Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi wei97123 (wei97123)

All the dates are in the chinese leap month in 2012, and just like 7th mth or qing ming, most chinese avoid getting married in that mth, which is why i guess most hotels have these dates available.

Btw, i don't sibling's details as they r not taken into consideration
 


cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Stah

Only 8th Oct is a general good date for wedding and don't clash anyone. Rest are not good dates or clashes.

** Note that tong shu good dates are general good dates only and meant for mass consumption (ie if that day is good for wedding for dog, then the whole world dog can get married that yr..but in real life this is not true). Hence a good date in the tong shu can still turn out to be a bad date if the tong shu date and your bazi are not compatible. The correct & authentic way is using Bazi (both your birth data) to select the dates to ensure that the date selected is specifically good for both of you only, and not for mass public.

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi GC

12th is not a good date for wedding. 20th clashes to Rooster, hence both cannot be used

The tong shu is not out yet hence i can't advise any general good dates from the tong shu till it is out sometimes next mth.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Chermaine Yeo

You are welcome.

7th Oct doesn't clash to anyone (clash Goat), but will have to wait till tong shu is out to see if it is a general date or not.

3rd Nov is a super bad date, hence out

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Audrey Tan

All the dates are not good dates for wedding:

16 Sep 2012 //not a gd date for wedding
7 Oct 2012 //clash to Goat
21 Oct 2012 // from 8/10 - 6/11 is a bad mth for wedding in Oct. This is å²ç ´ month. Not good for important activities
28 Oct 2012 // same as above and this is a super bad date
3 Nov 2012 // same as above and this is a super bad date

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Sugar

19 May 2012 is genrally not an ideal date for wedding

23 June 2012 does not clash anyone (clash rooster). Will have to wait till tong shu is out to check if it is a general good date in the tong shu

** Note that tong shu good dates are general good dates only and meant for mass consumption (ie if that day is good for wedding for dog, then everyone (all those born in dog year) can get married that yr..but in real life this is not true). Hence a good date in the tong shu can still turn out to be a bad date if the tong shu date and your bazi are not compatible. The correct & authentic way is using both your Bazi (birth data) to select the dates to ensure that the date selected is specifically good for both of you only, and not for mass public.

Hope this helps
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honeykitty

Member
Hi Master Tong,

My boyfriend and i are born in the year of Rat. Is it ok to ROM/ Customary in 2013 which is the year of Snake?? Actually Rat is clash with snake or horse? Thanks
 

willwill

New Member
Hi Master Tong

thank you for your reply. That's bad news as all the other weekend dates are being taken up at the hotel venue we have selected.

what about 30 Sep?
 

silverautumn

New Member
Hi master tong

Understand that the 2012 tong shu is not out yet, for general advice and tentative booking of venues, Can I just check with you if the below dates are considered a general auspicious wedding date
25/02/2012
04/03/2012
24/03/2012

Bride: pig 1983
Groom: monkey 1980

Bride's dad: rat (passed away)
Brides's mum: dragon (1952)

Groom dad: rabbit
Groom mum: tiger
 

sugar01

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

But 23 June 2012 is dumpling day. Will not clash or bad luck?

What abt Apr 14 2012 and oct 6 2012?

Groom: Apr 1986
Bride: Sep 1987

Groom's Father: Goat, 1955
Groom's Mother: Monkey , 1956
Bride's Father: Snake , 1953
Bride's Mother: Monkey, 1956
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Drea

25/02/2012
04/03/2012
24/03/2012 //in Qing Ming period

the 1st 2 dates does not clash to anyone. 24/3 is in Qing Ming mth, hence out.

However, the tong shu is not out, hence i can't check if it is a general auspicious date or not till it is out. But i believe most hotels are full already for weekends already, esp 1st half of 2012. I've already started 2012 wedding dates selection since last yr this time, so booking 2012 dates now is bit late.

U will have to do it in 2012 coz 2013 is Snake yr and clashes to Pig, which is bride
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Sugar

Apr 14 2012 is in Qing Ming period

oct 6 2012 (clash Horse )don't clash anyone, but got to wait till tong shu is out to check if general good date or not.

Date selection is irregardless of chinese culture, hence doesnt matter if dumpling festival or not. If your parents are pantang abt it, then you just have to avoid to make them happy
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whitebunbun

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Knowing that 2012 tong shu is not out, so for our general advice and tentative booking of venues.

Can we just check with you on the a general auspicious wedding date of us?

