Wow! You FH is a lucky man! haha... I guess I can understand why ladies want a grand wedding. It's only right to have one. I am grateful to my FW who's so understanding. Our focus right now is on our future home. We decided that the bulk of our savings should go into something that will last and one we'll enjoy. I guess it's a matter of preference.
Not sure if you've visited any of the bridal studios. 'Beware!' is my advice. Do your homework first and then be firm with what you need and don't be tempted by what they throw at you.
We were a little green initially. Thankfully when we went to see these studios for ideas, we weren't ready to commit to any packages then, or else we would now be in huge 'debt'! haha..
We found one finally. We chose it because:
1. My FW looks really good in their gowns. We insisted on trying before deciding on anything.
2. They gave us quite a lot of freebies for the amount we paid, (Ard $3000), which included MTM gowns, photos, on the day photo, etc.
3. We felt that there's no 'perfect' studio, we went for the one we 'like' most and one where once we decided, we would stick to it w/o complains.
At this moment, we haven't done anything yet. Will start our gown fitting/choosing next month. Not sure how their services are like. Received both good and not-so-good comments. Well, it's our choice, have to love it!
How about yourself? What do you have in mind? Maybe my FW can answer your qns better than I can. Am coming from a man's point of view.