Any Mixed Marriages here? Esp Chinese-Malay Muslim couple

Charsiew,
I wore it at the end of the dinner. Whether jialat or not or whatever i went through, my wedding planner did a good job to make both of us happy. And i had a good time. I wore halter neck for my EG. hehe..also very sexy leh. Oh that lady who accompany you? Mak andam. You went to which bs? I didn't have any mak andam.

Ally,
since you in the childcare, what you think of The Shicida Method or the Glenn Doman?
 


IC
Yeah, Mak Andam! very nice lady. I went to RH fashion. Very much wanted to go to a cina one, but scared they don't know how to dress me up for the ROMM, and didn't want to engage two bridal services.
 
Charsiew,
Mine opposite. During that time, my bf/now hb mother keep hinting me whether i going to take up a malairen bs. And she gave that look that she didn't like her son to wear baju kurung etc. So to please her, i signed up with a cina one. But they were also very good! Helped me a lot to make me happy & comfortable. I also got budget constraint...cannot engage two bs.
 
Charsiew,
Will show during gathering. Ally already bringing her photos during gathering today. But she have to bring again in the next gathering when i come! heheh...Then you come also lah.. bring your photos also ok.
 
hello gals..

Charsiew, ally and ic wedding sounded quite western one ya... mine going to real traditional,since I have 3 costumes to change, they ask me to consider the Kua too, one malay traditional one , one modern one and the kua and my hubby will be in his baju kurung ..
Charsiew .. did your make up artise did a good job for your wedding ?? mine ROMM was horrible I really Hate it man.. I already not pretty, they make me more ugly lor make me look so aunty so old... goodness Inai insist they will do a good job as I dont understand why they do not have a trial. what about ic ?
 
Hi girls!

Still a lot of backlog with work but what the 'eck, wanted to pop in to say that I'm itching to meet you guys....7.15pm at the Billboard in front of control station, yes?

Aiyoh.....I think my situation is very different cos' although mine is going to be a mix culture wedding, it's not that apparent. Or drastic as both Meraj and I are born Muslims.
 
Elaine,
Mine not really western. Actually more chinese wedding. Except at the hotel, chinese setting but western decor. I also wore malay baju kurung. Total got 4 outfits. Actually, my make-up artist did for my ROMM. Oklah..though my malay friends said look plain. But i like it. Coz malay make-up, you knowlah.. wah lau..super thick. Make you really look very mature. Malay bs don't have trial make-up..as far as i know. Don't know if they change nowadays...

ladies,
hopefully next gathering, all of us can come and share photos!
 
IC,

Both are juz teaching methods. Shicida - Maths, Glenn Doman - reading/literacy. IMHO, I dun really say that thy are both good or bad. All depends on how our kids learn. If the child is those active type n cant sit still to learn - shd u buy the above materials also no point.

BTW, forget to answer ur qn - Ch BS - Cupid Bridal (previously at IMM, now close down already)

Mly BS - Ani Jalal (she was my hairdresser but also a Mak Andam. If u were to read up malay drama serials (after the show ended), she's also the MUA for Suria.

Elaine,

as with IC, mine not so westernized lar. Had both ch n also mly wedding - emphasis more on mly wedding.
 
ic..

well still no change lor.. still no trial thats why I am worried , wanted to get my own make up artist, also cannot as they will not rent their costume if I dun take their make up.. fed up...

Charsiew..
How you manage to cut off pork huh ?? tough man.. alot of chinese food comes with Pork.. yummy.. My fav is Prawn Mee with pigtail.. hahaha now cannot eat..

Ally ..
Yeah la.. as least your can still can have the chinses style wedding.. my side only comes with one ..

You gals do enjoy tonight ya.. post us more tomorrow if possible.. have fun !!
 
Elaine,

Tonite's meeting kena cancel lar..interrace had something up so we postpone it to sometime next week when everybody could attend.
 
I am quite disappointed..*there goes my Apple crumble*
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But seriously, it's ok. I hope Interrace is doing ok at home whatever it is that she needed to attend to.

Anyways, before I forget like the old woman that I am these days, next week, I am not available on Thursday (meeting my PS photographer) and Friday ("interviewing an AD photographer). Kena postpone so many times cos' of Meraj's lost passports, better get this aspect over and done with.


