Sorry for MIA-ing for the last few days! Was busy doing up my website and posting my new releases ^^ Heehee... I guess u all must have receive the either blasting multiply and facebook publicity kekeke...
Jane: i used to want 4 kids when i was young. Coz my bro and me are 3yrs diff and he always dont play with me coz i thk he tot i was childish. These few yrs then i realised he always tot my parents love me more coz i always kena all the caning, scolding and curfew... weird rite? Coz my bro is those v honest and guai boy so of coz they wont scold and cane him lahhh and always thk he knws his fen1 chun4. I rem before i found out the truth, i always felt like an only child.. no one to play with. So i thought having 2 daughers and 2 sons will solve the playmate issue...
But when i was teaching in 2003, i got afraid of the quality of children i may produce since society is really messy nw.. so i decided two is enough but my HB told me then tt he wants 3 kids coz his family is 3-children family...more laughter, joy and company. Yea, so nw i thk min i must have 3 children. Hahaha i love big family.. Mine only 4 pax.. small and quiet everyday...
Rach has graduated from singapore brides and moving on to motherhood!
i was telling a childhood fren abt the magazines girls read:
Teenage,Her World, Female, Style Weddings,Home deco, Motherhood, ParentsHood, whats next after tat leh??? Child's report book? hahaha
hi gals, i am back from korea. wao... veri cold there din get a chance to see the snow but buy a lot of masks back. Nw having a bad cough not feeling well. Where is the place u all toking abt? where is the nearest mrt station?
charma: alamak, why ur MIL like tt one? ehhh next time u put 'do not disturb' at the door lah... tell her off said u wan grandchild then dont disturb us!! :X
jane: kekeke ya lor, i thk my HB so funi.. must test run so many times.. thk his engineering brain trying to be funni.. he thks alot de lah... financial planning and all done by him.. keke like tt i no need worry oso
Jolene: U same as me.. My elder brother also older than me 3 years.. During when childhood times, he will gang up with our cousin with almost same age as him to bully me. But I am not a softee.. I also fight back.. Haahaaa..
Yeah I agree with u.. I feel like a loner esp even when my younger brother was bored. But still, 2 is the maximum for me as i feel kids are not so easy to be fed. heehee..
My hubby said he will settle the problems before we move in..
Now he bothering me with other problems.. Tere is 2 jobs for him to choose.. Now he asked me to help him to choose.
and another is that he eyed a car.. went to test drive already.. but abit too small for him.. now he is asking me to go test drive with him to see if i like.. What an excuse.. Heehee..
sorry unable to join u for MJ before CNY cos I need to clean up my room and was busying doing unpacking and washing clothes fr my HM.
My suggestion to ur MIL
1) I want to wash my clothing, their washing machine is full of clothing (unwash or wash) inside and there is no place for me to hang my laundry.
try to ask ur hubby to settle for u to empty the clothing in washing machine and put in a pail so u can put in urs and wash in washing machine then u jus put back the clothing u emptied.
2) i hang it in the room where we sleeps. then his mum will said I make the room no air ventilation.
try to ask ur hubby to ask his mum if so where to hang. then next time u juz hang tat place...
3) Then his brother also treat the common toilet as his personal toilet. Always put his dirty clothing wherever he likes (where there is a pail to put his dirty clothing).
ask ur hubby to put his clothes nicely in the pail if not ask ur hubby to ask his bro not to do so..
4) Sometimes his brother will used up my shampoo or bodyfoam without letting me know.
keep it in ur room and when u need to bath then bring it to the toliet.
5) Then privacy.. his mother seems to like to keep coming in and out our room as and when she like.. As I said before after she knock the room door, she will keep turning the door knob until u open.
then ur hubby got to tell his mum not to do so..
6) Plus my mother in law also like to inferee whenever i cook or bake something for my hubby.. there was once i bake a plain cheesecake as requested by him as an anniversary gift. Then my mil asked me to put fruits onto it as that is the only way to let him eat fruits. Told her my hubby will get angry if i do that.. and she refused to listen and put the fruits herself.. End up that day, we quarrel instead of celebrating happily.
hmm. hv to do sercetly .. maybe at ur parent's hse..
