(2005) Brides of year 2005

ting,
heehee...naughty u...heehee...ya lor, actually not much diff cos 2 mths only mah...but u used protection in the most recent bonding rite?
 


newbbi- got use but got this time we didnt n when i chk, realise its durin my ovulation period! seems tat higher chance this time liao if reali 1 shot 1 kill! keke
 
Newbbi,
Doggie position ??? Wouldn the spermie flow out meh????

Linda,
Usually for hygenie purpose, we do clean up every time after bonding...if not, i feel uneasy ya.

Ting,
Ur hb not mental prepared huh???? Although just 2 mths earlier... kee kee
 
ting/newbbi,
true loh, if trying cannt wash.
so got to pray that few try will not give "trouble" down there loh.

ting,
think my hb the opposite as your hb.
told him tt he just recover, wait for another 2 mths, he told me can leow lah, took blood test doc also say recover leow. can try leow.
he actually wanted this week, immediately after his blood test result is out. then todl him, better not loh, next mth will be safer.
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jenn,
agree with you totally. after bonding must wah or clean up, otherwise like "kwai kwai" like dat.

ting,
you huh... 8)
 
jenn- yalor! i also told him got diff meh, 2 mths, nt 2 yrs mah! he says he nid to change his car tyres lah, take his class 2A license n lotsa things to do. tats y i made tat statement =PP
 
jenn,

hahahaah.... maybe loh..
cos he say, now dun try, wanna wait till when, also, not necessary that one time try one time strike one mah. also he say we not young leow. so.... kekekekeke...
 
jenn,
kekekeke...
think not alot of your hb like mine..

sometime when my tummy more bloated after food, he will ask me, are you pregnant?
i was like, huh!!! do you think so?? kekeke..
 
ting,
oic...like that high chance hor... ;p...

Linda,
i ever heard before that if wan to try for bb, make sure that hb is not sick or tired lor, if not, his spermmie is not the "best" leh...
 
Hi all,

Sorry for being MIA....anyone still remember me? So many posting already. Sorry to say that I hardly blend into your topic.
What's the topic for the day?
 
linda- wah i wish my hb like urs leh! he kip sayin can wait, so jin zhang for wat? he actuali only wanted nxt dec but i manage to negotiate n push to jun instead. hehee. thn also say he stil young, dun wan a bb to tie us dwn so fast.
 
newbbi, tks FYI abt BTO at sengkang....tink i won't try loh...mi now everywkend go & view flat...tink most probably will get a 5rm resale instead of 4rm loh...cos now 4rm really v small...
 
newbbi,
ya loh... its true.
actually both hb and wife have to be healthy loh. if for instant, you are taking any medication, also cant try.
that's y, i told my hb to wait for another 2 mths.

hi starrnight,
long time no "See".
 
linda, tink my hb like yr hb...last sat was not feeling well & hv actually vomit & my hb was asking r u preggie!! i say NO cos i got sympton of my da yi ma coming soon...
 
ting, u noe i not into toking abt bb wan...my coll here everyday yr their bb...i got coll v kuo zhuang 1 leh...her girl now is 1 yr old already went studio to tok photo twice liow leh...think 1st time cost abt 500+ (when her girl is 6mth)...2dae she show us album again dis time cost abt 700+ (now 1yr old) so liang fei!!
 
Now you all can see me after all the world cup craze!

Anyone preggie already?

Jam75, you hubby gan chiong to be a father already is it?
 
starrynight, yaloh...my hb like kids alot loh...if 1 wk nv c my niece he will miss her & wanna to go over my mom plc to c her wan!!
 
harlow gals, im back from lunch..

wah, talking abt bb again ah.. in ofc i hear abt bbs talks, in forum oso 'hear' abt it.. haha.

jam - my coll oso another kuazhang one.. her son only 6mths and she sent him go duno wat play-wif-other-kids session every sat.. and u know how much?! - $400 per mth!!! i nearly faintz.. sometimes tend to tink parents nowadays abit too kancheong of their kids.. last time where got such thgs.. i was telling my hub abt it and he still can say "huh?!, play oso muz pay $$ one ah?!" haha.
 
jam,
u are most welcome lor... but resale flats bery ex hor?

Hi starrynite!