Elaine: Have you checked out Kasaisayang. I think that's about the only one (apart from the one I provided earlier) that offers a package in your budget. He's offering S$550.00 to S$1,100.00 for deco. No chair covers though. If I remember correctly, he charges S$2.50 per chair cover. So if you take 200 chairs (which would be the normal range of chairs to cater for 500 - 800 pax buffet), that would be altogether S$1,600.00 for the entire package. I give you his website again: http://kasaisayang.blogspot.com/

Sorry but this is about all the packages I have that's within your budget.

Hope I have helped anyway.

Ally: Did you carry all your photo albums to work to bring to our lil' meeting...? Aiyoh....now you have to carry back home or not? Teruk right on you?
 
Marnie,

since ur not free on thurs. Left tues for me lor..unless..I skip class next week..hehehe!

Its ok lar..anyway, my hubby fetched me from work today, so not a prob.
 
Elaine,
wah..like that huh. Basically, you just need a costume for your ROMM right? Then.. why not you tailor made one baju kurung or kebaya for your ROMM. Then you can hire your own make-up artist.
CharsiewRice
I think they sell charsiew rice at those hawkers at the top floor of Far East Plaza, the one next to scotts shopping centre. And hmm, i think maybe banquet also have?
Ladies,
huh? gathering cancelled?
 
Ally,
oh ok..so The shichida method is more towards maths. Course fees very expensive. Just wondering whether it's worthwhile. You send your children to swimming? Which school?
CharsiewRice,
Have you tried Gymboree before? Do you think worthwhile a not? So now you working, your mom help you take care of your baby? My parents also at first didn't like my then bf/hb. Not becoz of the race issue. But becoz of some other personal reasons. You know lah, parents they always want you to marry the best. But in the end, they said if this is what i choose, then they give blessings. Hey, i also same thinking leh. If it crumbles, i will also try to get on with life with my baby. Actually..quite surprisingly, my parents the other day were talking about it. They said, if that happens, my dad will quit his job to take care of the baby. hmmm....
 
Elaine
No trial for my make-up, maybe i should have paid them to do one for me 'coz when they did my make-up for my studio photography, it was was very unnatural. i won't classify as 'auntie' type of make-up, but the way they drew my eyebrows not nice, too 'angled'. a lot of ppl had difficulty selecting photos for the album 'coz too many nice ones, i had difficulty 'coz i hardly could find nice ones... on the actual day, i told the make-up artist my concern and 'she' did a very nice and natural one for me! i was so happy that day. why i said 'she' is 'coz she was a man. i heard from the mak andam that some brides' mothers don't allow her to do the make up 'coz she's a man, but i didn't care lah. firstly, she was professional (except she didn't do well for me for the first time), could see she loved her job, and she didn't purposely show she's a woman with her gestures, very natural!

By the way, i didn't do inai on my hands, garang garang went to paint my nails, french manicure somemore! kena said at the end of the wedding by mil via hb.

On Pork Issue
I think we are lucky we have places like "Banquet". Actually, a lot of chinese food can be replaced by chicken i/o pork. nowadays, a lot of stalls like those selling yong tau fu put a sign that says "no pork no lard", but since they are not certified halal, then it's different story. When i was pregnant, i went to see a gynae in Eastpoint, most of the time after appointment, i will go to Banquet for 'bak chor mee'.

IC
I will try when I go to Far East. Maybe i should serioulsy learn to make charsiew and open one shop call "The Halal Charsiew Place". but sure no business one lah, 'coz chinese not likely will eat chicken charsiew, Muslims might run away hearing the word "charsiew".

Gymboree
Never tried, i think it's good but expensive to me though. I sent my gal to Tumble Tots, ok lah. Yeah, my mum takes care of my baby. Now my mum and hb ok, i m glad. Mum doesn't have malay friends, and it was a big blow to her when i was dating hb.
 
Marnie..

I checked with kmasaisyang already, called them so many times, keep delayed my request.. they said they were very busy and get back to me.. I also checked the first one you given me, hm... quite ex, so now waiting for inai and kas to get back to me then from there I shall compare again.
thank you very much for the help, it does help for sure.. Next tues meeting I will not be able to make it
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IC...

My ROMM already over, thats why I dont like the make up, it make me look so old like aunty, thats why now I am worried about my make up for Sep on my wedding, Inai insist they will do a good job for me so I just wait and see, as they also do not have any trial for me to try it out sigh ...
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Dear gals (esp.Marnie, Ally & Huichin),

Sorry for not being able to make it for the meet up last min. Something happened at home.
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Ally,
sorry for causing u much troubles to bring the albums to and fro leh, really sorry to trouble u.

