Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

Hi blu3blu3,

According to chinese superstition, siblings should not get married on the same yr as it is believed that if you do so, next time the relationship between 2 of you will turn bad after marriage.
 


Hi Vivian Ong,

This is not a good date for wedding. Hope this helps
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Hi Master Tong,

Please advise whether the following date is suitable or is it a good day to wed in general?

Date: 23 Jan 2011

Groom: Rooster (1981)
Groom's Mom: snake
Groom's Dad: dragon

Bride: Rooster (1981)
Bride's Mom: monkey
Bride's Dad:rabbit

Thank you for your time and looking forward to your advice.
 
Hi Master Tong.

Please could you advise whether we should marry November 13th 2010 or wait until March-May 2011.

Recently found out my younger sister plans to marry 12 September 2010 and my younger cousin from my fathers side (my younger brother) is getting married 1st December 2010.

Bride: 26 December 1977 - Snake
Bride Mother: 11 October 1952 - Dragon
Bride Father: 9 September 1950 - Tiger

Groom: 7 March 1975 - Rabbit
Groom Mother: 18 June 1944 - Monkey
Groom Father: 8 May 1943 - Sheep

Also could you quote the price of having our bazi counsultation for auspicious wedding dates in 2011. We need to keep options open at the moment.

Many Thanks!
 
Hi Master Tong.

Please could you advise whether we should marry November 13th 2010 or wait until March-May 2011.

Recently found out my younger sister plans to marry 12 September 2010 and my younger cousin from my fathers side (my younger brother) is getting married 1st December 2010.

Bride: 26 December 1977 - Snake
Bride Mother: 11 October 1952 - Dragon
Bride Father: 9 September 1950 - Tiger

Groom: 7 March 1975 - Rabbit
Groom Mother: 18 June 1944 - Monkey
Groom Father: 8 May 1943 - Sheep

Also could you quote the price of having our bazi counsultation for auspicious wedding dates in 2011. We need to keep options open at the moment.

Many Thanks!
 
Hi master Tong,

Yes sir we will get married this march, 2010.

Hi Master Tong

I would like to ask what is the auspicious wedding date for March 2010. Since we will be having a civil wedding first, We can't get married on Sat and Sunday.

Bride: Pig
Groom: Rat

Groom's father: Sheep
Groom's mother: Snake

Bride's father: Horse
Bride's mother: Dragon

Thank you very much ^_^
 
Hi Master Tong,

Could you pls advise some good date for ROM? (Jun-Dec 2010)

Bride: 20 May 1984 - Rat
Bride Mother: 9 Jul 1959 - Pig
Bride Father: 8 MaR 1954- Horse

Groom: 6 Jan 1980 - Sheep
Groom Mother: 1958 - Dog
Groom Father: 1960 - Rat

Thank you so much!
 
Hi Master Tong,if let say 2 sister planning 2 get married same yr, how long apart should they avoid? or is there anything that can help to minimise any clash? Pls help. Thanks
 
Hi Again Master Tong,

Thank you so much for the response to my messages to you. Here i am again asking for your guidance in regards to our wedding. We have encountered many problems regards to the wedding preparation such as the health of our parents thats why its been keep postponed. Now finally the storm about the health problem of our parents have been over we are now again back on track for the wedding preparation but there will be some slight changes. We planned do to first a civil wedding and then next the church wedding. We would like you to advice us on the specific date that would be appropriate for our Civil Wedding and Church Wedding. Here are the following dates that we would like to do it.

Here is the list of our birthday and our parents too.

Bride : July 08, 1973
Father of the Bride : February 06, 1944
Mother of the Bride : August 25, 1952


Groom : September 30, 1963
Father of the Groom : February 13, 1943
Mother of the Groom : December 21, 1944 (deceased)

Dates would like to see if its ok for our wedding

March 12, 2010
March 13, 2010
March 14, 2010
March 19, 2010
March 20, 2010
March 21, 2010
March 23, 2010
March 25, 2010
March 26, 2010
March 27, 2010
March 28, 2010

Would be very happy to hear from you soon. Thank you again.

We are thankful because you are there to help us in finding a suitable date for the wedding for all those who are planning.

Again, sorry if we ask about it again...just that we cannot control the situation regards to our parents health.

Again thank you so much.
 
