<font color="119911">hi YaYa,
don't be too upset by such comments/ questions. just do it the way you and your hb like it. coz it's hard to accomodate to everyone...and no matter where you hold, someone is sure to gv some -ve comments de.
it's your wedding mah, so make it memorable for you and yr hb. i feel that no matter where you hold it, friends/family will give you their most sincere blessings de and will not be too bothered about the location or what-not.
so just enjoy the process of preparation and be a happy bride.
i also had the same problem, when i wanted to hold in sentosa, i got feedback that it's too far out. when i chose a central location (read
rchard) i got pple comment tt will kena traffic jam and ERP. then where? like that my void deck best lor. i was so fed up and in the end i chose to ignore. i mean it's good to have constructive feedback and suggestions but not let yourself be too affected by them.
cheers
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