Hope will be able to meet up with u gals another time....
 
Elaine: I got an email from kasaisayang previously. In one of my other mailboxes. I'll send to you vide email for you to look see. He charges all the same actually. And yeah. He's a rather busy person cos' I heard a lot of girls engage him (new and cheap but pretty sweet deco).
 
CharsiewRice,
Hey, i also always go banquet at Eastpoint! Where you stay?? Yah. My hubby so happy got places like banquet and Far East plaza there. He don't like to eat indian food. Malay food not always. I don't think the muslims will run away hearing charsiew lah..hahah..if not how can Banquet not make money? You know if you go to the Parkway Parade branch, everytime full! So many ppl. There's one thing i want to learn how to make... that is the teochew kueh and err..that brown cake. Coz my hubby like to eat those and it's so hard to find halal ones. Eh..i don't think some malays know what charsiew means. Like chee cheong fun... when i told my malay friends what it means, there eyes so wide open..hahahah...
Hahahah! I also use French Manicure. But only for my PS. On the AD, didn't even use anything. Not even inai coz i don't like it. And since, last time when my mom got married, she didn't use it, i got even another excuse not to use it.
It was also a big blow to my parents when i dated my hubbby last time. My parents got chinese friends but not those kind of chinese educated ppl. So, they didn't really like it.
I feel the itch to send my baby to Baby Yoga. But my hubby thinks it is a waste of money. What they do there?

Elaine,
i think you want natural make-up right. Malay wedding make-up is very thick. But the other time when my cousin took inai, she specifically told her, she want natural make-up. Not bad..look natural on her. If got next gathering, i show you my ROMM photos. Very simple one lah...
 
IC
I stay in Punggol. The brown cake, referring to those use for praying one, issit?

On inai, sometimes i think it made the fingers look dirty leh, IMO only lah. moreover, i wore kua and gown, very funny to have inai on.

Heard that bb yoga is not very worthwhile to try leh, i m not sure. u never post your bb foto for us to see. or u PM me lah! ;-P
 
Marnie..
Sure thanks for your help, you can email me to [email protected]

Charsiew..
I also did my nails nice nice painted them for my ROMM, ended up my MIL asked me to clean it off.. I was like OH no... there goes my $30 and only last for 5 hours
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coz i didnt know I cant have that as I need to wudu before I did my make up etc.. WOW.. I notice you all really go for hala food ?? I didnt really follows, I tried my best to go for food without pork thats all.. really needs alot of determination to become a good muslim ya.. I am totally out at this point of time..
 
Charsiew,
That's why i ask opinion.. i heard they use itchy bitch yoga or something? hahah...dunno whatlah. Lucky my parents not those too traditional type..heng. Yah..that brown cake! my hubby said they use for praying. The sticky sticky brown cake. You stay in punggol then go see gyane at eastpoint? wah..so far leh.

Elaine,
hahah..you should have ask first before spending the money. That's why during my ROMM, i wore nothing since i don't even want to put inai. During PS, i use french manicure..look more natural. Elaine..actually, it's not necessary for you to wudu before ROMM. It's your husband that need to wudu! Don't worry, with us, you will have lots of determination.
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ic..
huh ?? no need wudu ma ?? my MIL, aunties la all asked me to do so
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I also put inai, but I will not want it for my wedding day.. like what charsiew said, look so dirty after days, somemore mine was dark red after that.. ic.. your baby very cute ya.. but whos hand was that huh ?? baby kena like strangle .. hahaha.. kidding ya
Charsiew you staying in puggol how about the rest ?? me staying in strathmore ave ya..
 
Marnie,

Tks, things are okie for now.

IC...
ur baby very cute...gal or boy? look like gal to me..very cute...very fair the hand of the one who is holding the baby..tat hand is urs ?

me gg to move to north west..Bukit panjang, balloted for strathmore actually, but decided to give it up as the four room really very small and lotsa corners.
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if not will be ur neighbour liaoz..elaine.
me also dun foreseen eating everything halal...even my FH also only eat those which doesnt contain pork.
 
IC
Baby nice eyes!!!!!

Brown cake - sometimes they called it fatt kueh. Yeah, gynae a bit far, may change gynae next time unless gynae changes location, hahaha..

Elaine
Where is Strathmore Ave... some so chim, difficult to pronounce.

