Morning, do u wake up as early as me?
I've chanced upon this forum during the preparation of my wedding way before my registered nick. I got married in 2004. I remember that I used to get cold feet when I read this section but my bf never failed to assure me.
Gosh, it's almost 10years and I have been reading powder, milo, sm
's postings. They are not anything that u say.
Yes, they are all men but they provide very good insight on marriage. I've learnt to see things from different angles rather than dead and dull.
In fact this is my fav forum.
My frds who ended their first marriage are very happily settled down now including my own mil. They stay in a ambicable r/s with their ex and their families.
My own mil who divorced for almost 30years still went to take care and clean the house of her ex mil when granny's been diagnosed with cancer.
And hor, when things are not meant to be, they will be better off staying as friends.
My ex and I are still good friends and he's more like a big brother to me. He's a friend that I am going to keep for life.
We could still meet up for drinks and chat about everything under the sun except being together in a romantic way. I am glad that we parted way if not, I wont marry my hb.
And for Danielle's case, she is clearly a smart woman with high EQ.
It is not a overnight or impulse decision by her.
In fact, she thought long and try hard enough to salvage her marriage.
I am a strong believer that there's nothing to regret when u ever tried your best.
Her r/s with her hb is not going to end after divorce.
Both of them are mature and smart adults, very epic and spontanous people.
I believe that things will stay very much the same except that they are no longer string to each other in the name of marriage and both have the right to seek for their happiness.
Let's wish them the best then.