
 


Hi jewel_ling,

Only 2 Mar 2011 & 20 Nov 2011 does not clash to your, which are potential good dates.

However, whether if the dates are general good dates for wedding, we have to wait for tong shu to be out. At this moment, the only way and correct way to do it will be using Bazi to select the dates. A good date in the tong shu can still be considered inauspicious for both of you if the date and your Bazi is not compatible.

Hope this helps
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