hi haru,
For me, i already sent out my invite to friends 2 weeks ago, and that's 12 weeks in advance! Middle of next month, then i will send out my invite to my relatives & colleagues.
Actually i know you may find that my invite for friends comes a bit too early. But i was worried
as the main bulk of my invites goes to friends, so i really need them to 'chop' the date for me.
Now at least seeing the response, i am less worried liaoz coz more prepared mah. Also to note, many of my friends do not RSVP and I took some time to chase for replies (now still in progress!).
U may think 3 months are too advance but in my case, I already hv a handful of frenz who can tell me they cannot attend with all sort of reasons!
So i guess it do help to eliminate who are sincere to attend and who r not. Initially i planned 5 tables for frenz, now got only 4 tables, so left wif 1 table unfilled. I will give tis table to my hubby side to invite more of his colleagues later on.
As for mailing the cards, I will post them out in 4 weeks in advance!