The DK was not bad,,they have 2 videopgrapher on the wedding day to capture different angle..they charges are pretty reasonable. Becoz mine was a lunch wedding, they gave me a discount as the hours are shorter. the team are all very fun and helpful..they even help my freelance photographer to give lightings when we take photograghs from table to table.
HI iciclediamond, i am sure you will get your pretty pics soon..i havent get any yet as well.just that the PZG n VG are helpful to load it online coz i been bugging them.
actually basically yvonne trying to say.. sometimes those hard to say thgs, get ur HB to say for u ba
It saves alot of unnecessary quarrels with ur MIL...
but hor, its ok to put ur shampoo etc in ur room then need then bring along in a pail to the toilet. Coz in hostel oso like tt de mah.. it also hints to ur BIL wat u are displeased abt and hope he zi4 dong4...
Hi Gals, sorry for mia for so long. Cos just collected the soft copy of my AD photos. Then had to transfer to my brother's laptop, then to my comp. Aiya, very troublesome. Then weekends was bz gg out and also my grandma's bday. Then had to select the photos for my coffeebook album. Very rush so that i can have it by CNY. Finally got abit of time to breathe. Hehe..
So how's the gathering le? Shall we settle on 1st Feb, Sun? At least still got the New Year mood. If drag too long, no mood liao leh. Just come over my place for gathering around afternoon time ba. Then i think Me, Charmaine and Jane can play mj ard evening time right? Or we can all just play some p0ker. New year must play abit, else no new year mood. Haha..
haiz CNY coming le so many tins to do.. i also rushing my photographer to give me the album before CNY.. hehehe...
charma.. ur hubby too dependant on u.. like my hubby also.. everything ask me to decide.. pengz... but good also la.. got the power to make decision.. but he also very stubborn if he decide on something.. he wun change his mind no matter wat i say.. humph!!
sorry gals.. i can't make it.. got another CNY lunch appt that day.. super tired.. i had already collected my wedding photos like 1 weeks after my wedding.. but hor.. until now i haven't organise them yet!! HELP!! 600 photos.. to do..
haix.. jovin where is ur place.. maybe i try to pop by..
Charmayne : advice to you is.. don't bother so much.. don't because of the shampoo and quarrel.. waste ur time.. either u bring it back to your room.. if not just put there and let him use.. (like that u more da fang)
last few days.. i also got some small problem.. cos SIL birthday.. every year i give her ang pow.. but so big liao.. thought this year don't give.. but ended up i still give her lah.. cos hor.. i still staying together with them.. my mentality is that spend some $$, and buy myself peace~ after i move out.. then no more ang pow good idea?
Thanks for e reply Think will get a quote from DK... My big day fall on 101009, hope they are still available .. Btw, possible to PM me their contact cos i cant access to your link leh... If not, possible to relink again cos i remb their seeing contact details in your link yest ;p
same wif lsntyl, my in-laws n mum expects us to give angbao tis yr but there's another saying by my colleagues saying dat 1st yr can b exempted....in order to make everyone happy, we decided to give but den burnt a big hole in our pockets cos it's including buying cny goodies for both sides plus a big angbao
wonder if govt can give tax rebate on tis for young married couples? *hahaha*
Hey gals, ya, i also have this headache of to give or not to give ang baos. But i think i should be giving ba.. Looks more 'da fang' also. Scared later if dont give, then ppl say u 'geow'. Haha.. Esp if u go ur fren's house bai nian, then ur fren's house got kids, if u dont give, abit paisey right? Ermmm....
Yvonne, come la.. Another gathering ma. Else later only a few ppl. Haha.. Lost, u got cny lunch ah? Nvm, come after ur lunch. We organise prob ard 3/4 pm. Dont tell me ur lunch havent end hor. Hehe.. Nvr see u b4, only chat here. Come la.. Btw, my house is at Kovan area.
what i heard from my aunt is that because we just got married and hence we don't have sufficient time to make babies such that our babies 'qualify' for red packets - hence we don't need to give red packets. rather, we should be receiving red packets from elders or something like that....
and so sorry, i won't be able to make it for the dinner tom....you all have a good time!
any kind soul can guide me to seah street deli? where is it located? hehehehe.....
so updated shd b as below:-
3) LSnTYL (for a while)
5) msclaire (for a while)