(2005/09) ROM in Sept 2005


Last night went out for dinner with 4 of my frens cum ex cols all abv 30yrs old.Out of 4 of them,2 divorced no kids & but got serious r/s now & 1 remarried w a kid.The last one not married but got complicated r/s w a millionaire & wld only marry for money.Sigh...

1 of them w a supposedly serious r/s wanted a break w her bf of abt 8yrs but he wont let her go & now treats her like a queen,she doesnt knw wat to do aka lost!

Do u all hv frens like my frens?
 
Tea, gd luck with ur eyebrow embroidery!! i dun think u will look like a witch lah.. u so sweet how to look like a witch??

Dajie and WX, my mum is 2 yrs shy of 60.. short and curvy.. quite ba ba if u know wat i mean.. the designer gave her a shawl.

WX, u shd sponsor Aeris on her bra buying spree!! heehee.. cos u stand to benefit mah.. wahahaha... i think i m the type of giver that wants to be given back in return.. heehee.. my hb says dun need to buy this for him but i still do cos he needs it. But if he doesn't buy something back from me, i'll sulk!! and i m not like Dajie, cannot buy my own pressie!

Jannie, ur post machiam one sentence for one person.. very busy ah??

Dajie, ur frens all very colourful!! hrmm why is the serious r/s gal lost? if no feelings liao no matter how he treats her, feelings won't return mah.. or is she feeling too guilty to do it? OR she enjoys the attention he is giving her??

Anyway i went to view puppies over the wkend. thinking of getting one. My hb wants a border collie, the smartest dog, but i want a lab retreiver. Neither dogs are allowed in HDB flats though.. haizzz plus my neighbours so fussy, they sure complain if they know i m keeping an illegal breed.
 
dajie, me dun hav the same situation as ur frens' but do hav some on the verge of divorce n some persistin to keep their marriage...1 of my fren's wife cheated on him n he forgave her...i was quite uncomfortable whenever we go out together...somehow still worried for my fren dat it might happen again...sigh...

bear, oops...u realised it...haha...abit bz lah but tryin to post more lor...
 
Really cant go MIA for 1/2 day man. So many posts again!!! Juz like my work in office, take leave n my work gets pile up real high... Had training in e morning... damn sply now... yawn*

My mum went to TM to get her clothes yest wif my dad. Called her last evening to ask whether she found anything. She said ya n she bought 4 sets!! OMG!! She cant decide which to get so she bought all saying can keep for CNY!!! Then I tink most prob r those u can use as daily wear one liao loh. sigh... this weekend go over then see wat she bought loh. keeping my fingers crossed... Did suggested her to got for MTM but she says very troublesome. Need to go back so many times for a dress... My dad oso dun like the idea cos he needs to chauffer her ard.

Da jie, think nowadays these kind of things quite 'common' leh. Juz met up wif my gal friends yest n one of them is going out w a divorced guy, older than her by 10yrs. E guy's wife wanted a divorce cos she said she din have enuff fun b4 getting married. After 6 yrs of marriage then she realised that. OMG! Then they went for counselling n the counsellor told him tat he dote on his wife too much till she has no respect for him n become a 'queen'.

Too much of something is always no gd... so muz give n take
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bear, u wanna get a dog ah? me also plannin to get one but hb said wait till i move over den buy...if not MIL sure grumble...was lookin for a smaller breed of dogs but tink abit ex for shih tzu...still dunno which to get though...
 
Jannie, shih tzu quite dumb leh.. heehee.. there is this study called the Intelligence of Dogs and shih tzu is apparently one of the stupidest dog. heehee.. check this link out.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Intelligence_of_Dogs

I dun like small dogs cos the way they bark gets on my nerves!!

My cols just gave me a present for having a buffet tmr. A pair of wedding bears and $200 AB!! heehee... so nice of them... i really didn't expect it leh... cos just wanted my Muslim cols to enjoy also.
 
ah bear, wats tmr's buffet meant for? so nice of them to give u a pair of weddin bear...
not all small dogs keep barkin one...got some very quiet also...
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Jannie, i m not inviting my Muslim cols for my wedding dinner save one so i will be having a buffet lunch for them tmr.. cannot be any later cos Ramadan starts on 24th. so they gave me that pair of wedding bears and the ang bao lor.. really didn't expect that cos i only wanted them to share my joy... heehee..

Okok.. so far i have yet to come across any toy dogs that i dun wanna shoot on sight!! heehee.. most of them are very very cute but when they start barking, its those high pitched 'yip yip'.. machiam eunuches!! heehee.. i like my dog to bark those deep deep one.. hahahaha..

