morning ladies,
ting/crystal,
i already salute both of you leow. having 2 kids of close age. if got no 3 can understand the "siong-ness" in financial and also how tire it could be.
cos for my case, with inez i already no own time and so busy leow. also financially rather tight, cos hb used up almost all his saving for his 2 years studies. now he is stopping for a while also to save back his money and take a break from studies, cos he said to study and work and with inez, is very tiring.
so for me is cos my health not very good. then also like i also mentioned, my hb work shift, i am most of the time on my own with inez and housework. so to have another one, financially and mentally will be very tiring.
my hb decision to stop at one is because he find that with inez alone, he is alraedy very tire taking care of her. (remember he is on 24 hr shift and only helps me when ask to)?? tell me tired! chey! so he would rather be relax now rather than struggle for another infant.