Not too sure is it a good time to tell u all but i don't want to lie or hide, i don't go for halal food. don't shoot me ok, i know i m wrong.
 
Elaine, Interrace,
It's baby boy. My hubby is trying to burp him when he suddenly do "big business". So i quickly snap a photo.
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Elaine,
I don't like to put anything on my fingers or nails. That's why wear wedding ring also difficult. Actually, this inai is not a malay tradition. It's heritage is from indian tradition. It's NOT a must to put on.

Charsiew,
hehe...baby follow my eyes. He got 50% my feature, 50% my hubby's. So, does your hubby know that you don't go for halal food? He ok with it? Where you deliver you baby? I delivered my baby at KKH. Are you still breastfeeding your baby?
 
Hi Charsiew rice,

^5..me also leh...still eating non-halal ones,hope to contd to eat as such even after conversion loh.

I dun plan to dip my finger tips in red as what i see from the pics loh , will just do some mani and pedicure for AD.As like what IC mentioned, it is indian tradition.

IC,
ur eyes must be very pretty then, baby eyes very pretty.
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IC
I don't go for halal food but i avoid pork and lard (just to make myself sound better and nicer). hb doesn't 'interfere' much in my life. he's not the type that forced me to go for conversion class, conversion, fasting, etc, etc. he let me do it at my own pace. he knows that if he asked me to do this and that, i will do the opposite and not listen to him! i believe this is also a point that let our r/s survives.

I delivered in mt alvernia. hehehe... that time in laws came to visit me, we were quite worried 'coz every room has a cross. but we analysed that since my malay gynae can deliver babies in a catholic hospital, then there shouldn't be any problem. anyway, we saw quite a few malays there as well. no, i m not breastfeeding. i didn't breastfeed bb exclusively also 'coz had problem latching her on. so, just expressed, but not much though. substitute with FM.
 
Interrace..
Yeah my flat really small 85m, can only plan for one kid in future.. hahahaha.. small also easy for house cleaning, I like there becoz is near to town. I works in orchard ma. my hubby works in clarke quay, sometimes if I out late at night mid night charge for taxi also not so ex.. hahaha.. everyones here already know me by now " a cheapo " if there is a chance come my place for garthering also can.. hehe

ic..
Why my in-laws and families told me is a must to put inai lei, tao yen... I comfirmed dun want that of my wedding day !!!! your baby boy really cute.. whats his name ??

Heng ah.. I am not the only one that dont go for hala food .. phew ... hehe

Charsiew..
Strathmore ave near to margaret drive, queenstown MRT station.
 
CharsiewRice,
Is it a male malay gynae? I think i know where you went! Since you say mt. alvernia. Coz, my friends went there too. He seem to be very popular with the malays. Mine is a female gynae. Took a senior consultant. So have to travel all the way to KKH just for check-up. My baby now is on PBF. And he doesn't want to be breastfed nowadays. He prefers bottle-feed. Sigh... I'm still trying for him to take BM.

Ladies,
Ask you all ah... truthfully, you all convert becoz of the marriage right? Becoz when me & hubby went for the marriage preparation course, seems like my hubby was the only one in the class that converted 3 years before we finally decide to get married.
Oh! I won a baby lucky draw from kodomo!!!!
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Just wondering... how i wish i could win those lucky draws that got car prize... hahahahha
 
Elaine,
Really ah? Can go your place for gathering?
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Hahah..maybe they want to "malay" you? Coz some of the malays said you don't look like a bride if you don't wear that. Actually, when i want to get married, i also kena nagged like hell from relatives. Also kena the musiclah. But mine, inai wasn't the issue. Coz my mom also last time didn't put on. Mine was why there was no exchanges of gifts and why never make at community centre also..and why my baju kurung so simple..why my make-up so plain..why my wedding card like that.. wah lau... this malay relatives also ah..I told my parents, they not footing my wedding bill man..Worst..they even scolded my parents when my parents personally invited them!!! Can you believe it??? already kena like shit from my hubby's side..then my side also. I nearly went crazy man...That's why after what they seen on the wedding day, my malay relatives shut their bloody mouth. Don't dare to say anything. And those two old chinese ppl, can go to hell! Actually hor, i'm not surprise if those 2 actually go temples and visit those dieties or those kind of chinese ppl that always go to them for advise one..(-> dunno what they call) to ask to break up my marriage etc.. never know man.
 
Hi ladies,

finally can sit infront of pc n read all ur postings.

