Need Help!

[dhivs]

Hi there,

I am going thro a lot in the last 2 years of staying in singapore, i moved back to india last oct. Ever since my life has witnessed a roller coaster ride. He started doing all sorts of things behind my back, Craiglist seeking friends, meeting, chatting, drinking with strangers, visiting massage parlors, traveling to johor, prostitutes.. u name it.. everything under the sun. BTB we r married since 4yrs now and have been seeing each other for more than 10yrs before that.

I tried to confront him on his last trip when he came home, but his only answer is denial. His only answer is that he is clean and not done anything wrong. I recently tried to hire a PI and it worked out to be very expensive, they charges 2k for 8hrs following and came back and said he went home that day. Very disappointing. Can anyone suggest what best for me to do?

 

[dhivs]

Kokusai is the PI, they really don't do a good job, they expect me to tell them a few hours in advance wen my hubby is leaving home and wat his plans are for the weekend, so that they are alert. Anyways had a very bad experience.

 

[inxsyoung]

hi, my fren is working as a pi, if you need some of his professional advise, feel free to email me for his contact. [email protected]

 

[christinec]

Hi there,

I am going thro a lot in the last 2 years of staying in singapore, i moved back to india last oct. Ever since my life has witnessed a roller coaster ride. He started doing all sorts of things behind my back, Craiglist seeking friends, meeting, chatting, drinking with strangers, visiting massage parlors, traveling to johor, prostitutes.. u name it.. everything under the sun. BTB we r married since 4yrs now and have been seeing each other for more than 10yrs before that.

I tried to confront him on his last trip when he came home, but his only answer is denial. His only answer is that he is clean and not done anything wrong. I recently tried to hire a PI and it worked out to be very expensive, they charges 2k for 8hrs following and came back and said he went home that day. Very disappointing. Can anyone suggest what best for me to do?

Hi there i am sorry to hear about it i think that such behavior is totally unacceptable and should not be tolerated from a spouse!
There must be a reason why someone would enter a marriage and choose to act in a certain way or perhaps he/she has already had such character from the beginning.
I presume that you are both living apart right now and you either choose to stay in this marriage and tolerate this behavior or decide to do something about i such as carrying on with your own life alone ( if there are kids then perhaps counseling or therapy might help)