Ericia
Re thank you speech, i think mehmeh has covered the contents comprehensively already
Maybe u may want to include the couple (if any) tt conducted PMC for u both
Ivy dearie
So sad. Don't think can visit Greenpoint with u anytime soon, unless u can wait until late May. Still trying to tie down caterers with the other BTB before she goes overseas, and must hunt for EG shoes before 1st fitting which is in a months' time. Sigh. And have to help FH move house as well as change in boss and job scope. The changes at work are quite drastic now, esp the proposed changes cos they will triple our workload. Just hope admin realises tt the proposals are unworkable and need modification
Btw, what dishes did u like fr Smiling Orchid? Heard another BTB praising their desserts too?
Ashlady
Tried dropping u a PM but can't do so. Perhaps u cd drop me an email at
[email protected] so we'd know each other's names and identify each other at PMC. Can't believe PMC starts on Thu. Wkdays are surely gg to be even busier now...
Ggjj
Must share pics when they're up ok? Btw what is the original link? Want to see ur flowers and deco cos i recall them being very pretty hee
Hey all
Would appreciate prayers and advice on how to handle the situation i'm in now. FH's parents suddenly decided to increase no of tables for dinner, and insist on inviting more guests and relatives. We originally agreed on 25 tables for them and FMIL even showed FH a detailed breakdown of the guest list. Tt's why we went ahead to book our venue. Now they claim tt they nv intended to invite so few only and wanna increase the no of tables. While our ballroom can accommodate perhaps 5 more tables, it'd be a tight squeeze and my parents would be miffed cos they wanted to increase and i refused cos of space constraints. FH's parents also want invites with English and Chinese words, as well as Chinese announcements during dinner...
So now in a dilemma cos on the one hand, it is not in my place as FDIL to interfere but on the other, it may mean tt FH and i have to exclude our frens altog fr the dinner juz to accommodate the increase in nos. Kinda worried abt how this will turn out cos i don't wanna spoil relations with the ILs, nor serve as a bad testimony for God (FH's parents are non-christian)
Really need tact to deal with this, and for them to be understanding abt limiting the guest list. We suggested excluding children and inviting some of their frens to church but they seem resistant to the idea...