Hi smurfyblogger
a) 3 Jun 2012
b) 16 Jun 2012
c) 17 Jun 2012
d) 22 Sep 2012 // super bad date for wedding
For rest of the 3 dates above (a-c), all these dates don't clash to any of you. But the tong shu is not out yet, hence i can't check if it is a general good date for wedding or not. Will have to wait till it is out. Right now, the only way and correct way is to use both your bazi to select the dates.
2. Is it ok for us to get married in 6th lunar mth, that is July 2012 period?
Yes. This is pure superstition that one cannot get married in that month. I don't buy it. No such thing in feng shui. But if your parents strongly against it, you still have to please them
3. Is it ok for us to get married in 9th lunar mth , that is Oct 2012 period as we understand that it is inauspicious that time?
8/10 - 6/11 is a bad month/period for wedding. Avoid.
Hope this helps