Anyway shih tzu is abt $400... u must know breeders to get such prices.. i m not sure if it is a hardy breed though. So far the hardiest breed seems to be the Lab retreiver. Even the Gold retreiver got a lot of probs.

Aeris, we wanted my MIL to MTM initially but FIL told her that even if she didn't like the product, she also has to take it. so she got scared lor.. anyway i wasn't with them when they went shopping cos i m those type will blow up if she cannot make up her mind.. my SIL and my hb went lor.. heehee...
 
bear, me also like retriever but tink wont b able to take gd care of it...so better dun get it...so far shih tzu is the ultimate choice lor... :p my hb likes it also...dun need such a smart dog since we dun hav a herd of sheeps to run ard...hehe...juz kiddin...
 
damn pissed off.... my mum read my blog n called me saying I din care abt her feelings when I wrote my blog entry. I went back to read it again. I'm writing the truth. So? Tat's wat she told me ah. She keep harping on the fact that a lot of money is spent on raising me up. Which parent dun?? I told her that all the AB is oso returned to my bro the other time. So? She said that last time Dad was the one who handled the AB. This time round she's handling so diff. I dun tink that's a valid reason loh. Tat time my bro got financial aid from his MIL loh. But my wedding only me n HB paying for everything loh.

I know I short of cash to buy my flat n she offered to lend me. But if I have the ability to pay for it, I won't want to borrow money from her.

My blog is the place where I vent my frustration n how I feel towards certain things. If this cannot write that cannnot write then wat's e point?
 
relax aeris.. parents will say but when the AD comes..they will not do that if u tell them that u dun mind giving some $$ to them if you can break even. What i think ur mom means is the AB tat ur relatives gave u, considering the number of tables ur hb gives them as downy.

my mom also asked for the AB from my side of relatives. But after the whole thing, she asked me abt the loss incurred. Told her still manageable..then she asked me if i wanna the relatives' $$. Told her since she asked for the tables, the $$ gave her lor.. coz i know she collected not much.. at most $2k for 7 tables.

Worse come to worse, tell ur mom if she wan $$, u give her but be prepared to see u two eating bread for at least half a yr.. confirmed she will give in.. coz no parents wan the impression of selling and illtreating daughters.
 
Aeris, ur mum reads ur blog ah? mmm...tink she shld not flare up but tink abt wat u said in the blog lor...seems like the pot is callin the kettle black...oops...dun mean to say bad abt ur mum but it seems she did not care abt ur feelings too...mayb u shld hav a talk wif her n explain how things shld b done...try not to hav arguments wif her...$ issue is always the root to every quarrel...
 
Cherz.. mine medi at $180 for 1 mth dosage eh... just started not long ago.. c how the result first.. so ex arh...

Aeris.. parents tends to compare with malaysia BS.. coz it's cheaper as it's in RM.. but as long u happy and u hv alr taken yr PS, then don think too much liao.. try to hide from parent for something like dajie said.. else they will feel pain for u..
 
Maruko.. I had that kind of feeling b4... the scenario seems familiar to me... like it did happen b4.. haha...

Yr hb is cute.. ask u to write a book.. hahaha...

Dajie.. u watch too much harry potter??? hehehe... some dream really scary.. feel like real one... u eying for bags?? wah... i think i cant get one again in near future ba... saving real hard now.. haiz...
 
tweety, its been awhile since u post a msg... :p great to c u back...my hb told me to write a book coz everytime me will tell him wat i dreamt n he said "wa...so interestin" haha...
 
Wah cool down Aeris... parents are like that one.. normally they are very nice until it comes to the wedding.. then they all go crazy.. how come they dun realised it just ONE GODDAMN day?? must be so particular meh? anyway ur mum quite cool eh? know how to read blogs!! heehee.. my parents dunno i keep one.. :P

Sheryl i think wat Aeris say is that ALL the tables given to her parents, the AB will be kept by her mum lor.. and her mum insisted on that.. non-negotiable.. my parents are increasing from 10 tables to 12 tables.. but hb just give lor... he rather give them then hear them talk abt him behind his back. that haven't incld my dowry yet.. so u can imagine how much my hb has to cough out... i told my mum that we would have to scrimp and save for the next few yrs then she will say, 'dun give say dun give lah. ur cousin so-and-so gave so much. blah blah blah.." hear liao also sian...

Jannie.. ya u are right.. heehee no sheep around.. wahahaha.. i think u can consider a maltese too.. a bit smarter than shih tzu.. heehee... the Bichon frise also. soooo cute..