Bride: Monkey 1980
Groom: Snake 1977

Groom's dad: Dragon 1940(passed away)
Groom's mum: Dog 1945

Bride's dad: Snake 1941
Bride's mum: Monkey 1944
 

g2hong

Member
Hi Master Tong,

Can i enquire about some things about shifting house? Is it true that we cannot have sharp objects in the new house when we move in? We actually bought knives so that we can prepare our first meal when we moved in but my mum insist that we keep the knives at my parents-in-law's place and bring back only few weeks after we moved in...
 

mrspehsally

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

May i know which of the following date is suitable for marriage:

5 Feb 12
10 Feb 12
11 Feb 12
12 Feb 12
17 Feb 12
24 Feb 12
26 Feb 12

Groom: Apr 1981
Bride: Apr 1979

Groom's Father: Rabbit, 1951
Groom's Mother: Rabbit, 1951
Bride's Father: Monkey, 1956
Bride's Mother: Dog, 1958

Thank you.

Regards,
Sally
 

kssk

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

I need your help to choose our wedding date for year 2011 from sept to Jan 2012.

Groom - Dragon 1976
Bride - Goat 1980

Groom's Mother - Dragon 1940
Bride's Mother - Tiger 1950

Thank you in advance.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi g2hong

No such thing in Feng Shui. this is pure old wives' tales that i don't believe in. there is no logic where you cannot have knife!
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But if your mum insist, then you just have to please her by doing it
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Aleen

General 2013 dates will only be available next year (2012) July/Aug period when the 2013 tong shu is out.

I have already started to choose for 2013 dates using Bazi this month onwards. By then, it will be too late as most weekend dates for most hotel will be long gone
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Sally Chew

5 Feb 12 //super bad date for wedding
10 Feb 12 //clash goat
11 Feb 12 //clash monkey
12 Feb 12 //clash rooster
17 Feb 12 //super bad date for wedding
24 Feb 12 //clash rooster
26 Feb 12 //Does not clash anyone

Hence only 26/2 does not clash anyone. But will have to wait till 2012 tong shu is out to check if it is a general good date for wedding or not. However, if this date is compatible with both your bazi, it can be used , irregardless if the tong shu says good or bad

Hope this helps
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ahpig

New Member
Hi Master Tong

Can check check with you, roughly when will the tong shu come and are the anything date to look at.
 

elmoseah

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

May I know when is a good date for wedding during Nov and Dec 2012? Prefer weekends (e.g.Saturday)

Groom: Dog (1982)
Bride: Pig (1983)

Groom dad: Dog
Bride dad: Rat
Bride mom: Goat

If a good date had been chosen, but the date fall on the month of either the siblings/parents birth date month, is it okay??

Thanks in advance for your help.
 
Hi Master Tong,

My fiance and I are also rats, and I saw in your post to honeykitty that 2014 is bad for rats.

I presume that it is from a general perspective. Would it be possible for 2014 to be suitable/good based on the bazi? I read from your previous posts that the ROM date is important as that is the day the couple officially becomes husband and wife
 

weijie1984

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Groom: Nov 1984
Bride: Mar 1984

Groom's Father: Monkey, 1956
Groom's Mother: Dog, 1958
Bride's Father: Chicken, 1957
Bride's Mother: Monkey, 1956

Planning to marry in May 2012. Any advisable dates or dates to prevent?

Thanks!
 

mrspehsally

New Member
Dear Master Tong,

Thank you for the advise.

I will check my bazi against the said date, 26 Feb 12. Do you provide this service for checking bazi against good dates?

Do you have any idea when the tongshu will be out?

Thank you.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi KS

Here are the general tong shu good dates:

- 06/09, 15/10, 18/10, 30/10, 09/11, 12/11, 19/11, 20/11, 24/11, 02/12, 06/12, 13/12, 07/01, 09/01, 10/01, 19/01

** Note that tong shu good dates are general good dates only and meant for mass consumption (ie if that day is good for wedding for dog, then everyone (all those born in dog year) can get married that yr..but in real life this is not true). Hence a good date in the tong shu can still turn out to be a bad date if the tong shu date and your bazi are not compatible. The correct & authentic way is using both your Bazi (birth data) to select the dates to ensure that the date selected is specifically good for both of you only, and not for mass public.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Ivy Seah

Groom is born Dog yr, and 2012 Dragon yr clashes to Dog, hence not a good yr for wedding for him. However, you are born Pig yr, hence 2013 will not be good for you. Hence i guess the best yr is 2011 or 2014. If you can't wait that long, the only workaround solution is to ROM in 2011 and carry on your banquet in 2012. At least you ROM/get married in a better yr first. AD is just a banquet (of course ideally if all can fall on a good, that will be better).

In any case, the tong shu for 2012 is not out yet, hence will have to wait till it is out if you really still want to proceed with 2012 dates.

>If a good date had been chosen, but the date fall on the month of either the siblings/parents birth date month, is it okay??

It doesn't matter.

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi benong

The tong shu for 2012 is not out yet, hence i can't select 2012 general tong shu good dates till it is out sometimes this or next mth.

Right now, the only way is to use Bazi to select.
 

mrspehsally

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Thank you for the information.

I will check out your website
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Another stupid question (i must say), is it recommended to "try on" wedding gowns during this 7th month?
 


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