Hi i am a btb this oct n signed up with Hilton early this year too!
To me as long as both sides of immediate families have no objections, why not?
Like my dad says "if such things happened n people don't patronize it, it should have close down long ago!"
And moreover my mummy the pantang type has no objections too I was relieved n extremely elated! With the professionalism of the sales mgr, we r absolutely confident that we made the right choice! Though most of the things r non negotiable but what's more to negotiate for all the perks this 5 stars hotel is providing?
To me their story is a beautiful love story so there is nothing really to worry about. Only those ignorant and super superstitious people will gossip abt it. I think in this case most of the hotels cannot hold banquets already...
So far i dont find it a problem answering why we chose Hilton out of so many, I merely told them the truth that the date i want other hotels r fully booked n out of those few available, Hilton is the best choice! Centralized area, near mrt, so accessible n convenient, what more can I ask for? So far only a handful ask me. Maybe some didn't voice out to me straight cuz they r paisay but still there will be people gossiping I believe... It's really not within our control n needless to say I dont really care, cuz this is the best choice for us. I mean if you are seriously going to weigh everything that others comment or say, I think u may need another 2 to 3 yrs or even more before you can finalise the venue.
It's just like choosing apples. Some say red ones r better n those from japan r crunchier, some think likewise. Ultimately it's your choice. Should discuss with ur htb n both side of immediate families first at least respect the elderly opinions.
Sometimes it's better not to listen to too many cuz it confuses u. Otherwise your wedding will take forever to really happen.
What matters most is do u n ur other half care and if you are really bothered about those negative comments you better think thoroughly. It's a once a lifetime event, so proceed joyously n have no regrets.
Happy hotel hunting to those that have yet confirm one! N congrats to those whom have found their desired wedding banquet venue!