Tweety u see doc for ur face? i also leh.. each time go is a big hole in my pocket! no choice, cos my acne not severe enough for meds, and my skin too sensitive liao..
 
Cherz, the last time i ordered from whoever is cheaper. so i was actually using 2 different shops. i don like to haggle prices.. so didnt bother to tell the shop to lower their prices. so far, no prob.
 
Kyra.. wah.. what happen... sorry that i didn follow all the post here.. kind of busy...
hopefully everything ok for u...

DH.. don worry abt not celebrating on actual day with yr wife.. she'll understand that...

cherz.. where's yr flat ha???

anise.. how's the ballotting result ha??
 
I'll be ok once I whin n compliant but not for her lah. She'll rack it up n talk abt it e next time she's angry wif me. which i really hate. sigh...

My mum now on long term MC cos she fractured her leg at work last Dec. So she got a lot of free time at home n learn how to go online, check emails, etc. She could read my blog cos my bro always nv log off from his friendsters so she went friendsters n look at our stuffs there loh. My blog is in my friendster one mah.
 
Tes, i dun like to bargin too. I oso dunno how to. lol. So I juz compare price which is cheaper then I buy from who loh.
 
Tea.. me nv tried.. kind of timid too.. haha... but u gotta do maintanance every 1-2 yrs leh.. the colour will fade...

Bear... for mother's gown, u may try metro??

Jannie... I'm v v busy lately.. and no msn allow.. don even hv time to go toilet whe busy...
so will pop here more often ya...

Bear.. ya.. my face getting worse so go n c doc b4 it turn really bad lor...really burn a hole in my pocket...
 
WOWEE!! we are HOT!! heehee... first time in a loooong while we managed to clock so many posts in a day!!

Aeris, u can complain to us lah.. that's what we are here for.. heehee.. wah how come ur mum fractured her leg?? ur mum quite smart hor... know how to play with the internet.. my mum not gd at such things!! so lucky for me...

Tweety, ya gg to Mel and Sydney.. still waiting for hotel confirmation! so slow! i still need to book internal flight from Mel to Syd cos i die die wanna take SQ!! heehee... Dajie will be so happy to hear that i support her company!

My mum and MIL bought their stuff liao.. anyway i told them i m the bride, got the most things to do. dun ask me to do stuff that they can do themselves.. :P
 
hey tweety, any news on your EC? when is the TOP?

Aeris: yeah, i find bargaining very tiring. so thailand is not a good place for me to shop. i usually offer them a price, if they don take, i will go, if they accept i will buy.

Tweety: after the medication, is it better? i am very prone to breakout too cos my skin is generally oily and i do a lot of outdoor stuff. my mum been asking me to go see a skin doc...

I like westies. They are the dogs on the ceaser dog food.
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very intelligent dogs. but no dog for us in the new house yet as i don want to see my beloved furniture being chewed away.
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maybe another 4-5 years when the furnitures are old. ;)
 
Aeris.. yr mum so hightech arh.. good thing both parent n in law don know anything abt computer.. hahaha..

Wah.. reno need to know alot of thing hor?? i scare when my turn, i'll be blank.. haha...
 
Bear.. SQ ex rite?? but the service n environment inside is much better... most of the engineer in this company like SQ>.. hahaha...

Tea... heard that TOP is 1st quarter 2008... so long sia... haiz...
I just started the medi few days ago.. cant really c the result yet leh.. but i saw my friend face really v v good eh... but 1 thing is i nv c hers b4 medi lor... I went there with my colleague, her face also got pimples, AD next yr.. ahhaha... so she go with me....

U thinking of one too??? maybe if good then i recommend u lor... Bear also got one rite?? cherz too.. maybe they can tell u if it's good or not???
 
Tea, westies are cute too.. heehee.. i like their ears.. standing up one.. heehee... u can always draw ur eyebrows mah.. then 'got' eyebrows liao... i also dun have, have to draw.. heehee...

Tweety, ur EC is fully furnish right? only minimal reno so dun worry..
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anyway if we are still around i m sure we are more than willing to help.

Wat medicine are u on? antibiotics or roaccutane? roaccutance is damn gd but there are many side effects. cannot get preggie when u are on it and u suffer from chap lips and dry skin. cos roaccutane is a high dose of Vit A that controls sebum production. Heard in USA that roaccutane users are prone to suicide!!!
 
btw, anyone got lobang to good and reasonable house cleaning agents or companies? those 1 week come ur house to clean up once that type?
really very tired to clean up.. esp with all the glass door etc..
dajie, how u managed to clean the whole glass one.. mine will see a layer of dust after 2 weeks..
 