Thanks again Master Tong,

How about 26th March 2011?

Bride: Pig 1983
Dad: Pig 1959
Mum: Rat 1960

Groom: Dog 1982
Mum: Goat
Dad: Passed away
 
Hi Master Tong

Can I have a auspicious wedding date for Year 2011, somewhere from march to june? Preferably on a saturday.

Groom : 29 Mar 1982
Bride : 19 Jun 1980

Groom's father: Passed away
Groom's mother: Ox

Bride's father: Ox
Bride's mother: Rabbit

Thank you!
 
Hi David...

My hubby and i are moving into our new house in ending march or early april..Can you kindly advise some good date and timing during this period of time for moving in?

Thanks!!
 
Hi Masrer,

I would like to get your opinion and for my ROM + wedding lunch. We choose 10 Oct 2010.

Bride: 1979 - Goat
Bride Mother: 1947 - Pig
Bride Father: 1932- Goat

Groom: 1978 - Horse
Groom Mother: 1950 - Tiger
Groom Father: 1946 - Dog


Thank you so much.
 
Hi Master Tong.

I would like to seek your advice for my ROM + Wedding dinner to be held in Yr 2011, preferably in 1st Quarter of 2011...

Here is the list of our birthday and our parents too.


Bride : Mid March 1980- Monkey
Bride Mother: 1948 - Rat
Bride Father: 1942 - Horse

Groom: Early Oct 1981 - Rooster
Groom Mother: 1959 - Pig
Groom Father: 1949 - Cow

Thanks
 
Hi Masrer,

I would like to get your opinion and advise for my ROM + wedding lunch. We choose 10 Oct 2010.

Bride: 1979 - Goat
Bride Mother: 1947 - Pig
Bride Father: 1932- Goat

Groom: 1978 - Horse
Groom Mother: 1950 - Tiger
Groom Father: 1946 - Dog


Thank you so much.
 
Hi Master,

I heard that those born in Monkey year are not advisable to get married this year (2010).
And next year (Rabbit year) is also not a good year for Rabbit to get married?

Bride: Monkey (1980)
Groom: Rabbit (1976)

Please advise which year should we go for?

Thanks.
 
Dear Master Tong,

Can you please advise which is better day to have my ROM?

Date: 12 Jun 2010 or 13 Jun 2010

Groom: Monkey (1980)
Groom's Mom: Goat
Groom's Dad: Cow

Bride: Horse (1978)
Bride's Mom: Dragon
Bride's Dad: Tiger

Thank you for your time and i look forward to hearing your advice.
 
Hi Master Tong,

Sorry to trouble you again.
Can I ask if 29th Nov 2011 or 22nd Dec 2011 or 29th Dec 2011 is a good day for customary?

Groom : Dog
Groom's Dad : Monkey
Groom's Mum : Goat

Bride : Dog (Jan 1983)
Bride's Dad : Rat (Deceased)
Bride's Mum : Rabbit
 
Hi Faye,

It will be better to wait till March-May 2011. If not, you cannot attend each other's wedding and also there is a clash of luck between you and your sister.

For the fee and more info about using Bazi to select an auspicious wedding date, can you drop me an email at [email protected] ? Thanks
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Hi Paul and Mherrie,

For this month March 2010, only one date is available (the rest all clashes to your or your parents)

- 22/03

Hope this helps
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Hi blu3blu3,

This is a Chinese superstition. There will be a clash of luck and next time after marriage, the relationship between the siblings will turn sour.

Hope this helps
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Hi greenwar520,

Here are some dates you can use:

- 09/06, 17/06, 29/06, 03/07, 11/07, 16/07, 28/07, 13/09, 18/09, 30/09, 07/10, 20/10, 12/11, 13/11, 17/11, 25/11, 01/12, 18/12, 26/12

Note that Bazi is not taken into consideration and a good date in the tong shu can still turn out to be an inauspicious if the date and Bazi is not compatible.

Hope this helps
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Hi libra_kc81,

Normally we won't advise you to proceed coz the first criteria of wedding dates selection already fail. But sometimes 2 yrs is a long wait, so i know it is a hard decision. If you really must proceed (if really no choice, like HBD chasing you for the marriage cert etc), we can only choose based on your Bazi which is a better yr among the 2 and choose the best dates in that yr.
 
