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April 2025

The Wedding Weekend Explained: The Rise of Pre- and Post-Wedding Events

By Tansey Tang

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What’s behind the rise in pre- and post-wedding events?

Weddings have always been a cause for celebration, but in today’s world, the celebration often goes far beyond just the big day. From welcome parties and sunset cocktails to post-wedding brunches and recovery days, couples are embracing multi-day wedding experiences that extend the joy and deepen the memories.

So what’s behind this trend? Let’s explore why more couples are opting to celebrate for longer, and what these extended wedding festivities typically include.

Why Multi-Day Celebrations Are on the Rise

1. The Modern Couple

Many modern couples today are getting married later in life, which often means they’re more financially secure and able to invest in multiple wedding events. Couples are also increasingly diverse, and a wedding weekend allows the blending of traditions from different cultural backgrounds in beautiful and meaningful ways over several days.

2. The Destination Wedding Effect


One of the biggest reasons for the surge in extended wedding events is the increase in destination weddings. Friends and family may be flying in from different countries or even continents, as people increasingly live, work, and maintain relationships across borders. Couples want to honour the effort their loved ones made to attend by creating more moments to gather and connect. For many guests, the wedding is also a rare reunion—so a single evening doesn’t feel like enough time.

Guests, too, tend to be more affluent or experienced travellers, which makes them more receptive to destination events and longer itineraries. Welcome cocktails the night before, beach days, cultural activities, and farewell brunches are just a few ways couples extend the experience for guests who have come from afar. It turns the wedding into a mini-vacation for everyone involved.

3. The Value of Quality Time


A traditional wedding day is a whirlwind. Between getting ready, photos, the ceremony, and the reception, there’s little time for meaningful one-on-one conversations. Couples often feel like they didn’t even get to speak to half their guests.

Pre- and post-wedding events provide additional opportunities to connect. A welcome party allows the couple to greet guests more casually, while an after-party offers the couple a chance to let loose after all the formalities are over, and keep the good vibes going with their closest friends.

4. Creative Expression and Personalisation


Couples today want their wedding to reflect who they are, and a single event can feel limiting. Pre- and post-wedding events allow for different moods and styles. A couple might host a more casual welcome dinner, an elegant black-tie wedding, and raging after-party in a club.

These varied events give couples space to showcase their personalities and interests while ensuring each gathering has its own unique flavour.

5. Different Social Circles


With so many different social circles, from university friends, work colleagues, extended family, and childhood connections, to community or cultural groups, it can feel rushed and chaotic trying to meaningfully interact with all these people in just one evening. By hosting a series of events, couples can tailor each gathering to a different crowd.

A casual welcome party might bring together out-of-town guests, while a pre-wedding breakfast at home can be more intimate for close family. A late-night after-party could be geared toward younger friends, and a day-after brunch offers a final chance to connect with everyone in a more relaxed setting.

This approach not only helps the couple spend quality time with each group, but also makes guests feel more seen, welcomed, and valued.

6. Social Media and Wedding Culture


Let’s face it: the rise of Instagram and TikTok wedding content has influenced how couples plan. There’s a growing emphasis on experiences that are visually appealing and memorable, not just for guests, but for the couple’s online presence.

Multiple events offer more opportunities for photos, videos, and storytelling. This isn’t about showing off—it’s about capturing memories and creating a narrative around the big day.

Types of Pre- and Post-Wedding Events

Here are some of the most popular events couples are including in their wedding timelines.

Welcome Party

Usually held the night before the wedding, this is a chance to greet guests and ease into the celebration. It’s often more casual than the wedding day and sets the tone for the weekend. It could take the form of sunset cocktails or a yacht sail during a destination wedding.

Group Activities

Think wine tastings, sunset sails, hiking trips, spa days, or city tours. These build camaraderie among guests and make the celebration feel like a retreat.

After Party

For those who aren’t ready to end the night after the reception, a late-night after-party keeps the energy going.

Day-After Brunch

A relaxed way to debrief, say thank you, and close out the weekend.Chloe and Patrick’s Epic Pre-Wedding Adventure on Padar Island and in Bali by Darren and Jade Photography

Things to Consider When Planning Multi-Day Events

Multi-day celebrations can be magical, but they also come with logistical and financial considerations.

Be mindful of guest fatigue

Not everyone will be able to attend every event. Build in downtime and don’t take it personally if some guests skip an activity.

Communicate clearly

Provide guests with a detailed itinerary ahead of time so they know what to expect. Use a wedding website, app, or printed welcome packet. Make planning your wedding weekend easier by collecting RSVPs to each event in advance.

Set a budget

Extra events can add up quickly. Prioritise the gatherings that are most meaningful and consider co-hosting some with friends or family to offset costs.

Match your vibe

Don’t feel pressured to go big just because others are. Whether it’s a backyard BBQ or a glamorous rooftop dinner, choose events that reflect your personalities and values.

A Celebration That Reflects Connection

Weddings are no longer just about the ceremony and reception. They’re about creating moments of joy, intimacy, and connection that span days, not just hours. Pre- and post-wedding events are more than trendy extras, they’re thoughtful extensions of love and gratitude, offering couples and their guests more time to celebrate what really matters.

In a world that often feels rushed and scattered, these extended celebrations reflect not only the couple’s love but also the increasingly global, diverse, and interconnected lives we lead.

Credits: Rebecca and Kin’s Stunning Colonial-Style Wedding at AYANA Resort Bali by Terralogical

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