IC,
My childcare had a swimming pool at the backyard. So everyday in the evening they will go backyard n swim. My hb teaches them to swim. For shichida method, ur kid abit too young lah. mostly above 5 or 6 then more worth it.

Anyway, ur baby so cute!!Wat's his name? Ur working or a SAHM?

Ur hubby likes to eat the fatt gao ah? Me too!! I hamtam only..juz go n buy n eat (esp..those fried with flour..yum..yum!!)

Congrats on the kodomo hamper..but I think muz go to the ofc n collect rite? Me also a contest fan..won quite a number of things ..but those big prizes one..seldom lor..sigh..

Interrace,

Its oklar..most impt ur prob settle first, ok liao.

Ladies,

I also..even born muslim..not so particular about food. But husband is though!! so diff gg out with him to eat. Im those type - no pork no lard - ok liao.
 
Elaine
Good location, must be expensive wor!

IC
Yeah, male gynae. quite a nice guy lah. if u r working next time, good that bb drinks from bottle also. my neighbour's bb rejected bottle when she was abt to go to work. kan cheong man, simply wanted mummy to breastfeed him direct.

To be frank lah, if not my hubby, converting is not in my mind. In S'pore, we can go through civil marriage, but i don't want my next generaton to be kena said, u get what i meant. then, they will be even more confused of what's going on. mother is already not a malay, and different religion somemore! i told myself to give it a try first, as u can see, i m not a practising Muslim, but i also believe that i must have some faith before converting, else, it is truely unfair to God, my hubby, and myself.

Malays and Chinese
Sometimes, if u sit down and think, u might wonder what is the big fuss of inter-racial marriage huh? most asians r ok marrying ang mohs so far far away, why marrying someone of almost the same skin colour so difficult? Majority of the ppl link Malays with poor, 'coz when there are free school textbooks, they always feature malay families, child abuse, mostly malay families... but there are also chinese poor families, etc, etc.

I have a very good malay friend, relatives all super high class one, so when a chinese sees them, what can they say?

So two words to sum up "narrow minded".
 
Charsiew,

I think if civil marriage problems will come when ur child is born. Cos as it is..in Muslim law, if either party doesnt convert - it means that ur having an infidelity. Any child comes out from this type marriage will considered as a child out of wedlock.

Talking about interracial marriage and status -

My husband's family - he had a few cousins marrying ang mohs (A dutch, french, australian) + another one married a eurasian (worse off he was understudying to be a priest in a catholic church).

I find that is notreally fair when they are welcomed into the family whereas, myself a peranakan, not really welcomed into the family. But irony is, whenever myself n hubby had a quarrel, my inlaws will say, " y u like tat? we treat u as not as our DIL but like our own daughter.."EH? really contradicting with how they physically treat me leh..

Anyway, on status wise, I do get that often. My father owns a biz, we stay in a landed property n stuff. But we usually heard ppl talking behind our back - saying, mayb my father borrowed money lah, go gambling lar, use illegal money (haram). Ppl tend to have "sore eyes".

But when a chinese drives a jaguar or bought a landed property, its ok for the society. I guess its true..narrow-mindedness.
 
Charsiew..
My flat costed me two hundred and seven thousand.. very very ex lor... luckily I have enough CPF to cut cut cut...

ic..
Sure.. welcome to my place if your dun mind a small hut..hahahaha !! ic.. truthfully.. I convert becoz of marriage, but of cos after attending all the classes , I do belive just that I really needs time to adjust as some rules are really I cant follow.. I really admire your hubby.. I really dunno when I can be a good muslim..
 
Elaine,
ya i saw how small & cosy ur love nest is(went to see the showflat), cos i nearly want to choose there as well.
However the location is very very good!!!
Can even see ck tang from one of the blocks.270K is a ex price to pay for that kinda sqm but for the location is worth it, guess u stay quite high floor then ?
U move there since when ? not many pple moved in yet when i went two mths ago.

IC,
Me definately converting cos of my FH,even though the pple there taught us not to convert for any other reasons.But i do believe in there being only ONE GOD.the rest of the rules and regulations, i have my doubts.
Just like when they tok abt the donation of organ after u die, some say can donate, some say cannot, who should we follow and believe in ?

Ally,
Tks.Things are okie for now at home, really sorry for the fotos thingy though.

narrow mindedness and mixing their culture with their religion, not understanding the very fact that we are brought up the chinese way and trying their best to modify us...just the tot of these put me off loh .but i will have my share of these in the near future.
Actually my FH and me have the tot of civil marriage,more on my part lah ..but he say he will be disown by his family if we do that. so i have to compromise.
 
