hi Guys,
Do you have this problem that you feel your husband really doesnt care how you feel or what u think?
I have been having this problem with my husband since we got married. I felt cheated after marriage.
We have been together for over 10 years now, but we go married 5 years ago.
First of all, sex was a problem. I know it is weird for a wife to have tt problem when usually it is the men who usually desires this. But in my case, i feel like i had to beg for it most of the time. I initiate it all the time till im frustrated to ask anymore. To date the last time we had sex was a little over a month ago. Before we got married, we had sex every other week and i thought this was what we’ll engage in post marriage but it was worst. It is not that i asked for it every day. I only ask to do it once a week then once in two weeks. But eventually i just didnt ask anymore.
It was worst after i gave birth.
He’d show annoyance at the slightest things disregarding the situation that i am in. Like managing the child and yet expecting me to pay attention to him. He doesnt help around the house unless if asked him.
When i tried to share with him my problems, he’d just go silent like he didnt care or sometimes just tells me to ignore the problem. Smthg i would to someone who i wont care about and want to change topics. In terms of intimacy, we dont show it anymore. Whenever i askwd him for sex, he’d just say he is too tired, having migraine BUT his thumbs seem active enough on mobile legends. He’d stay up late to play his stupid games.
Now i wonder if i should just leave him. I talked to him but there are still no improvements. I regretted marrying to be honest.
I remember crying at some nights when i was rejected. My sniffles are loud enough that he’d notice. Even then, he didnt do anything.
I want to leave him but i think of my child. I dont know what to do.
Do you have this problem that you feel your husband really doesnt care how you feel or what u think?
I have been having this problem with my husband since we got married. I felt cheated after marriage.
We have been together for over 10 years now, but we go married 5 years ago.
First of all, sex was a problem. I know it is weird for a wife to have tt problem when usually it is the men who usually desires this. But in my case, i feel like i had to beg for it most of the time. I initiate it all the time till im frustrated to ask anymore. To date the last time we had sex was a little over a month ago. Before we got married, we had sex every other week and i thought this was what we’ll engage in post marriage but it was worst. It is not that i asked for it every day. I only ask to do it once a week then once in two weeks. But eventually i just didnt ask anymore.
It was worst after i gave birth.
He’d show annoyance at the slightest things disregarding the situation that i am in. Like managing the child and yet expecting me to pay attention to him. He doesnt help around the house unless if asked him.
When i tried to share with him my problems, he’d just go silent like he didnt care or sometimes just tells me to ignore the problem. Smthg i would to someone who i wont care about and want to change topics. In terms of intimacy, we dont show it anymore. Whenever i askwd him for sex, he’d just say he is too tired, having migraine BUT his thumbs seem active enough on mobile legends. He’d stay up late to play his stupid games.
Now i wonder if i should just leave him. I talked to him but there are still no improvements. I regretted marrying to be honest.
I remember crying at some nights when i was rejected. My sniffles are loud enough that he’d notice. Even then, he didnt do anything.
I want to leave him but i think of my child. I dont know what to do.