Hi Maria Zenaida Danga ,

Somehow all the dates you listed are either not general good dates for wedding or clashes with you or your parents. Are you able to use 18th March 2010? This is a good date and doesn't clash.

Hope this helps.
 
Hi June,

As much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates for year 2011, the Tong Shu for 2011 is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2011 yet. Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.

As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.

If you have any particular date in mind, just post it here. I can advise you if it is a bad day as there are some days that are definitely bad and cannot be used for marriage; and some days that will clash to either of you or your parents, so cannot be used as well.
 
Hi Linda,

I can only provide 2010 dates as tong shu for 2011 is not out yet. the only way to do it is using Bazi to select.

For 2010 dates, i need your parents animals signs as well. I also need to know which months you looking at for 2010.
 
Hi yt,

For move in to new house, the right way will have to take the house direction and bazi into consideration. This is the authentic technique. Dates given in the tong shu for move house and start of renovation is 99% wrong if you choose using a tong shu. And this can be detrimental coz if you renovate or move in on a wrong day, it could trigger the bad qi in the house, giving you bad luck for next few months. Hence normally i don't advocate selecting a tong shu date for this.

If you really want to, you will need to list the animal signs of all the occupants here for me.

Hope this helps.
 
Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for your advice.
Then will 1st Nov 2011 or 1st Dec 2011 or 8th Dec 2011 be a better day for customary?

Groom : Dog
Groom's Dad : Monkey
Groom's Mum : Goat

Bride : Dog (Jan 1983)
Bride's Dad : Rat (Deceased)
Bride's Mum : Rabbit
 
Thanks again Master Tong,

How about 26th Feb 2011 or 19th March 2011?

Bride: Pig 1983
Dad: Pig 1959
Mum: Rat 1960

Groom: Dog 1982
Mum: Goat
Dad: Passed away
 
Hi Master Tong,

Thank you for helping us on this search for the date for a good wedding, i will try to see if we could have this appointment for the civil. But Master, if we could do the church on April is this a good month for a wedding?

This the following date we got from the church.

April 10
April 17
April 18
April 23
April 24
April 25

We really appreciate your kindness in helping us guide to a better future.

Thank you so much
 
Hi Master Tong

Can you elaborate on what is Tong Shu? The animal sign for the occupant will be RAT.Kindly advise.

Thank you!
 
Hi Master Tong

If the wedding date "chong" the bride's mother's animal sign, is there any way to get around with it? Or is it ok as long as the mother does not meet the couple at the door? Thanks!
 
Hi Master,

Thank you so much your advise.

Since 10 Oct 2010 clash pig which is my mum.

So I have choose another day for my wedding+ROM which is 20 Oct 2010 (wednesday), pls help to advise again.
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Bride: 1979 - Goat
Bride Mother: 1947 - Pig
Bride Father: 1932- Goat

Groom: 1978 - Horse
Groom Mother: 1950 - Tiger
Groom Father: 1946 - Dog

Much much appreciate it.


Thankds,
Tracey
 
Hi Master Tong!

I will be having my wedding in Oct 10 and my friend will be holding her wedding in Jun 10. Am I allow to attend and be the Jie Mei?

Thanks in advance!
 
Hi Master Tong

i hope to held my wedding in english sep 2011.
hope you can help us to find a few date in this month.

Bride 29 dec 1982 (eng)
15 nov 1982
Bride father 3 march 1952 (eng)
8 feb 1952
Bride mother 26 apr 1953 (eng)
13 march 1953

Groom 31 march 1982 (eng)
7 march 1982 (eng)

Groom father 24 sep 1951 (eng)
24 Aug 1951

Groom mother 11 feb 1952 (eng)
16 jan 1952

We really appreciate your kindness in helping us guide to a better future.

Thank you so much
 
Hi Master Tong!

One more query as in one of my Jie Mei's dad passed away in Dec 09, can she still be my Jie Mei for the coming Oct 10?

Thanks!
 
Hi Master Tong

My AD is this coming sun. However, the date clashes with my sister's horoscope. I was told that my sis need to stay hidden until my hubby step into the hse. Is this true?
 


Hi Lala,

Only 1st Nov don't clash anyone. Whether if it will be a good day or not will have to wait for the tong shu to be out.

1st Dec clash Monkey and 8th is a bad day for wedding.

Hope this helps
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