All,
Rec a call from teh nuh , my bro going for his OP next fri...thurs admit lor...
 
jam- huh! so fast take studio photos alrdy! reali too liang fei liao. take once ok lah but nt every 6mths lor! faintz

hi starrynite! u plannin for bb soon? =D
 
jam,
hahahhaa... our hb are eager to be father leow.

wow... your coll really kua zhang and waste money leh.

janf,
i am among the youngest in the office and just married. so they all ask me when planning for bb.
at my grandparents hse also, my aunty ask and at PIL hse also MIL ask. aiyo....
 
haha, for me lunch time is always bb talk.... cos out of the 5 gals in my dept, only me and another colleague no kids... the rest all got one son liao and the sons are about 1 or 2 years old.... so it's endless talk about bb.... and each time i'm asked the qn, when u planning? plan now. then today i saw another colleague, she just gave birth 1 year ago and now preggie liao..... so fast!
 
linda - sama sama lah.. hub's grans ask wheneva at his grans' place.. i go home, my ma ask.. i at home, my MIL ask.. i sleeping, my hub ask.. haha.
 
hehe for me is my mum will ask once in a while.... but she knows not to ask me too often cos i will get pek chek.... my MIL never ask and she doesn't bother.... while it's my SIL that will ask when i'm planning to provide a small little companion to her daughter.
 
janf,
wow... sleeping also hb ask you ah...
me not that bad lah..

sometime, hb will just ask if tonight can try a not.
normally i say no. cos i told him that he just recover. fastest can only try next mth. kekekeke
 
janf- got diff meh?? looks the same to me!

for me is i kip askin hb can try alrdy?? thn his std reply, tot we agreed sep? haha.

daphne- lidat the age gap wil be v close but v siong on the mother leh.. hvnt reali recover thn kana again. those who has kids only 1 yr apart lagi best. 1st bb only like 3mths, thn preg again liao.
 
ting, that's what is happening to my 2 cousins and a friend. my friend lagi best, she has 3 kids and all 1 yr apart. good and bad... good cos one shot go thru everything and settle it, bad is financially siong...
 
ting/daphne,

i got one colleague also got 3 kids each one year apart and the 4th one is by accident is just 2 years apart. only 35 and got 4 kids.she really can loh. some more lagi best is she still so slim after giving birth to 4.
 
i cannot imagine how my boss's face will be like if i have one kid each year.... maybe my immediate boss ok cos she's also a mum herself... but it's my dept boss that may have some issues...haha.... cos he's single and swinging bachelor.... and angmo somemore.... he already hinted to my immediate boss that she has to manage me and my colleague well cos we two got married 2 mths apart and he don't want a situation whereby we both are on maternity leave and she's left alone on the team...
 
newbbi- when i tink abt hw doc wil cut dwn there in order for the bb's head to be out, i wana faint alrdy...

jenn- do u hv heavy b/f? since u alwz got late lunch..

my coil got this fren who is alrdy 45 yrs old n hb 10 yrs older. they got a daughter who is in sec 1 liao n they r contented w only 1 child. sekali kana accident when all along they been using protection! they intend to retire early but nw seems imposs w the newborn..
 
Ting,
No, i had only one bun for b/f...cos my internal auditors are here ..hence we hv to wait for them to go for lunch first...just in case, they need to look for us for information but we are not around...
 
haha jenn.. wat i buay tahan is they all tink the bb pop out juz eat live breath air can liao leh.. majiam no need $ involved lidat..

i duno.. to me, unless im mentally and financially prepared then will plan.. bringing up a kid is no easy task.. if u cant provide for then dun try..
 
Daphne/janf
Ya..i agreed, even for a malay family, they can survive with abt $1k salary with curry every meal but we cant

Ytday, my lecturer just shared with me abt the cost bringing up her son...her son used abt $2K per mth for the incentive,school bus, tuition, school ECA and etc... when i heard the cost... my jaw drop....
 
janf/daphne,
i also told my coll that.
they always say, give birth then say.
i cannot loh. unless i am financially prepared to bring the child up. otherwise both the parent and the child will suffer loh.
 
tink we chinese families r more kiasu, wan the best for our kids. hence send them to enrichmt classes even at a young age. n all these of cos nid lots of $$..
 
Linda..
My hb oso if want to hv kid..must make sure we must work hard and save enough for the kid till she/he go to overseas or local Uni...he dun want the child to suffer and us to slog like slaves.
 


haha daphne/jenn, my coll oso said same thg! even my pama oso said same thg - malay (not being racist) earn 1k/mth can hv 4kids, why u cant?!

its different lor.. 1k can hv 4kids but it will juz be the bare minimal upbringing.. and u hv to constantly tink of living frugally for rest of ur life..

wah jenn, i hear u say need 2k/mth for the misc, i nearly fell off my chair!! really so much ah?? but not surprising lah coz if my coll can spend $400/mth juz to let his 6mths old son play wif other kids at some pro sch, the rest shd sum up alot..

grr.. life's tough...........
 
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