hi, everyone. i can see where u all coming from. Btw, im not living with the little girl atall . her clothes? well, i bought them from paragon. decent blouse with sweet little pink hearts. n her biological mum while visiting her say to MIL, size nt fitting n went to change to spahggetti tops, which is her biological mum fav.
i dont choose to give birth to her. she is not my responsibility. n to be fair, when i choose to be in this relationship, i dun even know her existance until much later into the relationship. her mum shd bear all these insults from u all n nt me. she is the one who bring her ard when baby n 1 yrs old plus to her frequent trips to her affair's home. thats is wAd my MIL find out last time. the girl is under my hubby mums care n not us. my hubby n me r living w my own family. n mind whoever says i shd put up my child for adoption. cos u have no rights to say this. cos my son is nt gg to be educated this way. i as a mom n choose to give him a life to this world, his future is my responsibility. im gg to delicate all mu love n time solely to him. my husband family brought up is wad the result of his daughter, scolding vulgarities n stuff at such a young age. therefore, i already make it clear to my hubby, i wont allow my son to be staying at their place n follow the girl's foot step.
Her life might be ruin now, but not my son. frankly, i dun haven that time, that responsibility, that generousity n that love to care for her. her one life ruin is better than i divorce my husband n my son ruin. thats why i dont care... i let it be for the mum to teach n care. its true im selfish, i dont choose to give birth to her. sorry to be so offensive as im still angry n hatred for the mum is still very strong.
i already tell my hubby straight, if need be... i will choose divorce if his family or hubby himself to going to set a bad example to my son.
Taking care of my own son is gg to be a headache n not easy, do u think i will have time for that one girl who is nt my own ? But the thorn in my flesh? why shd i sacrifice time for my son for the girl? im not a God or GuanYin... My heart cant be that open n forgiveness is nt easy for me... sorry