Hi ellebao
The no of times to do jie mei is pure hearsay with no feng shui logic. If your own bazi destiny chart have good marriage luck, you can do 20 times and you still have a loving marriage, and vice versa, so not to worry abt this
And 3 mths before and after your ROM , you cannot attend red/white events.
Hi YongQi
2015 tong Shu will only be out next year sept. so now can only use bazi to calculate. If you want to wait for tong Shu to check general dates,you can only do it ard aug 2014