Heehee no worries Sheryl... I also looking for someone to do the cleaning!! heehee... aft work i just wanna rest.. dun wanna do more housework.. U asked abt the glass door? i have no prob leh.. issit the cloth u use? u know for car windscreen, there is something called Rain-X, to repel water. I spray this on all glass surfaces lor.. not sure if it helped though but so far i dun have a prob with dust. got probs with fingerprints.

Ya today we very hardworking.. heehee... those logging in at nite will have a shock!
 
i used the glass wiper and newspaper.. for the
balcony door.. very dusty.. even these 2, i surrender.. shower screen is more towards water mark.. we got no problems with fingerprints.. coz till now.. windows only cleaned once after handing over.. ahahhehehe..
very diff and tiring to wipe.. some more got grilles.. sob sob..
 
jannie> got time go n watch....its nt bad.

cherz> my hb's aunt loan it to me during my fil's bday celebration! I like it cos the ending is good n its nt the damn sad sob story kind. Its about teenagers etc, reminds me of last time when I was that age, always have misunderstandings etc
 
Bear, hahaha I really got a shock when I log in! half of the posts were in archive!

Tks for yr feedback on the Hitachi washer. Guess I must think twice. Linda recommended this washer. She says F&P washer has a “tube†in the centre which will spoilt the buttons on the clothes.

Heard SIA having a recruitment.
 
Dajie,
I don’t have frenz who have so complicated relationships.

Just that one of them recently wants to divorce with the hb after giving birth. Reason being the hb too bad-tempered and she din wan to put up with him anymore. And my frenz hates her MIL who is staying with them. I feel their main problem is communication breakdown. Anyway both parties are headstrong. They are going have a talk tis sat. Hope something good comes out of it.

Tweety,
my flat at Bt Panjang.
 
Aeris,
parents tend to treat their children differently. Well just have to depend on yourself and get used to the nagging. Hee I am tuned to that but sometimes will feel frustrated too. Me will not be getting any “sponsor†from my and hb’s parents for AD or reno. Have to depend on ourselves.

Jannie,
I cant open the website.

Maltese is a very obedient breed. Its really a toy dog. I never ever heard my aunt’s Maltese bark once. Think its abt 4yrs old now.

I used to have a Jack Russell. Hyper-active so it’s a no no! It really takes a lot of patience n love to keep a doggie. So think twice ya!
 
cacphin... ya.. here got alot of experience home owner to share with me... hahaha...

Bear.. it's almost fully furnish.. need to get lights n furniture lor...

I taking Roaccutane now... my colleague also said it's good.. just that got side effect like u mention lor.. for me still ok for this 1-2 yrs, coz hv no plan to hv baby now... maybe after my face 'smooth smooth' then stop liao lor... u took that too??

jannie.. ya.. really busy leh.. this few weeks work till 7pm wor... then saturday also full day arh.... I don dare to hold liao... kena pain b4...

Bear, jannie... heard that newspaper with spray can clean glass better leh...
 
any comments on Rinnai hob and hood?? not sure which brand to get and whether the chimmey or convenient ones.

Tea,
which F&P model u using?
 


Gd morning!

Sue ah, post more lah... so quiet recently... wait i come and nag at u again... wahahahaa...

Sheryl, i dun have the probs. if u are talking abt windows, then of cos mine is pretty dirty.. heehee... but those internal glass doors i have no probs leh.... strange hor... me no grilles yet so can rest for a bit!

Cherz, i dunno, some ppl prefer a certain brand while others don't. honestly continental washers use less water and electricity. some of the more famous brands are F&P, Thomson, Brandt, Electrolux. My Electrolux uses only 49L of water for one whole wash! heehee.. Jap/Korean brands typically use 3x that amt. I think Anna got the Thomson one (that's my first choice).

Hopefully we will be just as hot today, as we were yesterday lor...
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wah ur fren's prob still haven't settle. did she go and make sure she isn't suffering from post natal blues?

Hrmm Rinnai not too bad.. think i got a forum fren that used it and she said it was gd. however try not to get those glass hob type. cos there are cases where the glass broke. and when u are cooking, there's bound to be times when u accident bang down ur crockery.

Tweety, Ur face that bad meh?? i tot u got a pretty gd complexion! roaccutane is for pretty serious cases. do read up more on roaccutane on the internet. Late last yr the FDA decided to study the side effects of roaccutane cos too many teens on it were committing suicide. That's why i didn't take it. And even aft u finish one yr course of roaccutane, ur pimples will still return. Heard from my frens that it will be better to wait another yr or so aft stopping before trying for babies. I dun like taking pills cos there are bound to be side effects. only whether u see them now or later.
 

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