Charsiew, Ally,
We're living in a cruel world. I used to be very sore about that. And i agree with you Ally, ppl tend to have sore eyes. But now i've learn to let go.

Ally,
I won $80 worth of kodomo products!! Yipee
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Yah, have to collect from the office. Collected already! Me working, then quit to take care of baby. But later will go back to workforce again lah.. hai.. it's because of my boss, don't want to give maternity leave and hai..long story one lah.. next time meet then can chat.

Elaine,
My hubby coz, before that, he from buddhist, then bahai, then christian before settling to islam. But his family are buddhists. They couldn't take it sometimes regarding his changing of religion. Until one day, his cousin wrote him a letter asking, what faith does he believe now. (-> before i know him). So for him, he's searching his own soul as well. Elaine, yours is 4 room or 5 room? Of course i don't mind! Can go see-see.
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Interrace,
If you convert, will you be disown? Actually, there's a lot for you to learn. Even though i studied religious studies from very young..there's still lots of things to learn. You know we have 4 different groups of muslims. Majority in singapore are Shafie muslims. We based not only on Quran but also on the lifestyle of the prophet. Some group based only on Quran for example the muhammadiyah group. So who should we follow and believe in? It's up to you to think what is right. Best is..to study in depth yourself.
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Hi IC,

so does ur hubby believe and embrace islam now?
cos for me i was a taoism (due to my father) then a christian then no more christian then now gg to be muslim.i was very into God and the bible when i was a christian.i read the bible everyday,thus when i start my islam class, where the lect says that islam is based on reasons.
But there are certain rules and regulations set by the scholars which are contradicting and without clear explainations,so where does islam full of reasons come from ? also only scholars and those who learn arabic can understand the quran and in turn pass down their understanding to the rest, what if their understanding is wrong ? cos afterall they are humans and the human mind are quite restricted in understanding certain issues?
anyway, i understand what u mean by reading and finding out myself, i sure will loh. somehow though i feel that there is only one God...which one, i dun noe ?
 
IC,

Wah..How nice..can stay at home at look after your son wor? Both my kids, I missed out on their first year. Always outstation. My 2nd daughter - dun even finish confinement have to go back to work. Straightaway, kena posted to China for 6 mths.

Interrace,

I would agree with wat IC had said though. Best to learn in depth, but normally in singapore, we follow Shafie's teaching. More prim n proper.
 
Interrace,

Im in no position myself to explain the rule n regulations of Islam. But i do read up alot of site in the net for Islamic issues. One of those that I frequent to was www.harunyahya.com

He's has written lots of books regarding Islam.
 
Interrace,
Yes.(according to him). He embraced islam 3 years before we got married.

Ally,
it's not as nice you think it is. In singapore, cannot live on single income. My hubby not big businessman hor.. so i am NOT living tai-tai lifestyle. If not becoz of my that boss, i would still have stayed on with the job. I guess, some bosses out there still degraded pregnant woman.
 
IC,

I think got pros n cons lah, hor. U wan better living condition, u have to miss out of some things esp ur kids development. U know, its so tough working all alone overseas. Only manage to c my kids over webcam only. Tats one of the reason y I left my ex-job strike it out on my own.

Talking about single income - I had a fren who's also a peranakan, married a malay husband. Had been living frugally, cos hubby dun allow her to work (never work all her life). Now preggie with 3rd child. Really dunno how they can cope financially, hubby was an engineer in singtel but got retrenched a few yrs back n now working on contract basis.
 
Ally
Must be hard on you, gotta leave bb behind before she turned one month.

On your friend, i really don't know wat to say... i really admire those ppl who don't have a stable job yet can give birth to a few...
 
charsiew,

Used to it liao. B4 little girl was born, I was already jetsetting.

About my fren, ya lar, we even advised her to think twice about her current pregnancy.
 


Interrace..
Mine is not the tall new flat, me the older one the short short one.. hehe I stay 2nd floor very low hor.. me not that type that can take lift, phobia.. I just moved in for about 4 months..

Ally..
You read alot about Islamic ya ?? you sure to know alot alot.. maybe I should log into the website that you posted there.

ic..
Mine is a 4 rooms flat, maybe should arrange one day ya.. not very nice done up. as budget problem, simple and I just do what suppose to be done lor..
 
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